The Open Marriage Thread

[TwoInStAuggie]

We're in an open marriage. In fact, we've had an open relationship since we first started dating five years ago. It's worked out very well. We have a few conditions but basically we give each other permission to include other people into our sex life with or without the other one present. It's not something we're really aggressive about, however. We're just open-minded to it happening if the situations present themselves which they have on occasion.

I wouldn't call it polyamory. Or swinging, for that matter since we rarely meet up with other couples or go to clubs to meet people for sex.

How many people here have similar-type arrangements? I know there are dozens of swinging websites out there but does anyone know if there are websites or online discussion groups that focus more on the open-marriage thing and less on the swinging thing? The swinging Lifestyle is sort of a turn-off to us.