The difference between men and women

[thequietstorm]

I think its funny yet a little sad that men have such low self esteem. Almost everyone has a problem with self esteem but right now I am focusing on the men because that is what I have been noticing lately. I admire both the women and men who post on this site without thinking about what will happen. Most of the time alot of men answer back with clever (or not so clever) lines. But women never really ask people what they think of the pictures yet men always feel the need to. I used to be like that but I got tired of feeling like it mattered. I really think that men should work on their self esteem a little.

Men, practice getting into the mind-set that you look good. Do something that scares you or makes you uncomfortable every day of your life and then you can say that you have a life. Post your pictures without fear of rejection because if you live life in fear, you will someday regret it. Most women will love the pictures you put out and if they don't...then what will you do? Give up? By feeling rejected and giving up because of one or two people, you deprive dozens or even hundreds more of something great!

Remember, if we all looked the same women would be bored out of their minds. Everybody loves variety.

I hope that this will reach all of the men here, no matter if you are skinny or husky, tall or short, young or old, bald or have hair as far as the eye can see. So to all the men of 'Lit, please for the sake of both the men and the ladies, keep posting those pictures. Just remember...women like variety in your photo's too....

I will now step down from my soap box.

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

You will never understand because you don't have a willie.

All men are hung up on the size of it - even those who say they aren't.

You can bet someone somewhere has 18" and is thinking "You know, I wouldn't mind if it was a little bigger, just a couple more inches."

And then there is the big fear that the man next to you at the urinal has a bigger one but you don't dare look for fear of being mistaken for Julian Clarey.

 

[His_kitty]

Mad_Jack_Rabbit
You can bet someone somewhere has 18" and is thinking "You know, I wouldn't mind if it was a little bigger, just a couple more inches."

somethin that size would scare the fook outta me.


I know that women can be very hung up on the size of their breasts, but I haven't seen them say, "How do you like my ta-ta's? Are they big enough? Perky enough?" Bta that could be due to the fact that others are so willing to give them feedback as to how wonderful their attributes are. *shrug*

 

[Aquila]

You will never understand because you don't have a willie.

All men are hung up on the size of it - even those who say they aren't.

You can bet someone somewhere has 18" and is thinking "You know, I wouldn't mind if it was a little bigger, just a couple more inches."

dude trust me, there are some men out there who wish they where shorter

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

You wern't listening closely. I've heard a few women say 'I'd like a bit more,' and there are plastic surgeons making a fortune out of it.

And when the surgeons can do decent, safe, realistic penis enlargments there are going to be plenty of men going 'Well I had boosted to 24" but you know, I still didn't feel it was long enough."

£10 says they do.

 

[Aquila]

You wern't listening closely. I've heard a few women say 'I'd like a bit more,' and there are plastic surgeons making a fortune out of it.

And when the surgeons can do decent, safe, realistic penis enlargments there are going to be plenty of men going 'Well I had boosted to 24" but you know, I still didn't feel it was long enough."

£10 says they do.

dude NO, women take a look at 9s and routinley say "ohhh no that will hurt".. so why the HELL would you get more than that?

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

dude trust me, there are some men out there who wish they where shorter

Yeah, I know what you mean. Damn that urinal wall can be called and I really hate having to watch out for the broken glass in the drain.

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

dude NO, women take a look at 9s and routinley say "ohhh no that will hurt".. so why the HELL would you get more than that?

I blame subliminal advertising by KY Jelly manufacturers Johnsonn and Johnsonn.

 

[His_kitty]

dude NO, women take a look at 9s and routinley say "ohhh no that will hurt".. so why the HELL would you get more than that?

I have to agree, I mean I'd like to be *useful* to the next man I might be with.

No one is perfectly satisfied with their body and how they look, why else would cosmetic surgery be so available?

 

[BgMma]

If I could afford it, I would have all kinds of PS done! A lot of lipo, a bit of a tuck here or there, maybe some breast reconstruction, it's endless.
There isn't one thing about me that I wouldn't change.

So, guys, I am going to tell you this right now, unless your woman is a porn star, or she is REALLY kinky, nine inches in sometimes way too much. Hell, seven is almost too much for me to handle, so think about that the next time you feel you are too small! Hell, It isn't stopping you from going down, and more women appreciate that than your dick size!

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

If I could afford it, I would have all kinds of PS done! A lot of lipo, a bit of a tuck here or there, maybe some breast reconstruction, it's endless.

There isn't one thing about me that I wouldn't change.

What about SEX?

Sure there is a such a thing as 'too big' but that's a practicle thing.

Body image is rarely rational hence some men (and not necessarily all) want a little bit more.

 

[BgMma]

Sex doesn't mean too much to me, if you want to know to truth.

It is great for easing tension, but other than that, oh well.

But size does matter. If you can hurt your partner, then I dont' know what to tell you. Men need to relax. There are all kinds of things you can do to "make up" for the small things. SO what?

If you enjoy it and your partner enjoys it, then you are just fine. Give me a six incher over a nine incher any day!

I mean, I like it hard and fast, the deeper the better. I just can't handle it when the guy is too big. I like a bit of pain, but rip your guts out, bleeding pain isn't for me!

