The female orgasm

[DarkPulse]

Personally, as a guy, I find this as one of the best turn ons. Whether she squirts, or screams, I find plenty of joy in her climax and helps bring me closer to my own. It's actually my main priority during. Even if it's not during the act of sex, even if I'm simply playing with her, not receiving any myself, I still sort of get off on her climax. Is there a word for that? Or am I just a sucker for making a girl happy?

 

[Nidan]

Personally, as a guy, I find this as one of the best turn ons. Whether she squirts, or screams, I find plenty of joy in her climax and helps bring me closer to my own. It's actually my main priority during. Even if it's not during the act of sex, even if I'm simply playing with her, not receiving any myself, I still sort of get off on her climax. Is there a word for that? Or am I just a sucker for making a girl happy?

Dunno but I'm pretty much the same. I think it's a healthy attitude towards women, sex and enjoyment.

 

[BongoGal]

Female orgasms are my favorite kind to have.

 

[fed0ra]

Haha. Have to agree with BongoGal.

The most satisfying ones are the ones he owns. And the more control he has, the more often, the more intense, they are.

 

[curious12154]

My guy is the same I think. I can tell he really enjoys my orgasm (obviously not as much as I do!) and he's the one who will move my hand, as an instruction almost, to try and get myself off. Its so hot when he does that!

 

[munch2much]

I couldn't agree more. It's just a huge turn on when the girl I'm with orgasms.

 

[Tomtom11]

Nothing is better than when a woman orgasms. Unless you count two cumming together intimately. Though a whole big group of women cumming altogether would be tops. A choir of lust.

 

[zont]

Nothing is better than when a woman orgasms. Unless you count two cumming together intimately. Though a whole big group of women cumming altogether would be tops. A choir of lust.

"Choir of lust" very good!

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

Love when a woman cums... The more vocal the better... My current lover is very quiet and, other than her pussy contracting around my fingers, is not easy to tell when she goes over the edge. Until recently... I've used the g-spot massage technique on her and after half a dozen orgasms she starts to make these very sexy mewing sounds...

 

[fed0ra]

My noise levels are directly proportionate to his expertise. A skillful man is heaven sent.

 

[Ex Princess]

Dunno but I'm pretty much the same. I think it's a healthy attitude towards women, sex and enjoyment.

I agree.

 

[amie1984]

I also enjoy orgasms

 

[Ahi_Viking]

Ah Yes

There's nothing finer. Many of my happiest moments revolve around getting a lady off. One of my fondest memories is from when I was just 20 and on a date with a woman the same age as my mom. I was still naive and learning how to please a woman. She pulled her legs up and I started really going deep and long (hoping she'd like it). She begged me to not stop, started tightening up on me, and we both climaxed together, both yelling out at the same time. Haha...I feel like that was my graduation to manhood. On our previous date We were going at it doggy style and I reached around to massage her clit and she came quicker than the few younger ladies I had been with before - her body shuddering hard. Mmm, I rember her fondly.

 

[Ezpickins]

My first real girlfriend and I were making out in the middle of her living room floor covered from head to toe in an afghan blanket. Her 2 sisters and little brother were on a sofa behind us watching the tv over us. We were fully dressed and really enjoying macking on each other.
With my knee propping the blanket up to shield our movements I slid my hand down her flat tummy over her shirt at first. She breathed deeper as we kissed. Emboldened, I slid my hand to the hem of her shirt then back up caressing her tummy. Slowly, I pushed my hand down into her jeans. My mind and my heart raced as I pushed my exploring fingers under the wasitband of her panties and through her blond pubes.
Her breath caught as my fingertips slid over her clit and rested there as we continued to kiss deep and sensuously. Her hips lifted upward urging my hand deeper between her legs. My fingers explored further and found her literally dripping wet. I was so excited as I was afraid I might cum in pants without her even touching me.
Still staying quiet with her siblings so closely her breathing became rapid as I sank my middle finger into her wetness. She pushed her hips up slightly into my fingers and leaned her head back breaking our kiss. Here entire body went rigid and she stopped breathing completely. Her face flushed, her eyes softly closed. Her body shuddered slightly, I had no idea what was happening.
Inwardly I was afraid she may be having a seizure or something when after what seemed like an eternity she opened her eyes and smiled at me with a huge grin turning her blushing face away. Whispering, I asked, what was that?. Breathily in my ear she whispered, I just came really hard
I was enthralled to say the least. I had read every erotic story i could get my hands on in my Brothers porn mags but had never had witnessed this wondrous phenomenon first hand.
I would love to say she reciprocated but it didn't happen. After gazing lovingly into each others eyes for a moment we pulled the blanket down and just held each other watching the rest of the game show pretending nothing was going on.

I've been an addict of the female orgasm since. The idea that I had participated in an act that caused this person to give in to her desire and open her soul to me was something that I never will forget and forever be thankful for.
What is there not to love about a female orgasm?

 

[Ezpickins]

Dead thread already? such a cool topic.

 

[DarkPulse]

Dead thread already? such a cool topic.

Well, hopefully it stays afloat. Great post by the way. I have to thank Bond for my first time bringing my then-girlfriend to orgasm. We had been thinking about the topic for quite some time, but one night, during a james bond marathon, it came to the scene in "World's not enough" where he nails electra. Having seen "golden eye" and "tomorrow never dies" prior (she loved Pierce Brosman), it finally got to the point of us seeing enough soft core porn to where she started sitting uncomfortably in my lap. Me, trying to be sneaky, starting kissing her neck as bond began smooching up electra. I moved my hands across her belly, gently rubbing under her shirt until I managed to slip under her waistband of her jeans. I tickled, I teased, I kissed, all until she squirmed, squealed, and felt my fingers get soggy. She enjoyed it, but I didn't get any in return because I had 'taken advantage of her and made her miss part of the movie' (her words). I didn't care, it was one of the most thrilling experiences I've ever had.

