dixiegirl210
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My bf and I are really curious about swinging, swapping, and group sex. We would love to know more about the lifestyle. Any tips on how to start experimenting?
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cele2flowers
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dixiegirl210 said:
You wanna be a little more specific? The only tips I can think of on how to start experimenting is to meet other people that swing and see what happens. Preferably a couple that's been in it for quite some time and is willing to "show you the ropes" so to speak.
Drop me a line if you have some specific questions. I've been in it for 2 years now.
Its best to meet with couple
Its best to meet a couple that meets your needs and you and boy friend are ready for same room or seprate room sex. Be sure there is no regrets in doing so and enjoy some of the best friendships and sex know to man.The spouse and I have enjoyed swaping and group sex for over 12 years.She love to eat my cum out of the women that I fuck. I in turn love fucking her after she has had sex with a coulpe of me I love pumping the loads out of her.I also like fucking her in her ass as aomeone fucks her pussy.She likes showing off her ability to suck any cock all the way down her throat untill they cum in the throat.We have a very large group of friends and we all built a culdesac where 32 couples live that swap with each other on a weekly night.We wish you and yours the very best.
Its best to meet a couple that meets your needs and you and boy friend are ready for same room or seprate room sex. Be sure there is no regrets in doing so and enjoy some of the best friendships and sex know to man.The spouse and I have enjoyed swaping and group sex for over 12 years.She love to eat my cum out of the women that I fuck. I in turn love fucking her after she has had sex with a coulpe of me I love pumping the loads out of her.I also like fucking her in her ass as aomeone fucks her pussy.She likes showing off her ability to suck any cock all the way down her throat untill they cum in the throat.We have a very large group of friends and we all built a culdesac where 32 couples live that swap with each other on a weekly night.We wish you and yours the very best.
SweetErika
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Aren't you the least bit worried about STDs and infections?1forLove said:
Yang4yin
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Playful Swingers is a good place to try to meet like-minded people. There are members from all over the country.
Although I'm not a member, I have friends who are and they recommend it for couples. For a single male, they say it's not a good deal.
Although I'm not a member, I have friends who are and they recommend it for couples. For a single male, they say it's not a good deal.
Just_4_Giggles
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SweetErika said:Aren't you the least bit worried about STDs and infections?
That is my first response, also. My husband and I were recently invited to a swingers club. . . while we don't swing and will most likely not start to swing, the atmosphere is highly erotic and makes for some great sex between each other...(it's a cool adventure
)...but what I was told by some long time swingers (I ask a lot of questions!) is that "most" of the club members swing among each other and that in the 4 years it has been open, no one has reported getting a "bad" STD (AIDS, Herpes, Syph, Gon). vs., say, a yeast infection. It is primarily couples and I was quite impressed with its cleanliness, class and "non-seedy" feeling.
On the other hand, when you keep the fact in mind that YOU are sleeping with EVERY OTHER PERSON that person has slept with, well, it's just not worth entertaining even a little worry by participating. (Hubby and I went into a room and a "wet spot" seeped up from the mattress thru the new sheet that had been put on...I FREAKED and yanked him into the bathroom for a good SURGICAL scrubbing!)
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Yeah, I can *maybe* understand that many partners when safer sex practices are used, but people do cheat even when they're in an open relationship, there's always a chance of something being contracted through a less risky activity or condoms failing, so it's just too much of a risk for me personally. Not using condoms while swinging/having multiple partners seems royally stupid, even if those partners claim they are safe and are tested regularly.Just_4_Giggles said:That is my first response, also. My husband and I were recently invited to a swingers club. . . while we don't swing and will most likely not start to swing, the atmosphere is highly erotic and makes for some great sex between each other...(it's a cool adventure
...but what I was told by some long time swingers (I ask a lot of questions!) is that "most" of the club members swing among each other and that in the 4 years it has been open, no one has reported getting a "bad" STD (AIDS, Herpes, Syph, Gon). vs., say, a yeast infection. It is primarily couples and I was quite impressed with its cleanliness, class and "non-seedy" feeling.
On the other hand, when you keep the fact in mind that YOU are sleeping with EVERY OTHER PERSON that person has slept with, well, it's just not worth entertaining even a little worry by participating. (Hubby and I went into a room and a "wet spot" seeped up from the mattress thru the new sheet that had been put on...I FREAKED and yanked him into the bathroom for a good SURGICAL scrubbing!)
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SweetErika said:Aren't you the least bit worried about STDs and infections?1forLove said:
When it's all in his head, there's no worries!
cele2flowers
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I just remembered something else I would recommend for swinging. Read "The Ethical Slut" by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt. You should be able to find it at Barnes & Noble or Borders Books. I'd go far enough to call enough to call it the swinger's bible. Check it out.
bob69carter
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Safe swinging
My wife and I have been swingers for many years and really love it. We don't like swingers clubs but rather look for nice couples through ads who don't put it around freely, but are a little more selective. We don't go with people we don't like, we practice safe sex always but once we meet a nice couple, we enjoy the exhileration of having sex with other partners. Our golden rules however are 'no means no' from either of us, and never have a 2some - we are always in the same room. So long as both of you are genuinely keen to sample the delights you can't lose anything by trying, but if your own relationship is rocky, swinging will break you up rather than keep you together
My wife and I have been swingers for many years and really love it. We don't like swingers clubs but rather look for nice couples through ads who don't put it around freely, but are a little more selective. We don't go with people we don't like, we practice safe sex always but once we meet a nice couple, we enjoy the exhileration of having sex with other partners. Our golden rules however are 'no means no' from either of us, and never have a 2some - we are always in the same room. So long as both of you are genuinely keen to sample the delights you can't lose anything by trying, but if your own relationship is rocky, swinging will break you up rather than keep you together
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