The Validation Thread

[carsonshepherd]

vella.... there is nothing we can do to hold on to people, if you love her you have to let her go. she needs her indepedence now, but when she grows up a little she'll return to you and be your best friend.

 

[Guest]

vella.... there is nothing we can do to hold on to people, if you love her you have to let her go. she needs her indepedence now, but when she grows up a little she'll return to you and be your best friend.

i know...i know! it just hurts is all. rational and irrational battle this issue all the time. but you are right and i hope...hope hope that we have the friendship that my mom and i had. that would be so cool.
i think that this type of parenting has to be the hardest than any other. it is, afterall, the time to let go...youre right.
i still dont like it?

 

[carsonshepherd]

i validate your feelings of not liking it, then

 

[English Lady]

*gentle hugs*

vella, it might be the way life is but it still is upsetting. I know you know she's only doing the independance thing, and I know you know she needs to, it's all part of that growing up thing. I also know you're doing a bang up job of being a mum.

It's ok not to like it and to get sad at the passing of time, just don't dwell on it love, there is so much positive to look forward to

 

[Guest]

carson, yous da bestest, thank you

EL, well hell, you is too.

ok, im better now. thanks for the couch time guys!

 

[English Lady]

My pleasure vella love

 

[English Lady]

Just felt it right to bump this thread this morning *bump*

 

[hugo_sam]

carson, yous da bestest, thank you

EL, well hell, you is too.

ok, im better now. thanks for the couch time guys!

Good bump EL
Love to bump with you anytime.

How are you this AM?

*hugs* *cuddle*

 

[English Lady]

Sorry i missed you Hugo - I've been looking after my sister all day -she's off work with a viral infection *belated hugs back*