Tell us something about yourself

[Babyslave]

I'm 46 and have three grown stepsons. I became a stepgrandma not too long ago.
I haven't had the chance to meet my grandson yet, 'cause they're in Japan, but thank goodness for Facebook and YouTube.

I've worked for the same company for 25 years. I'm rumored to be a slut by the office staff. Completely untrue (no, really! Strict rule - Work and Private life are separate, no exceptions) I work with an all male team, and 97% of my business contacts are men as well. When dozens of men are seen coming in and out of my office every week, and usually leave smiling, well.....

I love to read anything I can get my hands on and always have 2 or 3 going simultaneously, one light reading for the commute, one non fiction and one either technical or whatever trips my trigger at the time.

I have a small group of forever friends. REALLY important to someone who is extremely introverted, pretty private and who needs prodding when at a party or other sort of large gathering to get the ball rolling.

My alcoholic beverage of choice is vodka, mostly because it only takes 2 glasses of wine to make me tipsy, which seems to result in me doing outrageous things that will take years to live down. Vodka allows for common sense to prevail.

I enjoy music of all types, and go to whatever concerts I can get to in my area. But I'm happiest when playing in a dixieland or swing band. I also fill in for other local bands, when I'm able, for musicals, marching bands or church groups.

I LOVE to be outdoors no matter what season it's in. Walking, hiking, biking, camping, gardening, painting the garage, you name it. Oh! Can't forget camping!

I've been daring myself to step out of my shell recently. Things like - every day I must speak with three total strangers whether on the street, in a store, the post office, wherever. To wear something at least once a week that is SO not part of my work persona.

I also believe in retaining some child-like ways. Like? Hopscotch, jump-rope, kickball, snowball fights, and building forts.

I've been putting off going to the eye doctor 'cause I just KNOW he's going to tell me I need bifocals. Sigh.

 

[Felix_Jones]

These pretzels are making me thirsty.

 

[ArchLady03]

I am always looking to learn something new.

 

[CurvAppeal]

Molly,

I know we don't know one another. Yet my need to reply to this cannot be denied. Your words? My God. Powerful words, from a powerful woman.

I realize I don't know you, your life. I can't possibly understand any of what you're dealing with, and have, and will continue to. I can't believe I have the audacity to add my words to others more able, more worthwhile, more known than a stranger.

But we ache, we try, we need, we crave, we want, we desire, we deserve. And we are disappointed, and denied, stepped on and crushed, ignored and overlooked. Over and over again. In pain, in suffering, again. But we continue to try, to hope, to dream, to take the f-ing next step forward. There are no guarantees, life is NOT fair, promises are broken, and people let us down. But because we need and want, and deserve, we try again.

Failure isn't a real word, not to me, not anymore. Because taking that next step forward doesn't allow it to be. Call it what you will, coping, dealing, coasting or fighting. It's taking another f-ing step forward. Another hour, another day. Will today be the day, or tomorrow, next week, next month, next year?

You're in my thoughts. No comfort there, I know. But it's true.

I couldn't of said it any better.

Molly, realize that every obstacle that comes your way is a blessing in disguise. I lost my sister, I lost my fiancée, I lost what made me who I am....but in actuality, it is certainly a blessing.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Maybe we should have awards each year on the BDSM boards. I'm serious here: ESPN has the espies. Could we have the PYLies? The PYL/pyl's? The Bruisies?

In any event, I think this thread moves right into contention for "Best New Thread."

Along with "We don't need no stinking badgers!!!" Cause that is one totally badass thread. Whoever came up with that one, well, I bet he has the strength of ten PYL's, plus two.

 

[CurvAppeal]

Maybe we should have awards each year on the BDSM boards. I'm serious here: ESPN has the espies. Could we have the PYLies? The PYL/pyl's? The Bruisies?

In any event, I think this thread moves right into contention for "Best New Thread."

Thank you. =)

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Maybe we should have awards each year on the BDSM boards. I'm serious here: ESPN has the espies. Could we have the PYLies? The PYL/pyl's? The Bruisies?

