Taking on all cummers, male or female.....

[Shadowsdream]

Would Y/you find this statement submissive or abusive?
Vanilla or BDSM?
Desperation or entrapment?
Arguments could be made for all the above possibilities and it would interest Me to be joined in this conversation...
Perhaps even a few possibilities I have not yet added?

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

That is so lacking in any context that it could mean almost anything, from an invite to an orgy, to an ad for his & hers sex toys.

 

[Shadowsdream]

That is so lacking in any context that it could mean almost anything, from an invite to an orgy, to an ad for his & hers sex toys.

Perhaps I should have added the link to the inviting winking asshole?
Would that have helped you with the question?

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I am incredibly glad I didn't need to see a winking asshole at this hour of the morning!!

Frankly, I am disgusted abut suck flagrant displays of...whatever it is that would drive someone to be so indiscriminant about their sexual partners, or that desperate for attention.

 

[Shadowsdream]

I am incredibly glad I didn't need to see a winking asshole at this hour of the morning!!

Frankly, I am disgusted abut suck flagrant displays of...whatever it is that would drive someone to be so indiscriminant about their sexual partners, or that desperate for attention.

~~grin~~
desperation was such an easssy word to add to the list...so fitting! I missed attention though didn't I...they go hand in hand for sure.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I think a desperate need for attention would have to be the driving force behind someone doing that. 3-layers-deep stupidity may be a factor as well...

 

[mistresssilkeng]

RE: lance's butt

I think that butt might be technically God's work, but that statement is all lance. So very sad that he had noone take him up on his offer, and came to the BDSM board to blame the masses. I believe that the statement shows his need for abuse, degredation, and it smacks of a naughty boy

Silken

P.S: poor lance My girl larksparrow has found you out and shown the world, maybe it is time to get into therapy and out of lit.

 

[Shadowsdream]

I think a desperate need for attention would have to be the driving force behind someone doing that. 3-layers-deep stupidity may be a factor as well...

I can't agree about the stupidity..there is always an agenda...I tend to look beyond the obvious and delve for the agenda. Sometimes the obvious is a smoke screen to cover dishonesty, the not so subtle desperation for attention by one that no one sees in real life..or?

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I apologise, I should have spoken more clearly. While possibly not stupid(debatable), such crass lack of class and good taste is disturbing to me. Whatever agenda that a winking anus is supporting, cannot be something a sensible person would get involved in.

 

[mistresssilkeng]

I apologise, I should have spoken more clearly. While possibly not stupid(debatable), such crass lack of class and good taste is disturbing to me. Whatever agenda that a winking anus is supporting, cannot be something a sensible person would get involved in.

I agree and that is where the problem begins, no sensible person did get involved. I think you can add pathetic to the list.

 

[lark sparrow]

lol I think Ebony noticed it right away and mentioned it when lancemanyon first started spewing here, but as it seems there is no conversing or reasoning with him whatsoever, no matter who or how they approach - that's all I have left to say to him. A mirror of sorts if you will.

I think the poster is desperately avoiding some heavy duty personal issues and in the meantime projects them onto others in desperation - it's pretty blatant. A louder cry for help is rarely seen, and it's a pretty strong push/pull to keep coming back here again and again - but sheesh, is it ever transparently annoying.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I didn't realize this was a lancemanyon thread...I wonder if he got burned, or if he simply hasn't found anyone to fuck him yet?

 

[Shadowsdream]

I apologise, I should have spoken more clearly. While possibly not stupid(debatable), such crass lack of class and good taste is disturbing to me. Whatever agenda that a winking anus is supporting, cannot be something a sensible person would get involved in.

Do you see the winking anus as an invitation to be degraded...used...abused..fullfilled..Dominated...to submit or to?
The inviting ass wanting a spanking or more?

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Do you see the winking anus as an invitation to be degraded...used...abused..fullfilled..Dominated...to submit or to?
The inviting ass wanting a spanking or more?

Well, I refuse to SEE it at all...there isn't enough money in the world!

However, the lack of discrimination in choosing a partner would makeme suggest that it is a need for degradation/humiliation more than anything else.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: RE: lance's butt

I think that butt might be technically God's work, but that statement is all lance. So very sad that he had noone take him up on his offer, and came to the BDSM board to blame the masses. I believe that the statement shows his need for abuse, degredation, and it smacks of a naughty boy

Silken

P.S: poor lance My girl larksparrow has found you out and shown the world, maybe it is time to get into therapy and out of lit.

Do you agree that the attention is self serving? The pose is certainly a portrayal of a naughty boy.
The picture in and of itself I do not find offensive but I have found reason to think about the why it is presented..along with the caption of course...ahhh reading between the lines can uncover so many possibilities.

 

[Shadowsdream]

lol I think Ebony noticed it right away and mentioned it when lancemanyon first started spewing here, but as it seems there is no conversing or reasoning with him whatsoever, no matter who or how they approach - that's all I have left to say to him. A mirror of sorts if you will.

I think the poster is desperately avoiding some heavy duty personal issues and in the meantime projects them onto others in desperation - it's pretty blatant. A louder cry for help is rarely seen, and it's a pretty strong push/pull to keep coming back here again and again - but sheesh, is it ever transparently annoying.

Ah ha but have you noticed how well he takes the posting of his thread..how delighted he is to be seen..how in denial about his intentions and how delighted he is for this attention.
No negativity comes when the subject is his ass... a cry for help...or a cry for attention?
Abusive in dishonesty?
submissive in a break me kind of way?
Dom/me me dammit mind set?

