First ruined orgasm

Outsidet4622

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Had my first ruined orgasm, unintentionally, and I loved it. Was something I never gave much thought to until recently and now I'm turned on by it.

Bit about me I have a small cock and even though I enjoy sph there's still some insecurity with it. My wife has never made any comments intentionally about it but I can tell it's not enough. I also tend to cum very quickly so I try to finger and eat her out as much as I can to enjoy sex.

So we were making out, was fingering her, then made my way to eating her out. After she orgasmed I made my way back to kissing her and she pushed me over, shes not aggressive like this so big turn on, and climbed on top. She put her tit in my mouth and I was ready to explode already. She sat on my cock and within about 10 seconds of light rocking I told her I was about to cum.

She said "already?" And I don't know why but this sparked my sph fetish. I clenched and did everything I could not to cum. After a few seconds I tried to relax and I exploded but no orgasm. It was such a weird feeling. After a minute she climbed off and grabbed my head motioning me to eat her out again.

Anyway I loved the aggressiveness of her this time around but the ruined orgasm was so different and I loved it. Am I wrong thinking this is a ruined orgasm? Give me some thoughts! What are your experiences?
 
I can do this almost on command. Doesn’t mean it’s easy to do or that I can every time but I believe it’s what you described, ejaculation without orgasm. Though I wouldn’t call it a ruined.

I love sex and love to give my partner pleasure. I also have high stamina and fairly good control. I know my body very well and can hit the break when I’m getting close then throttle back up when I have a straightaway in front of me.

Sometimes when I’m extremely built up, rock hard and the blood is pumping I’ll get ready to climax but I’m still wanting to keep fucking. I found that if if clench hard enough and focus I can hold my orgasm back though I still ejaculate fully. It just spills out and my cock stays hard for more. Almost every girl this happens to is amazed by it. They love that I fully came and still can go without pause. Me too!
 
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