In any event, I think this thread moves right into contention for "Best New Thread."[/COLOR]

I just checked the Academy's 10,437 page rulebook. In Section G.1.D.0LIT, paragraph 895.12(a)(3)(F), the use of lemon chiffon is absolutely prohibited and disqualifies its user(s) from any nominations and/or awards.

 

[CurvAppeal]

I just checked the Academy's 10,437 page rulebook. In Section G.1.D.0LIT, paragraph 895.12(a)(3)(F), the use of lemon chiffon is absolutely prohibited and disqualifies its user(s) from any nominations and/or awards.

Lmfao, oh brother. -Rollseyes-

 

[millineum]

Hello

I will not use my real name here since I will be listing my local.
My rl name is so original that I do not want those who think that because I am a submissive that I am a free for all to treat as a doormat or as their sex toy which some small minded people think subs are. There is a major difference to me on being a sub and being a slave. A sub has some say as to what he/she will not accept in a relationship or scene where as a slave has no say whatsoever. So I am a submissive not a slave.
Female
46 as of June 18th.
Klamath Falls, Oregon
Presently single.
I have been married and divorced a few times due to being in the vanilla life and it would not work due to my proclivity for submission.
I have also been in several other vanilla relationships and thought something was the matter with me throughout the years.

Although I am naturally what the vanilla world calls the caretaker type or June Cleaver they really do not get the extent of what I am.
Also the few of the BDSM world I have met are into things I am not. I am not into pain.

I do love pleasing and it brings me great happiness but the extent of my SM is to be spanked with the palm of the hand.

The thing is finding others in the lifestyle is not so easy. I mean the ones that really know what it is all about.
Not the ones that are in it just for the sex and the various acts.
I want to meet the ones that are in or looking for relationships that have or want the lifestyle as an intricate part of their relationship.

I tried to look for a site for a checklist of things that someone in the lifestyle should go through before getting involved in a BDSM relationship but it seems a lot of those sites no longer exist for some reason.
I do not want to go into a BDSM relationship blind and I wish there was a better way to meet good people in the lifestyle rather than a hit and miss situation.
I don’t even know if there are other people in KFalls who are in the lifestyle.

I do not want to be in another relationship where the man thinks I am in need of mental help or thinks it is a free for all to treat me as they totally wish either.
I am not a doormat nor a punching bag to be abused and ill treated.

If any of you have any help you can give me I would appreciate it greatly.
Is there any way of having one on one chat like you would with messenger in here????


Thank you,
millenium

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I just checked the Academy's 10,437 page rulebook. In Section G.1.D.0LIT, paragraph 895.12(a)(3)(F), the use of lemon chiffon is absolutely prohibited and disqualifies its user(s) from any nominations and/or awards.

Damnit!!!

I just went out for ice cream (true!) and had a hankering for lemon. Also, I just licked the screen when I typed that.

 

[CurvAppeal]

Damnit!!!

I just went out for ice cream (true!) and had a hankering for lemon. Also, I just licked the screen when I typed that.

Lol Omg!! I adore the both of you. =P

 

[CurvAppeal]

I will not use my real name here since I will be listing my local.
My rl name is so original that I do not want those who think that because I am a submissive that I am a free for all to treat as a doormat or as their sex toy which some small minded people think subs are. There is a major difference to me on being a sub and being a slave. A sub has some say as to what he/she will not accept in a relationship or scene where as a slave has no say whatsoever. So I am a submissive not a slave.
Female
46 as of June 18th.
Klamath Falls, Oregon
Presently single.
I have been married and divorced a few times due to being in the vanilla life and it would not work due to my proclivity for submission.
I have also been in several other vanilla relationships and thought something was the matter with me throughout the years.

Although I am naturally what the vanilla world calls the caretaker type or June Cleaver they really do not get the extent of what I am.
Also the few of the BDSM world I have met are into things I am not. I am not into pain.

I do love pleasing and it brings me great happiness but the extent of my SM is to be spanked with the palm of the hand.