 

[fed0ra]

Ezpickins, makes me jealous.

The first time I had an orgasm was when I was lets say, learning about sex. Reading a romance. Not knowing what was happening as I played with myself. Just trying to ease this feeling, reduce the pressure. I was reading about these 2 people at it. Following the story through touch. Hehe. But I don't think the books were very graphic. Breasts, nipples, these were fine. Between the legs, euphemistic words don't tell you much when you have no clue. Anyway, following the main characters, touching myself, rubbing a little here, some more there, not exactly sure what I was doing, suddenly I was trembling, my body tense. And there it was. Totally unexpected. Blew my mind. Had to see if I could make it happen again. I have been an addict ever since.

My first orgasm, with someone, was about 9 years later, with my husband. We were just neighbors then. Not even dating. One evening I was alone in my apartment. He stopped by and we just ended up on my bed. I didn't realize until then that my old boyfriends and lovers were just lame, I guess.

 

[Ezpickins]

Well, hopefully it stays afloat. Great post by the way. I have to thank Bond for my first time bringing my then-girlfriend to orgasm. We had been thinking about the topic for quite some time, but one night, during a james bond marathon, it came to the scene in "World's not enough" where he nails electra. Having seen "golden eye" and "tomorrow never dies" prior (she loved Pierce Brosman), it finally got to the point of us seeing enough soft core porn to where she started sitting uncomfortably in my lap. Me, trying to be sneaky, starting kissing her neck as bond began smooching up electra. I moved my hands across her belly, gently rubbing under her shirt until I managed to slip under her waistband of her jeans. I tickled, I teased, I kissed, all until she squirmed, squealed, and felt my fingers get soggy. She enjoyed it, but I didn't get any in return because I had 'taken advantage of her and made her miss part of the movie' (her words). I didn't care, it was one of the most thrilling experiences I've ever had.

Great story.

Sometimes ya have to sneak up on them to please them

 

[Ezpickins]

Ezpickins, makes me jealous.

The first time I had an orgasm was when I was lets say, learning about sex. Reading a romance. Not knowing what was happening as I played with myself. Just trying to ease this feeling, reduce the pressure. I was reading about these 2 people at it. Following the story through touch. Hehe. But I don't think the books were very graphic. Breasts, nipples, these were fine. Between the legs, euphemistic words don't tell you much when you have no clue. Anyway, following the main characters, touching myself, rubbing a little here, some more there, not exactly sure what I was doing, suddenly I was trembling, my body tense. And there it was. Totally unexpected. Blew my mind. Had to see if I could make it happen again. I have been an addict ever since.

My first orgasm, with someone, was about 9 years later, with my husband. We were just neighbors then. Not even dating. One evening I was alone in my apartment. He stopped by and we just ended up on my bed. I didn't realize until then that my old boyfriends and lovers were just lame, I guess.

MORE!! Great story!
For young guys with girls, it's like test driving the space shuttle. The details are complicated for a successful launch and the ride is usually over before we get the controls figured out.

How often did you practice with yourself to make sure it wasn't an accident?

 

[fed0ra]

Like a bunny. Too many times to count. That stuff is addicting. I still keep going back or seconds.

 

[duckyquack]

Orgams and laughter - the best medicine

I think as men we are programmed to want to our women to orgasm. It feels to me like a kind of self-validation, confirmation of being a man.

There's also the theory that making a woman laugh is the same principle but on a smaller scale. I know sometimes when I have cracked a joke and a girl has laughed uncontrollably, it is also a fantastic feeling for me.

 

[Ezpickins]

I think as men we are programmed to want to our women to orgasm. It feels to me like a kind of self-validation, confirmation of being a man.

There's also the theory that making a woman laugh is the same principle but on a smaller scale. I know sometimes when I have cracked a joke and a girl has laughed uncontrollably, it is also a fantastic feeling for me.

I agree. If ya can't dazzle 'em with brilliance, baffle 'em with bullshit.

Laughter and orgasm release many of the same endorphins so it's win/win

 

[Mindfondler]

Personally, as a guy, I find this as one of the best turn ons. Whether she squirts, or screams, I find plenty of joy in her climax and helps bring me closer to my own. It's actually my main priority during. Even if it's not during the act of sex, even if I'm simply playing with her, not receiving any myself, I still sort of get off on her climax. Is there a word for that? Or am I just a sucker for making a girl happy?

I can relate to this completely.

In my case, there's the added spice that my wife and I learnt sex together from no previous experience. It took us quite a while to figure out my wife's route to orgasm, but since then her climaxes have become increasingly intense and drawn-out.

After many years, we're at the point where my wife's pleasure can be a long and rousing symphony of many movements. It pleases me immensely to contribute to it as, apart from the sheer visual and aural spectacle, it's a very satisfying celebration of what we've achieved together.

What's more, I believe there's plenty more that we can still learn to do together. I'm on the case!

 

[SwtSassyNrse26]

Ezpickins YOU get a gold star !!!!

 

[Noor]

Personally, as a guy, I find this as one of the best turn ons. Whether she squirts, or screams, I find plenty of joy in her climax and helps bring me closer to my own. It's actually my main priority during. Even if it's not during the act of sex, even if I'm simply playing with her, not receiving any myself, I still sort of get off on her climax. Is there a word for that? Or am I just a sucker for making a girl happy?

Great lovers are like that.