Tell me something...

[shy slave]

i was totally ready for a relationship with this one guy...but he ran away...hes an idiot

In the UK we have a a slogan on teen stuff (pencil cases etc)

'Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them'

Your ex seems to fit that slogan well.

 

[AtFirstSight]

In the UK we have a a slogan on teen stuff (pencil cases etc)

'Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them'

Your ex seems to fit that slogan well.

it says that on my wallet

 

[Shyguy1369]

Shyguy1369
My ex husband was three inches erect. I have small hands and it could fit across my palm.

I Lived with him for 7 years and was married for three.

He had an ex wife before me and we ended because he was having an affair with our next door neighbour who was a beautiful woman and could have had any number of men.

He had never had a woman who found the size a problem.
The first night we were together I didn't even notice it was small. It was him who brought the conversation up.
I was just embarrassed that I had been so intent on getting a fuck I hadn't paid that much attention to the equipment (does that make me a slut? )

His sister once asked me if the size was a problem, my response? It fits from my teeth to the back of my throat, what more do you need?

I didn't find the size an issue, I found that it managed to get into the cunt next door an issue!!

Sorry your ex was cheating on you, that is definately an issue. Thank you for your words though. They are very welcomed and appreciated. It is nice to know that there are women out there who actually believe that size doesn't matter. Thank you for the confidence boost... being shy it is one area that definately I need to improve on.

Thank you.

 

[The Neon Wolf]

Sometimes I wonder if I'm strange and hyper because I want to be, or if it's expected of me.

 

[desired_tempest]

OK, a blind fool. Diaster or not, you would be worth the risk!

awww well thank you...but hed rather stick with chicks that look like dudes

 

[desired_tempest]

Sometimes I wonder if I'm strange and hyper because I want to be, or if it's expected of me.

i act hyper and stupid around my cousins because they expect it and since the three sum ive had i'm now the whore of the family...they make fun of me for that too...just about everything i do they make fun of because its either stupid or funny...i only act that way because they expect it...

 

[SensualMan_in_PA]

awww well thank you...but hed rather stick with chicks that look like dudes

I like chicks who look like chicks: short, tall, skinny, BBW...it doesn't matter. You're better off without him!

 

[desired_tempest]

I like chicks who look like chicks: short, tall, skinny, BBW...it doesn't matter. You're better off without him!

sometimes i wonder...but ive made it this far without him...

 

[SensualMan_in_PA]

sometimes i wonder...but ive made it this far without him...

I have never found a person im my life that I couldn't live without. You will get past him, hon.

 

[desired_tempest]

I have never found a person im my life that I couldn't live without. You will get past him, hon.

thats kinda sad though...havent found a person to live without...i want to want someone like that...

 

[Jimm12380]

Few things I guess. First, ShyGuy, you aren't the only one that doesn't have much to offer in terms of cock size. I'm only about 5 inches myself and am also self concious about it.

Next, I know how you feel desired_tempest. I'm madly in love with my wife but she doesn't seem to be in love with me anymore. We hardly speak and we haven't slept in the same bed in over a year. It is hard when the love goes one way. Just know that you are not alone.

 

[SensualMan_in_PA]

thats kinda sad though...havent found a person to live without...i want to want someone like that...

Best of luck in your quest.

 

[bluebell]

pee-pee sticks and other maladies

Now I feel like I want to reassure the guys with the size issues:
Remember, some girls are small too. Even though I'm 24, I'm only 5ft tall (sure not gettin' any taller), and I've got lots of small bits (ha ha- please don't go to the dark side on that one).
My dentist told me to use a child-size toothbrush because my mouth is smaller than normal. I wear a size 6 shoe. I can't even wear tampons, for pity's sake.
So I ask you: do you really think I want a monster pee-pee stick inside me???

I don't think so.

