Testy! Testy! Testy!

[MissTaken]

Scooter has been a bit out of sorts lately. Then, I realized he hadn't had a good walloping in a while.

Sometimes, that man just needs to be slapped around a bit to feel at peace.

It is almost as though he doesn't even know he does this or why.


Any thoughts?

 

[Netzach]

Inherently submissive masochist. Yep.

But you should see me when *I* don't get to beat anyone. That's really bad.


In M's case there is sometimes/often an inverse relationship between how much he wants a pounding and the amount of good it will do him.


Unfortunately, he doesn't get off on being pushed or a lot of NC to the proceedings so all I can do is lay low and wait till he realizes he needs a beating.

 

[Marquis]

Beating men?

Why can't you just be nice girls, and wear pretty dresses and curtsy?

 

[Netzach]

Beating girls?

Why can't you just shut up and rub our feet?

 

[Marquis]

Then who would beat the girls?

 

[Netzach]

I can do that too, I'm multi-talented. Now look pretty.

 

[Marquis]

That I can do.

 

[MissTaken]

Inherently submissive masochist. Yep.

But you should see me when *I* don't get to beat anyone. That's really bad.


In M's case there is sometimes/often an inverse relationship between how much he wants a pounding and the amount of good it will do him.


Unfortunately, he doesn't get off on being pushed or a lot of NC to the proceedings so all I can do is lay low and wait till he realizes he needs a beating.

Oh yeah.

I also get a bit out of sorts from time to time. But then, I can make the call concernng when, how and how hard!

Seriously, for him, I think it goes beyond needing a whupping. (Redneck Mistress? ) He needs to be placed in that special place where his only purpose is to please me. He needs to be put in his place, per se. An unexpected slap to the face or five minutes at me feet, normally does him a world of good.

 

[redelicious]

Scooter has been a bit out of sorts lately. Then, I realized he hadn't had a good walloping in a while.

Sometimes, that man just needs to be slapped around a bit to feel at peace.

It is almost as though he doesn't even know he does this or why.


Any thoughts?

I think . . .

We all need some kind of release to deal with stress and stay focused. I think endorphins play a role too - or so that's what all those people who actually like to work out tell me.

LOL, I'll take a good spanking over step-class anyday.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

Inherently submissive masochist. Yep.

But you should see me when *I* don't get to beat anyone. That's really bad.


In M's case there is sometimes/often an inverse relationship between how much he wants a pounding and the amount of good it will do him.


Unfortunately, he doesn't get off on being pushed or a lot of NC to the proceedings so all I can do is lay low and wait till he realizes he needs a beating.

Uh oh! Could it be you got ahold of a not-so-inherently-submissive masochist, in M's case? (Not getting off on being pushed just rings a few warning bells for me.)

And redelicious, granted I agree about endorphins and such, it kinda feels like more than a release or a substitute for step-class (not that it isn't those, too, or that I'm right or anything)... it Feels like some kind of need that sets you right, like love or food or self-expression.

(Different from say, drugs, which feel external -- unless you get to where they're pushing that same button. For instance, I certainly used cigs to feel temporarily better but now that I've quit for a dozen years, it doesn't feel like a smoke would fix/satisfy that spot in me that needs fulfillment.)

 

[Netzach]

Not especially plaible all the time, needs to feel secure to let go and such, has distinct boundaries. However, cooks, cleans, cares for, adores, pampers, and loves big cock. I'll take the latter.

 

[redelicious]

And redelicious, granted I agree about endorphins and such, it kinda feels like more than a release or a substitute for step-class (not that it isn't those, too, or that I'm right or anything)... it Feels like some kind of need that sets you right, like love or food or self-expression.

(Different from say, drugs, which feel external -- unless you get to where they're pushing that same button. For instance, I certainly used cigs to feel temporarily better but now that I've quit for a dozen years, it doesn't feel like a smoke would fix/satisfy that spot in me that needs fulfillment.)

I think it can be both a physical and emotional need, at the same time even. Or one and not the other, ya know each person being different and all.

I definetely see your point though, and feel a little silly for over looking it myself.

 

[D's mariposa]

Why yes, I do get that way sometimes.

When I've been stuck on the goober desk at work, and the monsoons are teasing us and will not storm for love or money, and I realise the Jr. Domme is now old enough for sleep away camp (WAAAHHH!), and payroll fucks up my check again, and great friends are having crisis, and the insomnia strikes again..

HELL YES!! HIT ME BABY ONE MORE TIME!


OOPS! I meant, yes please Sir, may I please have another? Off to get dressed for the party..

 

[AngelicAssassin]

It is almost as though he doesn't even know he does this or why.

It's called hunger darlin' ...

Food tastes weird, you can't sleep, your temper shortens to flashbang fuse duration, and no cold shower, no romantic lovemaking, nothing sates that need.

