Heya!!! What kind of relationship did you have with your sub? Ie control just in sex, just in the bedroom or did you get them to cum in public, did you have control over parts of their lives?
i have a sub and its just control over masturbation and setting challenges as I'm quite new to this.
I'm new to BDSM and curious to see where this thread goes. Right now the Master/Slave thing isn't a constant, it's more of an angle to spice things up when weare in the mood. When we are we experiment with masturbation control, orgasm denial, bondage, forced oral, slapping/spanking, name calling, etc.
its about communication really, getting to know the other persons fetishes, quirks and discovering yours whilst enforcing afterwards care you have for the other person. After i domme i make sure my bitch (my boyfriend) knows I love him etc,