Texas Rebel

[Jennxxx]

Here's my personal definition, it's about trust, control, and freedom all at the same time

Trust- both partners have to have a lot of trust
Control- the D controls most of the tempo action and direction
Freedom- the submissive let's go completely, just following, there is a freedom in that kind of submission


hope it helps some

Very well said darlin...

 

[grungalunga]

I'm not shy about how I feel so I'll just keep it here -

*Deep breath* Personally, I get a little aggravated over the wrap that D/s lifestyle gets. I've been an active part of it, off and on, for a few years now and I've NEVER encountered anyone wearing a mask... lol.. It's just not the norm, or atleast in my circles. I've been to large warehouse type of clubs and seen all types of scenes. From bull whipping to electric play, feather play and ropes, crops and paddles and in every occurence the participants were involved in a very loving relationship. The people who play with crops and whips and ropes are those that enjoy the pain factor or the humiliation factor, but that doesn't necessarily encompass D/s lifestyle as a whole.

Personally, I love LOVE spankings. I love to be over someones knee with my ass bare. The stinging that a hard spanking brings makes me excited. I can cum from a spanking alone. BUT, that can be something enjoyed by anyone, not necessarily a D/s lifestyler alone. If that makes sense...

Basically, Dominating and being submissive are traits that someone posses. It's about how you feel towards another and how they make YOU feel. Like I said before, all of the toys are just that... Toys.

I dont have those dom or sub traits. So I guess i really wouldnt get much out of it. But thanks for the input anyway

 

[grungalunga]

Here's my personal definition, it's about trust, control, and freedom all at the same time

Trust- both partners have to have a lot of trust
Control- the D controls most of the tempo action and direction
Freedom- the submissive let's go completely, just following, there is a freedom in that kind of submission

hope it helps some

so the sub is more or less a fuck doll? letting the D do whatever he/she wants to? Now if THAT's what it boils down to, i guess i could handle that - being the sub. As a guy, im going to get off no matter what - so id like the woman to be able to control the tempo, strenght, or whatever else she needed to,

 

[slowandrough]

so the sub is more or less a fuck doll? letting the D do whatever he/she wants to? Now if THAT's what it boils down to, i guess i could handle that - being the sub. As a guy, im going to get off no matter what - so id like the woman to be able to control the tempo, strenght, or whatever else she needed to,

it could be just a fuck doll, or it could go beyond the bedroom, depends on the partners, the D will usually pleasure the sub, but yes, the sub normally is pleasing the D

 

[grungalunga]

it could be just a fuck doll, or it could go beyond the bedroom, depends on the partners, the D will usually pleasure the sub, but yes, the sub normally is pleasing the D

Oh okay! If it boils down to that, and none of those toys, I think i could get into that. Me on my back while the girl rides me. That i could handle. i think cause the first time i saw sex on film, it was a scene like that.

 

[oh-boy]

LOL... I'm one of those naughty ones who wears low cut tops and bends down low to give everyone a little glimpse of cleavage.

I'm shameless.

GULP................

 

[turboguy]

Welcome back TEXAS hottie!!

Bet you don't recognize half the people here now.....LOL


T

 

[Dawg]

Hi there Dawg. how are you today darlin?

{{{{{{{{{{Jenn}}}}}}}}}}

I'm doin' great sweetheart, and seeing you having a wonderful time on the board again makes me that much happier! It's wonderful seeing you posting and having fun... and the extra benefit for me is enjoying all the beautiful pics you're posting.... and the fantasies that result from them!

Dawg

 

[Jennxxx]

so the sub is more or less a fuck doll? letting the D do whatever he/she wants to? Now if THAT's what it boils down to, i guess i could handle that - being the sub. As a guy, im going to get off no matter what - so id like the woman to be able to control the tempo, strenght, or whatever else she needed to,

Personally, I wouldn't describe it that way. Certainly that is part of it, but only a minor part.

 

[Jennxxx]

{{{{{{{{{{Jenn}}}}}}}}}}

I'm doin' great sweetheart, and seeing you having a wonderful time on the board again makes me that much happier! It's wonderful seeing you posting and having fun... and the extra benefit for me is enjoying all the beautiful pics you're posting.... and the fantasies that result from them!

Dawg

You're so sweet... I did have a fun day today! It's nice to be back on the boards, cavorting and flirting... The exhibitionist in me is eating it up...

 

[Richard49]

Well, I might as well share with everyone. In 2003 when C and I were seperated, his parents were at our house sitting for our kids when they got the bright idea to go snooping. They found a letter from C to me that made some minor reference to taking pictures together. Well, they then took their snooping a step further and began to search the files on my computer. (Here is where I begin to growl. ) Needless to say they found the pictures AND the website that I had started only a month earlier. Nothing was ever said to me about any of it, and from what C said they weren't very direct with him either. They merely let him know that they knew. The worst part of it was, that my brother-in-law wasn't content with seeing the "mild" pictures and went a step further and actually SIGNED UP for my pay site. (Big mistake in itself.) So there you have it... I told you it wasn't exciting.

Thank you for sharing

 

[Jennxxx]

GULP................

 

[btk 23]

jen you are incredible

 

[Jennxxx]

Thank you for sharing

No problem sweetie.

 

[Jennxxx]

jen you are incredible

And YOU are incredibly kind...

 

[Jennxxx]

If you are taking requests------I'd love to see you wet. i.e. bathtub/shower

Did someone ask for bathtub pictures?

 

[Richard49]

Speaking of spankings...

Spank you?
Love to


https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=440307

 

[toto11]

Did someone ask for bathtub pictures?

Yes

Very Lovely

 

[Richard49]

I plan on sticking around for as long you guys will have me BigRed.

Very erotic

https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=440702

 

[Richard49]

Maybe you will like this facial expression too...

Oh GOD YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=440959

 

[PolishLover]

*Gasp*

Beautiful! Absolute Stunner!

I"m really speechless.



-PL

 

[Richard49]

Well, speaking for only myself here. - I love the idea of being Dominant AND submissive. (But, thats the gemini talking) Being Dominant is all about controlling and testing and allowing someone to please you, and for me being submissive is the ultimate in sexiness. To allow myself to be controlled by someone else is a true test in trust... It's just... sexy.

The leather and whips are just props.

The memories you trigger for me

 

[Richard49]

I couldnt be dominant b/c i dont get aroused by the whole controlling thing. Being submissive - well I just couldnt enjoy myself all tied up - id like to feel her soft skin, not the tight ropes around my wrists. Plus, it really isnt too relaxing or comfortable. sex is weird enoughas it is without having to add to it.

But like i said, whatever turns you on is fine

BDSM is about sensiouality
and not all who are int oBDSM are into bondage

and
than
there are people like me that are more into D/s

 

[Richard49]

so the sub is more or less a fuck doll? letting the D do whatever he/she wants to? Now if THAT's what it boils down to, i guess i could handle that - being the sub. As a guy, im going to get off no matter what - so id like the woman to be able to control the tempo, strenght, or whatever else she needed to,

I truly get the impression
that you just want to stir shit up
rather than learn from others

 

[Jennxxx]

Yes

Very Lovely

I'm pleased that you approve Toto.