I have been having sex for about 2 years now. and I love to have sex but i have a problem. I'm trying to find how to make myself more comfortable with taking control. I have the hardest time trying to ride a male. I can do the moves just fine. like i've shown other females how to do it. as in we got on the floor and i showed them the rocking of the hips and even the bounce as i call it. but i just can't do it on a guy.. like.. I can but i feel so odd doing it. And I have done so much sexual but this is one area where I have issues and I feel that if i can find ways or tips on how to feel more comfortable with getting over the oddness of it then i'll be opening up new sexual doors for myself. one friend told me to get drunk and then i'll forget all about the oddness of it. but i dont really like the idea of that. so i was hoping someone here could help me.
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If you have trouble taking control as such, you could try thinking of it as something you're doing mostly for his pleasure, like giving a blow job for example. Focus on him and how much he's enjoying letting you do the work for a change, by concentrating on what he's getting out of it, you'll feel less dominant and have less time to feel awkward.