The thing is finding others in the lifestyle is not so easy. I mean the ones that really know what it is all about.
Not the ones that are in it just for the sex and the various acts.
I want to meet the ones that are in or looking for relationships that have or want the lifestyle as an intricate part of their relationship.

I tried to look for a site for a checklist of things that someone in the lifestyle should go through before getting involved in a BDSM relationship but it seems a lot of those sites no longer exist for some reason.
I do not want to go into a BDSM relationship blind and I wish there was a better way to meet good people in the lifestyle rather than a hit and miss situation.
I don’t even know if there are other people in KFalls who are in the lifestyle.

I do not want to be in another relationship where the man thinks I am in need of mental help or thinks it is a free for all to treat me as they totally wish either.
I am not a doormat nor a punching bag to be abused and ill treated.

If any of you have any help you can give me I would appreciate it greatly.
Is there any way of having one on one chat like you would with messenger in here????


Thank you,
millenium

Millenium,

Please, by all means, take your precious time in getting to know someone that you desire to control you. A lot of people do not know their position and what it entails as a Dom. Each Dom is different, yes, but many new generation Doms don't give much of a decent fuck about their subs/slaves/fuck toys. Your needs, wants, limits, are just as important as his. (Oh and by the way, please tell me ur a female, lol. If you are a male then I'll say Mistress or Domme). There has to be a mutual trust, respect, bond, and being able to connect through the mind before the D/s relationship can actually get on with it.

I have made many mistakes of jumping into it. I have hardly any limits, but one very important limits is to not be hit in the face for punishment, spit on, or treated like I'm lower than dirt. I was struck in the face by a Dom and I ended it on the spot. You have many years to find the right Dom/Domme/Mistress of your desire. Explore the BDSM lifestyle/culture, for I am sure it will bring you much satisfaction and happiness.

 

[satindesire]

Damnit!!!

I just went out for ice cream (true!) and had a hankering for lemon. Also, I just licked the screen when I typed that.

Your PM box is too full.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Your PM box is too full.

I seriously live in clutter. I cleared a small corner, though!

 

[CurvAppeal]

Is it bad to say that I like being a fucktoy? Is it bad to say that I like forced submission? Is it bad to say that both these combined makes me soaking wet?

Some people think its stupid, some think its whatever, some think its hot, some think its orgasmic.

Which are you?

 

[cf23430]

i think its hot and orgasmic

 

[sillygooz]

Would I be redundant in say..........."i think its hot and orgasmic".............

 

[CurvAppeal]

i think its hot and orgasmic

Thank you, Daddy! =)

Would I be redundant in say..........."i think its hot and orgasmic".............

No, not redundant. I did ask the question you know. =)

 

[HottieMama]

It's what gets you hot...no judgment or opinion needed.

I enjoy really Un-PC race-play with my girlfriend... Most people look at that with disdain.

 

[CurvAppeal]

Define race-play?

 

[HottieMama]

Race-play for me: Scenes that involve specific words and phrases "taking advantage" of the fact that I am white and she is black. (i.e. nigger, spook, porch monkey....)

 

[CurvAppeal]

Ohhhh I getcha. =) Nothing wrong with that. Its what makes your boat float.

 

[YourCaptor]

I think curvappeal is hot.

 

[Kojote]

Something about me? And true it shall be, eh?

Well...
I was once married to a prostitute.
And I can't forget the day in a far past when I was always desperate to get laid and met a girl who was willing to help me out with this. And being a total gentleman I didn't even have a clue that she just played a little shy and when she offered me to sleep at her place (actually in her pretty small bed) I refused for I couldn't promise her to 'behave properly'.
Oh boy... Put this on No 1 on my list of things I would fix if I ever get a time machine ...
Even the totally clueless and dumb past me realized the BIG mistake I made after I was out of the appartment.

Another one?
A beer in my face teached me that the german saying 'Looking like a doused poodle' (which is used if someone is soaking wet from rain) shouldn't be used unexpleined with young english ladies on a first date in a simplified manner like ' you look like a wet dog'.
You don't even get a chance to explain that.

 

[Kojote]

I think curvappeal is hot.

I second that ...