The Validation Thread

[English Lady]

hey everyone.

I'll be dishing out today i think, though all hugs are appreciated


*hugs* Cloudy, hope it all works out love!

Who else needs hugging and snuggling?

 

[Guest]

OMG!!!
I feel your pain and wish I could come there and get you.

i thought we had a road trip planned. what?! skipping out on it now?!

 

[ABSTRUSE]

i thought we had a road trip planned. what?! skipping out on it now?!

I couldn't hot wire the damn bus!!!

 

[Guest]

I couldn't hot wire the damn bus!!!

excuses.
well, fuck, there goes my day dream.

 

[ABSTRUSE]

excuses.
well, fuck, there goes my day dream.

we all have dreams.

 

[mlady_france]

we all have dreams.

*le sigh*

 

[rgraham666]

My husband lost his job Wednesday, and seems to be in no hurry to find another. I guess homeless appeals to him.

*HUGS* cloudy.

I know you though. You're too smart and too tough to let this put much of a crimp in your life.

 

[ABSTRUSE]

You always validate me Scarlett.

Yes, I am feeling unappreciated. I got to hear how everything is my fault again... that's always lovely

I live in that world.
You're a spectacular person in my book.

 

[mlady_france]

I live in that world.
You're a spectacular person in my book.

Ditto on both accounts.

 

[carsonshepherd]

I live in that world.
You're a spectacular person in my book.

thanks, i'm really not the asshole i'm told i am... i'm trying to do better.

 

[ABSTRUSE]

thanks, i'm really not the asshole i'm told i am... i'm trying to do better.

I know you're not, we all do. Do better for you, it's all about "ME" and too bad if others don't like it.

 

[carsonshepherd]

I know you're not, we all do. Do better for you, it's all about "ME" and too bad if others don't like it.

well, you can't do anything about other people and their problems, but you can try to change yourself. that's all we can do and it's much more peaceful when we accept that.

 

[ABSTRUSE]

well, you can't do anything about other people and their problems, but you can try to change yourself. that's all we can do and it's much more peaceful when we accept that.

You're Da Man!!!

 

[impressive]

My husband lost his job Wednesday, and seems to be in no hurry to find another. I guess homeless appeals to him.

Good, God! I hope that doesn't ALSO mean he's hovering around all damned day long making your life miserable-er.

(and 'cause I just gotta: some )

 

[cloudy]

Good, God! I hope that doesn't ALSO mean he's hovering around all damned day long making your life miserable-er.

(and 'cause I just gotta: some )

of course it does.

backatcha

 

[OhMissScarlett]

thanks, i'm really not the asshole i'm told i am... i'm trying to do better.

Yes, we're trying to teach him to be a better asshole.

C'mon I know you can do it.

 

[mlady_france]

Yes, we're trying to teach him to be a better asshole.

C'mon I know you can do it.

Now that's the spirit.

 

[AppleBiter]

Make with the validating.

 

[yui]

Yes, I am feeling unappreciated. I got to hear how everything is my fault again... that's always lovely

You know, one of the most liberating moments in my life, and in my ex-marriage, was when I realized that I wasn't responsible for his happiness; and that I was never going to make him happy, he had to do that for himself. He was responsible for his own happiness, not me.

I'm a fixer, a make it better person, but I have this mantra that I have to keep repeating in my head, "I am not responsible for this. I cannot be responsible for this." It doesn't work all the time, but it certainly helps.

Luck, Carson. And if I haven't told you often enough, I think you are one of the most brilliant minds I've ever encountered and I am thankful for the privilege to know even this small part of you. In this electronic medium, where your life overlaps mine, I love you, even.

Hugs to Cloudy. Trying to hold together your life, when it's all changing around you isn't easy. I will tell you that you are strong, a warrior, but know that it's okay to be afraid, too. I hope that you find peace and a safe harbor very soon.

Much luck to all,

Yui

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Make with the validating.

We wub you.
*snuggle*

 

[AppleBiter]

We wub you.
*snuggle*

Thanks, Scarlett. *snuggles back*

 

[ElizabethWest]

I am so fucking pissed right now that I am going to stay out of the AH for everyone's sake.

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[OhMissScarlett]

I am so fucking pissed right now that I am going to stay out of the AH for everyone's sake.

Oh, Sparky. Sorry to hear that. I have some mad voodoo doll skills if you need my services.

 

[English Lady]

*hugs* applebiter -you are wonderful!

Elizabeth *hugs* we look forward ot you being back in a sunshinier mood love. you brighten this place up

 

[hugo_sam]

*hugs* applebiter -you are wonderful!

Elizabeth *hugs* we look forward ot you being back in a sunshinier mood love. you brighten this place up

EL,
Are you always this cheery? I've been browsing and learning the boards/threads; You are by far the nicest and cheeriest person I have seen on any thread.
Thank you for brightening the day!

Hugo