The "Lazy" Dom

[SweetErika]

What do you like to have your pyl do when you're feeling lazy, not up to par, or otherwise unenthusiastic about play that requires a good amount of physical effort?

For instance, tonight I feel like *some* kind of play, but my body's protesting against anything too physical (e.g. lots of impact play, strap-on sex) and my tiredness is preventing creativity. Easy sounds good when I'm not on my game like this. I'm attempting to compile a list of ideas to turn to when I want easy!


Thoughts from both PYLs and pyls are welcome, of course. For general direction, I'm mostly looking for ideas that can be applied/adapted to a male sub in this case, but I'll play with women in the future, so ideas for them are cool, too.

 

[kinkyknickers]

Tie them up and leave them in the middle of the loungeroom floor. If they're anything the_mgp they'll go all subspace and forget you're even there. That way you can catch up on that last chapter of the Stephen King novel you were reading.

 

[minx1]

My D will sometimes have me massage him.

I love it

or now and again he will just have me suck him if he doesn't feel like anything too strenuous, which I love too.
I also adore it when he gets me to read erotica to him....though it makes me squirm a little

It really doesn't have to be anything too full on....if it makes him happy, I get a huge amount of pleasure

 

[intothewoods]

A self-proclaimed "lazy Dom" in my local scene is into electricity play. On that note, I have seen a Domme friend of mine use a zapper of some sort (sorry, I'm not sure about the details!) on her sub/hubbie's balls. Minimal effort, lots of impact!

Objectification works well for both genders - use the pyl as a footstool, that sort of thing.

I'm still voting for the zapper though!

 

[Netzach]

Cocktease and denial. Ever amusing, easily accomplished.

 

[JMohegan]

What do you like to have your pyl do when you're feeling lazy, not up to par, or otherwise unenthusiastic about play that requires a good amount of physical effort?

For instance, tonight I feel like *some* kind of play, but my body's protesting against anything too physical (e.g. lots of impact play, strap-on sex) and my tiredness is preventing creativity.

Sounds like a good time to put the creativity ball back in his/her court.

Lie back on the bed or in your favorite position, smile or give That Look or whatever strikes you to set the mood, and say the equivalent of: "Get me off." Nothing precludes you from twisting, biting, pinching, etc., at various points along the way.

If you want to up the ante, add the equivalent of: "Reward or consequences at a later date, depending on how you do."

 

[the captians wench]

Sounds like a good time to put the creativity ball back in his/her court.

Lie back on the bed or in your favorite position, smile or give That Look or whatever strikes you to set the mood, and say the equivalent of: "Get me off." Nothing precludes you from twisting, biting, pinching, etc., at various points along the way.

If you want to up the ante, add the equivalent of: "Reward or consequences at a later date, depending on how you do."

I had a play mate who would do this. It was usually because I had talked him into coming over when he really didn't feel much like it. He'd prop him self up on the bed in a very relaxed position and just let me blow and play with him until he got off, or felt like fucking me or something like that. Was very relaxed, but always amazing sex....tho him and I pretty much never had a bad encounter.

 

[SweetErika]

Cocktease and denial. Ever amusing, easily accomplished.

That's pretty much where it ended up going last night. And we managed to fit a really good conversation in there, too.

I also made him wear the precum-soaked panties I had him put on last night to work today. I can just see him sitting at his desk, squirming.

 

[midwestyankee]

That's pretty much where it ended up going last night. And we managed to fit a really good conversation in there, too.

I also made him wear the precum-soaked panties I had him put on last night to work today. I can just see him sitting at his desk, squirming.

I like the way you think.

 

[DeservingBitch]

I want a zapper.

 

[intothewoods]

I want a zapper.

Yay! Woot woot for zappers! It looked scary as hell, but I don't even like static shock. Of course because I hate it, I was also totally fascinated.

 

[midwestyankee]

I want a zapper.

I want a sub for nights when I'm feeling lazy (or otherwise, for that matter).

 

[Kajira Callista]

I want a sub for nights when I'm feeling lazy (or otherwise, for that matter).

Are you accepting applications?

 

[midwestyankee]

Are you accepting applications?

No, I'm afraid not at the moment due to extenuating circumstances.

 

[PertPerth]

Ice cubes...hot wax...

 

[SweetErika]

Ice cubes...hot wax...

Yeah, that can be pretty easy in and of itself, but the prep and cleanup can be kind of a bitch. Plus, I find wax takes a lot of energy and focus because I'm obsessed with safety and it's one of those things I enjoy putting everything I have into.

I was thinking about this thread last night, and I realized my perfectionist tendencies can make easy very hard for me. I like to give play my all, physically, mentally and emotionally, so anything less than that can feel like failure and dissatisfying. I don't usually have trouble turning a relatively simple idea into something more elaborate, but it is difficult for me to find activities that are very simple and satisfying in their own right, at least when I'm mulling them over. This is definitely something I need to work on and develop!

And, hey, where's Bunny?! I figured she'd be here, sharing her wealth of Lazy Domme ideas, already!

 

[sexycaz22]

I would love to hear some more Lazy Domme ideas, for one!



Anyone wanting to share????

 

[Harmony_1985]

If he's feeling lazy, I get told I'm to make him cum as many times as I can in a set amount of time and I can do what I like to make it happen.

If I do a good job, he musters the energy up to return the favour. If I don't, I get nothing, and seeing as I get rather aroused when giving him a blow job, it makes that rather hard for me.

So of course I have to make sure I do my best LOL

 

[Dominant_Chef]

If he's feeling lazy, I get told I'm to make him cum as many times as I can in a set amount of time and I can do what I like to make it happen.

If I do a good job, he musters the energy up to return the favour. If I don't, I get nothing, and seeing as I get rather aroused when giving him a blow job, it makes that rather hard for me.

So of course I have to make sure I do my best LOL

What does he do to make you cum?

Treat you to ANOTHER McDonalds?

 

[Harmony_1985]

What does he do to make you cum?

Treat you to ANOTHER McDonalds?

 

[VelvetDarkness]

What does he do to make you cum?

Treat you to ANOTHER McDonalds?

Fuck off and die you pointless little turd.

*punches iggy*

 

[Harmony_1985]

Fuck off and die you pointless little turd.

*punches iggy*

Heh.

I'm not giving him the reaction because that's what he wants.

That's all trolls want, is to goad a reaction out of you.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Heh.

I'm not giving him the reaction because that's what he wants.

That's all trolls want, is to goad a reaction out of you.

Well now he's on iggy he won't get one from me. Just think blatant rudeness like that deserves a quick 'fuck you.'

 

[Harmony_1985]

Well I think I've done a pretty good job at revealing he's a teenager with his dick in his hand so meh lol

 

[myinnerslut]

some of my favorite moments are the lazy moments where Master is working on the computer or watching tv while i curl up at his feet. last night he had me lay my head on his leg while he sat and fiddled on the computer and ran his fingers through my hair. very low energy stuff for him, but a very powerful moment for me.