Funny, that all sounded way less stupid in my head, and now I'm laughing hysterically at myself

 

[Shyguy1369]

Now I feel like I want to reassure the guys with the size issues:
Remember, some girls are small too. Even though I'm 24, I'm only 5ft tall (sure not gettin' any taller), and I've got lots of small bits (ha ha- please don't go to the dark side on that one).
My dentist told me to use a child-size toothbrush because my mouth is smaller than normal. I wear a size 6 shoe. I can't even wear tampons, for pity's sake.
So I ask you: do you really think I want a monster pee-pee stick inside me???

I don't think so.

Funny, that all sounded way less stupid in my head, and now I'm laughing hysterically at myself

What I think most of the problem is ...well I know I have felt it a lot. Is that women seem to be just as drool happy over men who are well endowed as a lot of men are with women. Men, like myself, who are not very well endowed and even slightly below average in size, there is no drooling really. So I guess it stands to reason that there would be size issues.

 

[Johnny_Sunshine]

What I think most of the problem is ...well I know I have felt it a lot. Is that women seem to be just as drool happy over men who are well endowed as a lot of men are with women. Men, like myself, who are not very well endowed and even slightly below average in size, there is no drooling really. So I guess it stands to reason that there would be size issues.

Dude, I think you'll find that, in general, the well-hung bloke is to men what the waif-thin model is to women: Sure, there are guys who love the skeletal look in women, but most don't. Still, we see women trying/wanting to look like those models, because they think that's what guys want.

Ditto big cocks. Sure, there are women who want nothing under 8 inches, but I'll bet there's plenty of women (like Bluebell7) who wouldn't go near an oversized donga.

In any case, unless you're 2 inches long, isn't the width more important for women? Unless I'm mistaken, women would prefer a normally-shaped 5 incher than a pencil-thin 7 incher???

FUck. I've just tried to reassure a guy about his size. lol!

 

[bluebell]

kind johnny

It's okay Johnny, just consider it a good deed for the week

 

[Glorified_G]

I don't believe in marriage. I don't think people were naturally meant to be monogamous.

I doubt people were naturally meant to be anything. Monogamy works very well for some people, and others not so much. It's just finding what makes you happy.

Bluebell which book is your quote from?

 

[bluebell]

It's Friday night and the bananas are dancing

The Brothers Karamazov. One of my favorite books ever (with the exception of those twenty or so extra chapters at the end where they re-summarize everything that already happened. But it wouldn't be Russian without it).
Just please don't ask for the page number

My father cannot fathom why I love the Russians. Teases me about it all the time...

 

[Glorified_G]

The Brothers Karamazov. One of my favorite books ever (with the exception of those twenty or so extra chapters at the end where they re-summarize everything that already happened. But it wouldn't be Russian without it).
Just please don't ask for the page number

My father cannot fathom why I love the Russians. Teases me about it all the time...

Yeah i'm a big fan of the russians myself, The authors at least. And Dostoevsky is my favorite and was even before i could pronounce his name. I'm kinda partial to "notes from the underground."

 

[desired_tempest]

Now I feel like I want to reassure the guys with the size issues:
Remember, some girls are small too. Even though I'm 24, I'm only 5ft tall (sure not gettin' any taller), and I've got lots of small bits (ha ha- please don't go to the dark side on that one).
My dentist told me to use a child-size toothbrush because my mouth is smaller than normal. I wear a size 6 shoe. I can't even wear tampons, for pity's sake.
So I ask you: do you really think I want a monster pee-pee stick inside me???

I don't think so.

Funny, that all sounded way less stupid in my head, and now I'm laughing hysterically at myself

sounds like this one post i read...this chick was afraid of her dildo after she already purchased it online...when she got it she was scared of it

 

[desired_tempest]

Dude, I think you'll find that, in general, the well-hung bloke is to men what the waif-thin model is to women: Sure, there are guys who love the skeletal look in women, but most don't. Still, we see women trying/wanting to look like those models, because they think that's what guys want.

Ditto big cocks. Sure, there are women who want nothing under 8 inches, but I'll bet there's plenty of women (like Bluebell7) who wouldn't go near an oversized donga.

