Texas Rebel

Jennxxx said:
LOL... I'm one of those naughty ones who wears low cut tops and bends down low to give everyone a little glimpse of cleavage.

I'm shameless.


Just the way I like ya!
 
Jennxxx said:
Only if you promise to provide proof of that drooling and dribbling. ;)
Will try and snap a pic or two of me dribbling tomorrow for you hun :D
 
dgnerate_gamblr said:
This fellow Texan thinks it was time well spent perusing your thread.......you're lovely!!!

*blush* Thank you gamblr.. We have something in common already. I'm an avid Hold 'em player. :D :rose:
 
Jennxxx said:
Well, speaking for only myself here. - I love the idea of being Dominant AND submissive. (But, thats the gemini talking) Being Dominant is all about controlling and testing and allowing someone to please you, and for me being submissive is the ultimate in sexiness. To allow myself to be controlled by someone else is a true test in trust... It's just... sexy.

The leather and whips are just props.

I couldnt be dominant b/c i dont get aroused by the whole controlling thing. Being submissive - well I just couldnt enjoy myself all tied up - id like to feel her soft skin, not the tight ropes around my wrists. Plus, it really isnt too relaxing or comfortable. sex is weird enoughas it is without having to add to it.

But like i said, whatever turns you on is fine
 
Jennxxx said:
Thanks and Hi!

Very VERY nice AV if I might say so... Yowza.

Its, shall we say "store bought." But nothing beats the "home cookin'" you post!
 
grungalunga said:
I couldnt be dominant b/c i dont get aroused by the whole controlling thing. Being submissive - well I just couldnt enjoy myself all tied up - id like to feel her soft skin, not the tight ropes around my wrists. Plus, it really isnt too relaxing or comfortable. sex is weird enoughas it is without having to add to it.

But like i said, whatever turns you on is fine

I can see where you are coming from based on the media buzz/entertainment industry... but D/s isn't really about whips and chains and ropes, it's more of a mind fuck if you will. As a matter of fact, of all the times that I've played around with D/s scenes, I've never been tied up. It's about letting yourself go mentally and emotionally. Andddd obviously, it isn't for everyone. ;)

I'm really stoked that you feel comfortable enough to share your opinions though! :nana:
 
Filly Gal said:
Its, shall we say "store bought." But nothing beats the "home cookin'" you post!


Mmmm.. Wanna come over for dinner? ;) :kiss:
 
Cool!

Well, if there's anything you wanna see....

please, PLEASE post it on my thread.

You know i will comply.

md
 
Jennxxx said:
I can see where you are coming from based on the media buzz/entertainment industry... but D/s isn't really about whips and chains and ropes, it's more of a mind fuck if you will. As a matter of fact, of all the times that I've played around with D/s scenes, I've never been tied up. It's about letting yourself go mentally and emotionally. Andddd obviously, it isn't for everyone. ;)

I'm really stoked that you feel comfortable enough to share your opinions though! :nana:

If you have a moment, you mind telling me what its REALLY about (here, or pm, or email me?)

Yeah, ive seen it being about whips, chains, tied to the bed, leather, that fucked up mask with the zippers, hot wax, slapping until the skin is almost blood red. I tried to watch that film 8mm (nick cage was in it). But it was TOO fucked up for me to watch.

So obviously, my view on s&m is way off. besides your personal experiences, where can i go to find the REAL story about s&m?
 
grungalunga said:
If you have a moment, you mind telling me what its REALLY about (here, or pm, or email me?)

Yeah, ive seen it being about whips, chains, tied to the bed, leather, that fucked up mask with the zippers, hot wax, slapping until the skin is almost blood red. I tried to watch that film 8mm (nick cage was in it). But it was TOO fucked up for me to watch.

So obviously, my view on s&m is way off. besides your personal experiences, where can i go to find the REAL story about s&m?

Try the bdsm thread here, there's quite a few instructional threads in it
 
grungalunga said:
If you have a moment, you mind telling me what its REALLY about (here, or pm, or email me?)

Yeah, ive seen it being about whips, chains, tied to the bed, leather, that fucked up mask with the zippers, hot wax, slapping until the skin is almost blood red. I tried to watch that film 8mm (nick cage was in it). But it was TOO fucked up for me to watch.

So obviously, my view on s&m is way off. besides your personal experiences, where can i go to find the REAL story about s&m?


Here's my personal definition, it's about trust, control, and freedom all at the same time

Trust- both partners have to have a lot of trust
Control- the D controls most of the tempo action and direction
Freedom- the submissive let's go completely, just following, there is a freedom in that kind of submission

hope it helps some
 
BTW - is a dominatrix a common part of s&m. i swear to god the 1st time I heard that name, i thought it had something to do with the Matrix. (Like trekkers are star trek fans?)
 
grungalunga said:
BTW - is a dominatrix a common part of s&m. i swear to god the 1st time I heard that name, i thought it had something to do with the Matrix. (Like trekkers are star trek fans?)

Just a name for the woman dominating.
 
grungalunga said:
If you have a moment, you mind telling me what its REALLY about (here, or pm, or email me?)

Yeah, ive seen it being about whips, chains, tied to the bed, leather, that fucked up mask with the zippers, hot wax, slapping until the skin is almost blood red. I tried to watch that film 8mm (nick cage was in it). But it was TOO fucked up for me to watch.

So obviously, my view on s&m is way off. besides your personal experiences, where can i go to find the REAL story about s&m?

I'm not shy about how I feel so I'll just keep it here -

*Deep breath* Personally, I get a little aggravated over the wrap that D/s lifestyle gets. I've been an active part of it, off and on, for a few years now and I've NEVER encountered anyone wearing a mask... lol.. It's just not the norm, or atleast in my circles. I've been to large warehouse type of clubs and seen all types of scenes. From bull whipping to electric play, feather play and ropes, crops and paddles and in every occurence the participants were involved in a very loving relationship. The people who play with crops and whips and ropes are those that enjoy the pain factor or the humiliation factor, but that doesn't necessarily encompass D/s lifestyle as a whole.

Personally, I love LOVE spankings. I love to be over someones knee with my ass bare. The stinging that a hard spanking brings makes me excited. I can cum from a spanking alone. BUT, that can be something enjoyed by anyone, not necessarily a D/s lifestyler alone. If that makes sense...

Basically, Dominating and being submissive are traits that someone posses. It's about how you feel towards another and how they make YOU feel. Like I said before, all of the toys are just that... Toys. :kiss:
 
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