suurfer
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In a way this is true but the change in outlook/behavior/physique/health is something you seek for yourself, not for the admiration of others.
During their lifetime, people oscillate between a focus on the other or the self,
between individualism-independence and commonality-being with the other or in the world. There are variations too, depending on the person, the culture or one's stage of life.
Doesn't matter where you are at, or if you differ from your peers or your stage in life, the main thing is 'being in the flow'.
I think you're referring to people who haven't achieved internal maturity or independence, probably due to bad experiences -- a different ball game.
(Unrelated to this):
I found Anglo-Saxon philosophical and psychological sciences to be at times excessively rationalistic, puritanistic and disheartening.
Paradoxically so, since on an instrumental level they're 10 times better at promoting individual freedoms and rights.
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