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sexycaz22
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I was in chelleb's thread and noticed the link to this thread....
Awesome! This thread have given me a few ideas as a Top/Domme when and if I do act my fantasies out and get myself a subbie boy! *laughs*
Seriously although, the thread were very good, a rare that I just sat down and read the whole thread, it took me hours to finish reading the whole thread!
Thank you Fury for starting this thread up and thank you to chelleb for bumping it up!
PS, sorry I have no tasks as such to share (as a bottom) but hopefully I will get to share a few ones after the New Year, as my new year's resolutions is to either get a Dom or a subbie boy or both!! *laughs*
Awesome! This thread have given me a few ideas as a Top/Domme when and if I do act my fantasies out and get myself a subbie boy! *laughs*
Seriously although, the thread were very good, a rare that I just sat down and read the whole thread, it took me hours to finish reading the whole thread!
Thank you Fury for starting this thread up and thank you to chelleb for bumping it up!
PS, sorry I have no tasks as such to share (as a bottom) but hopefully I will get to share a few ones after the New Year, as my new year's resolutions is to either get a Dom or a subbie boy or both!! *laughs*
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ecstaticsub
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Interesting thread...I'll read through the whole thing eventually.
Tasks that I have been assigned:
--To read certain books-these have been both fiction and non-fiction sex and D/s related books.
--To write stories. Also if I masturbate at a time other then on cam for him and I am using a fantasy I write that up for him, too.
--Send pictures, videos or recordings of our cam sessions
--Design and sew a hood
--Purchase certain clothing (usually costumes) before a meeting with him
In general I really enjoy the tasks. Sometimes it is difficult to finish a story by a deadline he has set but he has extended deadlines for good reasons. I find writing fantasies to be a fun way of communication what really turns me on without actually asking him to do something to/for me.
Tasks that I have been assigned:
--To read certain books-these have been both fiction and non-fiction sex and D/s related books.
--To write stories. Also if I masturbate at a time other then on cam for him and I am using a fantasy I write that up for him, too.
--Send pictures, videos or recordings of our cam sessions
--Design and sew a hood
--Purchase certain clothing (usually costumes) before a meeting with him
In general I really enjoy the tasks. Sometimes it is difficult to finish a story by a deadline he has set but he has extended deadlines for good reasons. I find writing fantasies to be a fun way of communication what really turns me on without actually asking him to do something to/for me.
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I know they frustrate me because I cant find the words to wrap around the images in my head without becoming crass or cliche and sounding like a poorly written penthouse forum letter. The fantasies are great in my mind where they play like movies... but just like reading a screenplay, it just seems to lose the fire in the translation...FurryFury said:
or maybe it's just the author
EmpressFi
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Exactly!FurryFury said:
some tasks I've been given were to write out conversations we've had during phone sex or things we've done together.. and it's just never as good as it is in my head.. almost to where I dont want to show him or anyone for that matter. It just appears rushed to me.. forced..
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I know what you mean about the problems with writing or even retelling fantasies out loud. However, sharing my fantasies has been a major part of my relationship. I never was able to share them with my husband, not the really good ones because he is immediately turned off by anything BDSM related/forced sex/kidnapings etc--all the things that get me the hottest. So after 20 years of keeping them to myself, sharing them with someone was a little difficult. But it has really opened me up and my enjoyment of sex has skyrocketed. (and that is with a starting point that was high to begin with..lol)
I do the fantasies in a couple of ways. Sometimes he will give me a very rough outline of a fantasy of his own and then I expand on it and add in my own fantasy elements. That comes out more as a story.
If I have to write up a fantasy that I had while masturbating I warn him that the scenes may be disconnected and not make alot of sense. There is no attention to grammar or flow, it just is as my mind sees it. He says it is very interesting for him to read them because he gets to see exactly how my mind works.
Another way is to make a video of myself masturbating. During the video I am half describing the pictures in my head and half acting out the fantasy by what I am saying. This is effective because he gets to see the physical effect certain words or scenes have on me first hand--whether I orgasm, gush, squirt use my toy faster or slower, etc.
The story series I am working on now he gave me the set up premise and I took it from there. I send him a chapter as I complete each one. He will add in a few ideas of his own, too. This part is the best for me--I get to see what is going on in his mind.
Another great thing about sharing fantasies, especially in the beginning but even now is the humiliation and shame part of it. Admitting that some really nasty taboo types of things really get me off has the effect on me.
I do the fantasies in a couple of ways. Sometimes he will give me a very rough outline of a fantasy of his own and then I expand on it and add in my own fantasy elements. That comes out more as a story.
If I have to write up a fantasy that I had while masturbating I warn him that the scenes may be disconnected and not make alot of sense. There is no attention to grammar or flow, it just is as my mind sees it. He says it is very interesting for him to read them because he gets to see exactly how my mind works.
Another way is to make a video of myself masturbating. During the video I am half describing the pictures in my head and half acting out the fantasy by what I am saying. This is effective because he gets to see the physical effect certain words or scenes have on me first hand--whether I orgasm, gush, squirt use my toy faster or slower, etc.
The story series I am working on now he gave me the set up premise and I took it from there. I send him a chapter as I complete each one. He will add in a few ideas of his own, too. This part is the best for me--I get to see what is going on in his mind.
Another great thing about sharing fantasies, especially in the beginning but even now is the humiliation and shame part of it. Admitting that some really nasty taboo types of things really get me off has the effect on me.
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Ah, the old days. So many fond memories. So many who commented that have been quiet for a long time or are gone now.
I never did complete or even come close to completing the list of 50 things I like about me. That, for me, is the task with the greatest degree of difficult yet.
The carrot / ice / writing task outlined clearly that I didn't want to be doing crazy shit for people I didn't know or have a connection to.
Oh well. Live and learn. And that IS what it's all about.
I never did complete or even come close to completing the list of 50 things I like about me. That, for me, is the task with the greatest degree of difficult yet.
The carrot / ice / writing task outlined clearly that I didn't want to be doing crazy shit for people I didn't know or have a connection to.
Oh well. Live and learn. And that IS what it's all about.
