Kelliezgirl
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I despise text messages being formatted as dialogue. They're not spoken, should not be formatted as such, and the snippet you gave is a great example why.
By the time one gets to the "speech tag," they have already interpreted the quoted text as having been spoken by the character. To learn than 'she texted back' is incredibly jarring.
As for my recommendation how to actually format messages, Emily above has the right idea; I usually do it this way. Ultimately, any other option -- like italics, names followed by a colon, fancy Unicode shenanigans -- works just fine, as long as it doesn't pretend to be spoken dialogue.
You just establish it as a text up front.
I can see your point about being halfway into an exchange before indicating its a text as a problem, but the same holds true for any of this other formatting.
You have to tell the reader what's going on regardless.

also I'm jealous I never thought of this; I'll have to try it myself sometime 