I really don't think I answered your question, so you may have to putit another way. I am out of mood stabilisers and I dont' think right. BLEH

 

[BgMma]

And personally, I like heavy guys. Big, heavy guys. For example, I like JazzManJim. Big guys. That is what I prefer. I like all men, just big men do it for me!

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

I meant 'change gender'.

People please note:

I am a flippant pedantic bastard.

ON NO ACCOUNT SHOULD YOU TAKE MY POSTS SERIOUSLY.

Including this one.

 

[BgMma]

I meant 'change gender'.

People please note:

I am a flippant pedantic bastard.

ON NO ACCOUNT SHOULD YOU TAKE MY POSTS SERIOUSLY.

Including this one.

You know what, I think I would change gender. I think I would make a great guy. I am funny, charming (when I wish to be), and I actually have a job. And going by what I know about guys, I would probably be packing like my best friend. He and I are about the same body type, and we wear the same size ring. 11.
I don't know about this, though. I have really gotten used to the cramps.
I don't care if you want to be taken seriously.
I like to answer your questions. They make me think,

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

No! No! No!

Damn you woman!

Stop taking my posts seriously right now!

Ya hear me?

 

[thequietstorm]

I dont have the biggest equipment but I have learned to not care about that. I love sex but its not the only thing we have going for us. I hope...

I hate to say this as we have all heard it before but most people think that quality matters more than quantity. Example: You ask for a slice of a resturants best pie and they give you three whole pies that taste awful. Which would you rather have?

 

[BgMma]

I dont have the biggest equipment but I have learned to not care about that. I love sex but its not the only thing we have going for us. I hope...

I hate to say this as we have all heard it before but most people think that quality matters more than quantity. Example: You ask for a slice of a resturants best pie and they give you three whole pies that taste awful. Which would you rather have?

I agree. Quality is so much better than quantity.

 

[ma_guy]

I think its funny yet a little sad that men have such low self esteem. Almost everyone has a problem with self esteem but right now I am focusing on the men because that is what I have been noticing lately. I admire both the women and men who post on this site without thinking about what will happen. Most of the time alot of men answer back with clever (or not so clever) lines. But women never really ask people what they think of the pictures yet men always feel the need to. I used to be like that but I got tired of feeling like it mattered. I really think that men should work on their self esteem a little.

Men, practice getting into the mind-set that you look good. Do something that scares you or makes you uncomfortable every day of your life and then you can say that you have a life. Post your pictures without fear of rejection because if you live life in fear, you will someday regret it. Most women will love the pictures you put out and if they don't...then what will you do? Give up? By feeling rejected and giving up because of one or two people, you deprive dozens or even hundreds more of something great!

Remember, if we all looked the same women would be bored out of their minds. Everybody loves variety.

I hope that this will reach all of the men here, no matter if you are skinny or husky, tall or short, young or old, bald or have hair as far as the eye can see. So to all the men of 'Lit, please for the sake of both the men and the ladies, keep posting those pictures. Just remember...women like variety in your photo's too....

I will now step down from my soap box.

IMO, the difference is that many (not all but many..) of the threads started by guys in the Am. Pics Forum are guys that just signed up and are hoping to impress a woman enough to get laid. Many of them seem more immature than insecure. They aren't much different than the guys that post in the personals section asking for someone to show up at their front door and give them a blow job or demanding phone sex in their 1st post.

You state up front that women seldom ask others what they think but I don't buy that. There are plenty of threads in there were women post one pic and then make comments about needing "encouragement" before they post more. They're seeking positive ego strokes too. They just aren't as crude in doing it.

 

[LadyG]

Re: Re: The difference between men and women

IMO, the difference is that many (not all but many..) of the threads started by guys in the Am. Pics Forum are guys that just signed up and are hoping to impress a woman enough to get laid. Many of them seem more immature than insecure. They aren't much different than the guys that post in the personals section asking for someone to show up at their front door and give them a blow job or demanding phone sex in their 1st post.

You state up front that women seldom ask others what they think but I don't buy that. There are plenty of threads in there were women post one pic and then make comments about needing "encouragement" before they post more. They're seeking positive ego strokes too. They just aren't as crude in doing it.

Darlin', your just such a loveable little hedgehog!

 

[thequietstorm]

You make some good points ma_guy. First, in retrospect, I think you are right. I think that alot of "men" around here are more immature than insecure. A sometimes fine line that seems to be drawn by age more often than not. Thank you for catching that. I started this thread in the heat of passion without completly thinking it through. One of us has their head on straight. Thank God!

I also stated that most "women never really ask people what they think of the pictures" that they send out. This is not really true. I was generalizing. I realize that the are alot of women who both ask for and need encouragement. For the sake of saving space on my original post I chose to keep the subject of womens posting habbits short as it was not the point. Hopefully this did not hurt anyones feelings. If it did I am sorry. That was not my intention.

Thank you for a little looking deeper...

 

[horny_giraffe]

Speaking for myself, I don't have a great deal of trouble with my body image. Except for some minor persistant acne, I'm basically in good shape. People say I'm good-looking. I've got an adaquate penis and I've been told I'm a decent lover.