In any case, unless you're 2 inches long, isn't the width more important for women? Unless I'm mistaken, women would prefer a normally-shaped 5 incher than a pencil-thin 7 incher???

FUck. I've just tried to reassure a guy about his size. lol!

i can definately say i dont care how small a guy is...as long as he is wide...if hes short and fat im sure id drool and beg to suck on your monster...if hes short and skinny i might laugh inside my head...but id still suck on your cock because i love sucking...just not fucking the lil guy...unless he knows how to work it

 

[sexychik69]

So okay I know this isn't really an "isolated blurt thread" like they have other places here on Lit, but I like to stay here in this forum where I have some friends, so here goes...

Short and sweet... I don't think I want my boyfriend anymore. As in sexual attraction. One, it's long distance (as most of you know)... two we've known each other for two years and have been having phone sex 5+ times a week for a year, never ceasing that habit... now he works a lot and is stressed by his job, his money, his family, etc... and that wonderful, wonderful blessing of a sex-addict I had just disappeared. He said he's bored... not with me, just bored of what we do. Tired of the distance, probably, which I am too. At any rate, he doesn't want to play anymore, saying he couldn't even get near as excited as he used to... then the other night I start talking about another girl (one of my friends) being with him and he had what we like to call a "chocolate orgasm" - aka great sex that requires eating chocolate afterwards. That doesn't really bother me that much, it's just that the fact that he doesn't want to play with ME anymore. He's still the same guy I knew, he's not stand-offish so I know he's not cheating. He's still very much in love with me, he just... I don't know, doesn't want me anymore I guess.

And even if he does still want me, he doesn't show it. I've asked him over two dozen times if he wanted to play, different days, different times, throughout the past month or two and he's turned me down every... single... time. So now I'm afraid to ask him because I know he'll say no, I'm afraid to flirt with him, I'm afraid to talk about sex with him, and the more times I get turned down, the less I actually want to play with him. I was thinking about him/us the other day, what'll happen when we finally meet in March... nothing. I didn't get aroused at all.

I'm hoping that this'll get better, and maybe I can figure something out for myself as well to handle it.

Sorry all that this is so long and so unrelated to anyone else, but my friends are all gone on holiday.

Thanks so much for reading this, it means a lot.

 

[sexychik69]

Dude, I think you'll find that, in general, the well-hung bloke is to men what the waif-thin model is to women: Sure, there are guys who love the skeletal look in women, but most don't. Still, we see women trying/wanting to look like those models, because they think that's what guys want.

Ditto big cocks. Sure, there are women who want nothing under 8 inches, but I'll bet there's plenty of women (like Bluebell7) who wouldn't go near an oversized donga.

In any case, unless you're 2 inches long, isn't the width more important for women? Unless I'm mistaken, women would prefer a normally-shaped 5 incher than a pencil-thin 7 incher???

FUck. I've just tried to reassure a guy about his size. lol!

Completely agree. I love to suck cock, and I love to deepthroat, so I don't want an oversized guy at all. Plus I don't want to have to wait five minutes to get used to his strokes because he's "hung" and be in all that discomfort... I don't want to relive my first time that much! lol I want a guy that can put himself inside me, still be tight, but not be uncomfortable.

I'd prefer between 5-6 inches, MAYBE 7... a decent width, too, but I mean hell once you get going it's kinda hard to feel his size anyway, eh?

 

[desired_tempest]

my employer cheats...doesnt pay me minimum wage when im not waitressing...correct me if im wrong...but arent emoyees that dont make tips supposed to get min wage?...i believe they do...

 

[skygazer]

Yes you are correct... Any employee not receiving tips must be paid the federal minimum wage. Depending on which state you live in, the minimum wage may actually be higher there... Get in touch with your local state labor board and report your employer to them. They will audit his/her payroll records and force your boss to pay you all the wages you had coming on all those hours you worked below the minimum. In other words you will receive back pay The only possible exception would be if you had been getting paid a salary... I hope this helps you