imready2
For mutual pleasures
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I agree. In fact, I feel that if a spouse is denying you physical intimacy I don't consider getting it elsewhere cheating. By not fucking your spouse you're pretty much inviting them to fuck someone else. Sure, it's ok to say "no" sometimes but if that's your answer most of the time you can't blame them if they get what they need elsewhere. Obviously, you don't want them so they should find someone that does and don't be surprised when they "suddenly" have you served with divorce papers from "out of the blue". I mean, honestly, is it smart to trust a spouse that doesn't want you? I would go so far as to say that the one who's avoiding sex is the "cheater" as he/she is cheating their SO out of a real relationship.
Very interesting point of view with some merit!