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Testy! Testy! Testy!

It's called hunger darlin' ...

Food tastes weird, you can't sleep, your temper shortens to flashbang fuse duration, and no cold shower, no romantic lovemaking, nothing sates that need.

So, if you recognize the hunger. How quickly do you act on it?

And if you find yourself feedng the hunger, who is really topping?

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Any thoughts?

I get like that, at least 4 or 5 times a year. It's like a feeling of bleakness which can only be consumed by a thorough beating.
(either giving one or receiving it).

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Re: Re: Re: Testy! Testy! Testy!

So, if you recognize the hunger. How quickly do you act on it?

And if you find yourself feedng the hunger, who is really topping?

i don't until i'm damn good and ready. i'm a bit sadistic, don'tcha know ...

MissT ... the hunger works both ways ...

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Testy! Testy! Testy!

i don't until i'm damn good and ready. i'm a bit sadistic, don'tcha know ...

MissT ... the hunger works both ways ...

True on both counts.

In some ways, watching him squirm has it's own merit in terms of my sadistic tendencies.

 

[Esclava]

Non-maso sub speaking...

Just as there is something about this thing called BDSM that calls to us; I agree there is a hunger that must be fed. Some of you probably know that I am returning to BDSM after a 10+ yr hiatus from a bad relationship.

Last night, I experienced an almost brutal hand spanking; my first since my return - followed shortly by a flogging at the hands of another. Both were intense and left me with reminders all day - as sitting was an effort. And across the entire last evening, I experienced orgasms that sent me into incoherence repeatedly.

I have been calm and serene all day long. Nothing that has happened today (including hearing about my son's car accident) had the power to upset me. I scrubbed my carpet on hands and knees, cleaned my bathroom plus the kitchen, washed and vacuumed my car. I was so industrious - I had to look in the mirror to make sure the face staring back at me - was me!

I would never have thought a spanking that left 1/2 of my asscheeks stinging and hot for hours (and a flogging that did the same for the other side), would elicit such a response. Perhaps AA's hunger premise is correct. I would not have believed it in myself...

Esclava

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: Non-maso sub speaking...

Just as there is something about this thing called BDSM that calls to us; I agree there is a hunger that must be fed. Some of you probably know that I am returning to BDSM after a 10+ yr hiatus from a bad relationship.

Last night, I experienced an almost brutal hand spanking; my first since my return - followed shortly by a flogging at the hands of another. Both were intense and left me with reminders all day - as sitting was an effort. And across the entire last evening, I experienced orgasms that sent me into incoherence repeatedly.

I have been calm and serene all day long. Nothing that has happened today (including hearing about my son's car accident) had the power to upset me. I scrubbed my carpet on hands and knees, cleaned my bathroom plus the kitchen, washed and vacuumed my car. I was so industrious - I had to look in the mirror to make sure the face staring back at me - was me!

I would never have thought a spanking that left 1/2 of my asscheeks stinging and hot for hours (and a flogging that did the same for the other side), would elicit such a response. Perhaps AA's hunger premise is correct. I would not have believed it in myself...

Esclava

endorphins can make ya feel like super girl cant they?

 

[Esclava]

Re: Re: Non-maso sub speaking...

endorphins can make ya feel like super girl cant they?

You're right about that, g/f!

I wonder though if so much of what I have been feeling lately (at least for the last 2 mos or so) has anything to do with the fact that I hadn't been disciplined in a very long time. I remember a few months after being gifted to Master's no. 1 slave, I asked him a question and then disagreed with his answer so vehemently that he punished me severely with a wooden spoon. Then provided very similar orgasms as were experienced during this weekend. I was docile for months. Perhaps there is a pattern forming...

Esclava

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: Re: Re: Non-maso sub speaking...

You're right about that, g/f!

I wonder though if so much of what I have been feeling lately (at least for the last 2 mos or so) has anything to do with the fact that I hadn't been disciplined in a very long time. I remember a few months after being gifted to Master's no. 1 slave, I asked him a question and then disagreed with his answer so vehemently that he punished me severely with a wooden spoon. Then provided very similar orgasms as were experienced during this weekend. I was docile for months. Perhaps there is a pattern forming...

Esclava

tee hee....sure sounds like a masochist ta lil ol me.

 

[Esclava]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Non-maso sub speaking...

tee hee....sure sounds like a masochist ta lil ol me.

Esclava

 

[FungiUg]

Re: Re: Re: Non-maso sub speaking...

I remember a few months after being gifted to Master's no. 1 slave, I asked him a question and then disagreed with his answer so vehemently that he punished me severely with a wooden spoon. Then provided very similar orgasms as were experienced during this weekend.

Damn. Now where did I leave that wooden spoon?

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Non-maso sub speaking...

Damn. Now where did I leave that wooden spoon?

its in your hand silly dominant