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I'm thinking that the other men like me, whose greatest pleasure is in giving our WOMEN pleasure, could make good use of a thread that's specifically directed toward how we can do better by our partners. Ladies, tell us what gives you the best, happiest and most delightful cums. What was most memorable to you in the very best sex of your lives?
 
I have my most intense orgasms on all fours. I lose my mind, and love every second of it.

When I'm in the mood, anal drives me wild, as well.

The best sex ever was with a woman in her forties (I was about twenty years younger thanshe) that showed me it was okay and sexy to smile and laugh in bed. We went all night, pacing ourselves and having the time of our lives. :rose:
 
well, that depends... before he cums he might say... "all over... it is now"?
 
soccergrrl said:
The best sex ever was with a woman in her forties (I was about twenty years younger thanshe) that showed me it was okay and sexy to smile and laugh in bed. We went all night, pacing ourselves and having the time of our lives. :rose:
Mmmmmmm... Wish that I could've been there to make it a threesome. Nothing like a good hard cum that's enhanced with laughter.
What toys, if any, did you two use?
 
ravenous_os said:
Use fingers during oral!
I like to do that. It's a big turn on for me to penetrate deeply enough to feel the tip of my lover's cervix. Of course it's also a BIG source of pleasure to touch it when my penis is deep inside her too... but I like to save that for after she has already cum at least once and is ready for "dessert."
Just for curiosity, how important do you find G spot stimulation?
 
It can be very important. Being with a lover who knows how to find it is always a plus!
 
How big are you ladies on sensual kissing? I love to take my time and kiss my way over my girls entire body. I just love the feeling of the skin against my lips. I also like to suckle on ear lobes, and I absolutely love playing with nipples. How long is too long for this kind of thing too?
 
Trombonus said:
How big are you ladies on sensual kissing? I love to take my time and kiss my way over my girls entire body. I just love the feeling of the skin against my lips. I also like to suckle on ear lobes, and I absolutely love playing with nipples. How long is too long for this kind of thing too?

The art of kissing is amongst the most erotic and overlooked. It's such an intimate act...

It depends on the woman, but keeping track of the amount of ANY foreplay is key.
If you love licking pussy, for instance, and can do it for hours, that's nice, but at a certain point, you're not pleasing your lover, only impressng yourself.
 
soccergrrl said:
It can be very important. Being with a lover who knows how to find it is always a plus!
My best friend is also a fantastic lover. Lucky for me her G-spot is very easy to find... or maybe it's just that we've been making love for the last 8 years and I've becum so familiar with all of the uniquely beautiful characteristics of her body. I'm also grateful that she lets me enjoy sex with other women... probably because she knows that I'll always be back to her without making any comparisons that could be hurtful to her or anyone else.
It's fun to explore the body of a woman I've never been with before. The ultimate line of male chauvinist bullshit is, "Turn them upside down, and they all look the same." Each pussy is for me like a different flower in an enormous garden, with its own color, shape, scent, taste and degree of tightness.
I enjoy seeing how a woman's breasts and nipples change throughout her menstrual cycle. It's amazing that some women's areolas can vary in color from very light pink to nearly brown depending on what day they're at.
Too bad that condoms are a must due to AIDS. It'd be great to be able to enjoy deep penetration with each women and be as naked inside her as outside.
 
Unfortunately, I don't have the luxury of a friend/lover, and opportunities are few and far between for me. That makes me a bit of a novice. I'd love for a woman to just take me under her wing and teach me what to do. That and all the things I miss out on cause my partner and I don't think to try them.

I'm single, and my worst problem is initiating conversation, and asking girls out. Once I'm past that point it's all gravy.
 
soccergrrl said:
The art of kissing is amongst the most erotic and overlooked. It's such an intimate act...

It depends on the woman, but keeping track of the amount of ANY foreplay is key.
If you love licking pussy, for instance, and can do it for hours, that's nice, but at a certain point, you're not pleasing your lover, only impressng yourself.
It's a major turn on for me when a woman will let me know what changes to make along the way and when it's time to "do the deed."
There's a big difference between "All right. Let's get it over with!" and "I'm ready for you to cum inside me now."
 
Another question for the women on here...

Do you mind deep kissing after a man has been going down on you? I never really know whether it's okay after I've got a lover's juices all over my face. Don't want to gross anyone out, but it's difficult to fight the urge to enjoy one set of lips after I've been savoring the other.
 
Also what would you say to a guy who's never really done oral before? Like what suggestions would you have for him, especially if he's apprehensive about it?
 
NippleFreak said:
Do you mind deep kissing after a man has been going down on you? I never really know whether it's okay after I've got a lover's juices all over my face. Don't want to gross anyone out, but it's difficult to fight the urge to enjoy one set of lips after I've been savoring the other.

To me, I find it very passionate, erotic, and even romantic.

Kissing is the ultimate foreplay. Nothing should interfere with that, even pussy juice on a man's face. Afterall, it is my own, but then I do get off on tasting my own pussy.

Not all are for it, but I love it.
 
Time to revive this thread

I was just remembering the fun that my best friend and I had once when we had 2 days completely to ourselves. We just kept switching positions to see which one worked best for her. Finally we tried a combination of synchronized breathing and mutual masturbation, sitting across from one another on her bed. There was something very special about looking into one another's eyes while our hands were stimulating one another's genitals. Next thing I knew, I had an unbelievably hard erection and it wasn't long before she was on my lap, still facing me. We kept up the synchronized breathing while she bounced her sweet little butt up and down and milked my cock with her very well trained pussy muscles. It's a wonder that the neighbors didn't call the cops because of how loud she was yelling when she came. I don't think I've ever cum harder than I did then either, and she was dripping enough afterwards to require a change of bed sheets. THAT is my idea of great sex, not "let's hurry up and get it over with."
 
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