My self-esteem is much more degraded by my lack of a resume--all those achievements that people my age should have on their resume: degree, wife, children, career... Now that is depressing.

Can we go back to discussing penis size, now?

 

[TWB]

I think its funny yet a little sad that men have such low self esteem. Almost everyone has a problem with self esteem but right now I am focusing on the men because that is what I have been noticing lately. I admire both the women and men who post on this site without thinking about what will happen. Most of the time alot of men answer back with clever (or not so clever) lines. But women never really ask people what they think of the pictures yet men always feel the need to. I used to be like that but I got tired of feeling like it mattered. I really think that men should work on their self esteem a little.

Men, practice getting into the mind-set that you look good. Do something that scares you or makes you uncomfortable every day of your life and then you can say that you have a life. Post your pictures without fear of rejection because if you live life in fear, you will someday regret it. Most women will love the pictures you put out and if they don't...then what will you do? Give up? By feeling rejected and giving up because of one or two people, you deprive dozens or even hundreds more of something great!

Remember, if we all looked the same women would be bored out of their minds. Everybody loves variety.

I hope that this will reach all of the men here, no matter if you are skinny or husky, tall or short, young or old, bald or have hair as far as the eye can see. So to all the men of 'Lit, please for the sake of both the men and the ladies, keep posting those pictures. Just remember...women like variety in your photo's too....

I will now step down from my soap box.

*Huh? Where??*

 

[H piltdown]

I hate to hijack a thread, and go about shredding it, but...nah! What the hell? Here's a couple of peeves....

No. 1

I think its funny yet a little sad that men have such low self esteem.

If I hear that psycho babble B.S. one more time, I'm going to...well, maybe not. Just what is self-esteem? And, what difference does it make if your self-esteem is through the roof, or just plain dirt? I can imagine Hitler, Stalin, and Manson being poster boys for high self-esteem, and Einstien, Hemmingway, and James Madison exemplifying the opposite end of the spectrum. Different things drive different people.

No. 2
The size of a person's sexual organs - usually, (a few people, men and women alike, are self-centered egotistical pricks, but is that what you really want?), have very little to do with true love and long term happiness. So, why the hell worry about it? I will admit that a hard cock two inches long is probably fairly useless, but the average man is just a little over five inches in length. So, who cares? And, if some guy wants to say, "Uh, really, Dude? But I'm eight inches soft." No one is going to give a good rat's ass, other than your very sore, or very disappointed lover. Even a soft or a small tool when used correctly can be very effective. Most of our erotic excitement and fulfillment comes from between the ears--Not from between the legs.

As far as this obsession some women and men have about breast size, don't fret it. The lady with the 34B is more likely to be a knockout when she gets to be my age. We have been involved with 'alternative lifestyles' for years, and believe me, after 35 years the once small breasted young lady has a lot less to try to keep up. We all will have our time to shine. The trick is recognizing your time, and running with it..

No. 3
And, Mr. Horny Giraffe, you seem pretty young, (by the acne comment, much younger than I am). Are you honestly ready for the wife, kids, a boring damned job, and a pain-in-the-ass house in the 'burbs? Man, there's time. Too many people get hitched, and try to hang onto this monogaous type fantasy for all the wrong reasons. It's easy to find a girl, and play, and have a good time. Most of us get along great then. The hormones are still driving our sex life, and she's still the hottest thing you've ever seen. But then...Ever wondered why so many people have affairs?


I dunno. Maybe, I'm just over the hill. Why do we all worry about the wrong things? I've never found happiness in big tits, a fat cock, or some vague quotient that's supposed to determine how I feel about myself. For me, happiness has always been found in a good book, a shared pleasure, a warm touch, and the love of family and friends. The rest is lagniappe.

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

My self-esteem is much more degraded by my lack of a resume--all those achievements that people my age should have on their resume: degree, wife, children, career... Now that is depressing.

Can we go back to discussing penis size, now?

Degree [tick] Wife [tick] Children [tick] Career - bugger I knew there was something I'd forgotten to do. Still three out of four arn't bad.

Let's go back to penis size.

Okay, I agree with the idea that size doesn't matter and it's more a case of what you do with and with whom and who you are. Still I am willing to bet money that the most man most confident about his penis size will still, on rare occassions look down and think "a little longer might be nice. Maybe a little thicker too." So why the hang-ups on size?

I think it's body proportions.

A 5" to 7" penis performs both its functions well. Fits into the place it's meant to fit in, and directs the stream well away from the feet. It doesn't need to be any bigger.

Now imagine a naked man (preferably without drooling - you don't want to mess the keyboard up now do you ladies?) Nice long big arms, big chest, big middle bit, two long thick legs (30" -36" or more inside leg measurement ) and a little dangly bit inbetween them - teeny if it's cold. Stiiff, it's only 6". It doesn't look right next to the legs. Facial features - nose, eyes, mouth, ears - are all in proportion to the face, bet legs, penis and torso aren't.

So I think that when men want that little bit more, it's not to be a better lover but to make their bodies look more in proportion.

That's my theory, anyway.