 

[Shadowsdream]

I didn't realize this was a lancemanyon thread...I wonder if he got burned, or if he simply hasn't found anyone to fuck him yet?

lancemanyon is just a moment in time on this board...they come and go...but the topic holds validity wayyyy beyond one man's filtered perception of reality.
It interests Me to find the correlation and connection that drags a desperate ass from a non functioning, who gives a damn, amatuer pic thread to the topic of BDSM (couched in any bullshit propaganda) just to get the needed attention.
So I must refer to My first post and hope that more feed back will come from that post!

 

[Shadowsdream]

Well, I refuse to SEE it at all...there isn't enough money in the world!

However, the lack of discrimination in choosing a partner would makeme suggest that it is a need for degradation/humiliation more than anything else.

Your perception certainly could be a very valid take on reality here. Do you agree that the lack of discrimination shows a good grasp on role play, a need to live on the edge of depravity, or just plain and simple desperation?

 

[lark sparrow]

The thread and picture itself do seem to lend themselves to a more submissive, being used and taken sort of plea - which in and of itself holds no offense to me, particularly as an online fantasy. Combined with the attack on a whole group of people and the blatant misrepresentation, the statement that he has suffered abuse in his past, etc. he seems to invite such speculation... I definitely see Your point about the attention-seeking. (I have Mistress on the telephone, AFK, or She would answer.)

 

[Shadowsdream]

The thread and picture itself do seem to lend themselves to a more submissive, being used and taken sort of plea - which in and of itself holds no offense to me, particularly as an online fantasy. Combined with the attack on a whole group of people and the blatant misrepresentation, the statement that he has suffered abuse in his past, etc. he seems to invite such speculation... I definitely see Your point about the attention-seeking. (I have Mistress on the telephone, AFK, or She would answer.)

Perhaps an attention slut? ~~grin~~
Attacking a group of people that are sure to respond is a sure way to get an attention fix when winking seems ineffective.
A bit of topping from the bottom, an insecure way of trying to come to terms with hidden desires?
Aggressive in the questioning but passive in the personal exposure of the intellect, the past or the present?
Now how deep does this agenda go? Where is the entrapment? When there is little honesty there is always entrapment!

 

[lark sparrow]

Perhaps it is a need to stay on the "right side" while still exploring some of his fantasies, therefore needing to create villians and victims and paint himself as the sheppard of God. Or maybe he is just frustrated and looking for a cause, or bored and looking for excitement. Why is this public denial so important? Deciding that you don't like BDSM is one thing, but crusading and painting all others as one dimensional demons is another. What do you think would happen if someone agreed with him? He doesn't seem to want that, as he could find people elsewhere who would be more aligned with his views. What would he do with a convert? As far as I can tell he has no real desire to convert anyone or he would be more informed and persuasive - perhaps it is all simply about the need for attention. Oooh, look at me - I'm so naughty I showed my butthole online and asked for all cummers... hmmm, that didn't really have the desired effect... oooh, look at me - BDSM is bad!

 

[A Desert Rose]

My take on this, now that I finally understand and have found a bit of background about this is that some people like to tweek others behind the safety of their computer screens.

The agenda is to try to demean other people and BDSM just seems to be the topic of choice this month. If this were a cooking/recipe board, he would be attacking us for the use of butter in our butter cookies.

I think really, it is a dolt who behaves in this fashion.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Having failed to get any "action" with his desperate attempt over on the AmPic thread, the attention whore had resorted to pushing our buttons over here. It worked for a short while. He got busted, LOL. Now he's flailing about, trying to find even more flagrant means by which to catch eyes. Winking assholes just don't cut it anymore, eh?

~anelize

 

[Shadowsdream]

Perhaps it is a need to stay on the "right side" while still exploring some of his fantasies, therefore needing to create villians and victims and paint himself as the sheppard of God. Or maybe he is just frustrated and looking for a cause, or bored and looking for excitement. Why is this public denial so important? Deciding that you don't like BDSM is one thing, but crusading and painting all others as one dimensional demons is another. What do you think would happen if someone agreed with him? He doesn't seem to want that, as he could find people elsewhere who would be more aligned with his views. What would he do with a convert? As far as I can tell he has no real desire to convert anyone or he would be more informed and persuasive - perhaps it is all simply about the need for attention. Oooh, look at me - I'm so naughty I showed my butthole online and asked for all cummers... hmmm, that didn't really have the desired effect... oooh, look at me - BDSM is bad!

Very very good..more questions to ponder..what a web we weave when we (try?) to deceive?
I can see that very soon I am going to have to expand the original list... of possibilities.
Thank you lark sparrow for giving this most puzzling display of conflicting erotic perceptions your usual depth of introspection.
The conversation is definately well worth continuing.

 

[Shadowsdream]

My take on this, now that I finally understand and have found a bit of background about this is that some people like to tweek others behind the safety of their computer screens.

The agenda is to try to demean other people and BDSM just seems to be the topic of choice this month. If this were a cooking/recipe board, he would be attacking us for the use of butter in our butter cookies.

I think really, it is a dolt who behaves in this fashion.

*dolt* you say..hmmm now I think the list needs to be strung together in alphabetical order!
Good scrabble word! Wonderful 4 letter word...offensive only if it applies and definately not abusive in any manner that could be construed as BDSM or sexual.
* tweek and dolt* damn you may have struck a hit on the head of the nail...maybe not the head asking for attention but...