Swinging experience anyone?

[Visage]

Hi all,

My wife and I are comptemplating/close to joining a certain site with a view to 'swinging' with other couples.

We have seen a few programmes where couples say it has done great things for their relationship and after 20 years together we feel that now may be the time to try.

We have discussed the pitfalls, so no advice there please, but would love to read responses from couples with actual experience - be those experiences good or bad!

Thanks, Visage / markandangie.

 

[david_42]

Swingers tend to be nice people. ASwinging won't hurt a good releatinship and will accelerate the destruction on a bad one. The biggest problem in the community is men who use their wife or GF as a ticket into events, knowing she has no intent of participating.

I didn't stay in the community for very long, 99% of swingers are night people & I'm not.

 

[SweetErika]

Have you been to, and asked on, Advice/Info on Swinging in the HT Cafe? There's also another thread running right now on in one of the other forums, so try an advanced search.

Edit: I'd also check out http://www.SwingersBoard.com because there are a ton of nice, knowledgeable folks who welcome questions and newbies there.