Swinger Erotica

[jeninflorida]

okay dokie kiddies, when you think about couples with an open marriage what kinds of things to you picture?

is it best for couples to jump in and share with another couple or start off slow? Would you prefer to have them in a swinger club or two couples sharing at one of their homes?

has anyone written and published a story along these lines?

My personal challenge is that I don't think I could ever be comfortable and confident in a club with 150 other couples

ideas....thoughts....

 

[soflabbwlvr]

okay dokie kiddies, when you think about couples with an open marriage what kinds of things to you picture?

is it best for couples to jump in and share with another couple or start off slow? Would you prefer to have them in a swinger club or two couples sharing at one of their homes?

has anyone written and published a story along these lines?

My personal challenge is that I don't think I could ever be comfortable and confident in a club with 150 other couples

ideas....thoughts....

I have few stories published on Lit. that involve swinging couples. To varying degrees they are based on true events that I have experienced over the past 12 years.

Another Couples Party is one of my earliest efforts on the site. It describes a married couple attending a private house party in South Florida. If you have never been to a swinger party in a private home, this story provides an accurate taste of the experience. Of course, some of the action is exaggerated--but on the whole it is fairly representational.

Old Flame, New Game Ch. 5 is the conclusion to a bittersweet romance. Most of the story takes place at a club modeled after a well-known Lifestyle Club in South Florida that I used to frequent. In this story, the male is an experienced swinger, but the female is new to the scene. Although it describes the action as all happening in one night, it is actually based on several visits.

Desperate Measures: The Caterer involves four swinging couples introducing a fifth couple to the scene while vacationing in Islamorada.

 

[lovecraft68]

Personally I prefer a slow build up and generally one of the couples to be new to the game. A little hesitation, a little seduction.

I enjoy stories like that rather than an all out orgy or a "Hey they're hot let's go fuck them!"

Then again I enjoy writing and reading "ice breaking" stories in pretty much all categories.

 

[jeninflorida]

for me, I have to have a connection with the characters. To know how and why they started to share.

I'm still not comfortable with the word 'swinger' as it strikes a mental image of Burt Renyolds smoking a cigar in a hot tub wearing cowboy boots

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I also think that many couples approach swinging/alternative life style with a lot of trepidation, questioning, uncertainty, desire, mixed emotions, etc. A story that doesn't include these and just have them jumping the first couple they meet lacks that tension that exists. Much of it also depends on why they are entering into it - is their a lull in their sex lives and they want to "spice" things up? maybe in finally opening up after some years of marriage they both realized they share a fantasy of seeing the others? maybe the male wants to see his wife with another female only? maybe he has the hots of another married woman and talks his wife into meeting them to fulfill his secret desire?

As well, one tends to "meet" lots of couples before actually finding the one where everyone is comfortable and interested and attracted enough to each other.

It would probably also start with same room, but no swapping, or else just the 2 women having sex while the guys watch.

Once a couple gets more into it, more comfortable with the situation then things progress to swapping, meeting with multiple couples at the same time, and going to a club...

 

[lovecraft68]

I'm still not comfortable with the word 'swinger' as it strikes a mental image of Burt Renyolds smoking a cigar in a hot tub wearing cowboy boots

 

[sirhugs]

okay dokie kiddies, when you think about couples with an open marriage what kinds of things to you picture?

is it best for couples to jump in and share with another couple or start off slow? Would you prefer to have them in a swinger club or two couples sharing at one of their homes?

has anyone written and published a story along these lines?

My personal challenge is that I don't think I could ever be comfortable and confident in a club with 150 other couples

ideas....thoughts....

when i hear "open marriage" I don't necessarily think "swingers"... I had an "open marriage" which sure wasn't swinging or swapping...

for the scenarios you paint, I think starting with one other couple is more realistic, but on Lit, realistic is optional...

 

[jeninflorida]

when i hear "open marriage" I don't necessarily think "swingers"... I had an "open marriage" which sure wasn't swinging or swapping...

for the scenarios you paint, I think starting with one other couple is more realistic, but on Lit, realistic is optional...

ha yeah! I got some nasty emails when the sex didn't happen till page 2

however, its nice to see that more women have discovered literotica!

 

[jeninflorida]

I also think that many couples approach swinging/alternative life style with a lot of trepidation, questioning, uncertainty, desire, mixed emotions, etc. A story that doesn't include these and just have them jumping the first couple they meet lacks that tension that exists. Much of it also depends on why they are entering into it - is their a lull in their sex lives and they want to "spice" things up? maybe in finally opening up after some years of marriage they both realized they share a fantasy of seeing the others? maybe the male wants to see his wife with another female only? maybe he has the hots of another married woman and talks his wife into meeting them to fulfill his secret desire?

As well, one tends to "meet" lots of couples before actually finding the one where everyone is comfortable and interested and attracted enough to each other.

It would probably also start with same room, but no swapping, or else just the 2 women having sex while the guys watch.

Once a couple gets more into it, more comfortable with the situation then things progress to swapping, meeting with multiple couples at the same time, and going to a club...

Great post!

 

[MatthewVett]

I also think that many couples approach swinging/alternative life style with a lot of trepidation, questioning, uncertainty, desire, mixed emotions, etc. A story that doesn't include these and just have them jumping the first couple they meet lacks that tension that exists. Much of it also depends on why they are entering into it - is their a lull in their sex lives and they want to "spice" things up? maybe in finally opening up after some years of marriage they both realized they share a fantasy of seeing the others? maybe the male wants to see his wife with another female only? maybe he has the hots of another married woman and talks his wife into meeting them to fulfill his secret desire?

As well, one tends to "meet" lots of couples before actually finding the one where everyone is comfortable and interested and attracted enough to each other.

It would probably also start with same room, but no swapping, or else just the 2 women having sex while the guys watch.

Once a couple gets more into it, more comfortable with the situation then things progress to swapping, meeting with multiple couples at the same time, and going to a club...

I like this post a lot, too. If I write another swinging story, I think this will be the basis for it.

 

[jeninflorida]

I also think that many couples approach swinging/alternative life style with a lot of trepidation, questioning, uncertainty, desire, mixed emotions, etc. A story that doesn't include these and just have them jumping the first couple they meet lacks that tension that exists. Much of it also depends on why they are entering into it - is their a lull in their sex lives and they want to "spice" things up? maybe in finally opening up after some years of marriage they both realized they share a fantasy of seeing the others? maybe the male wants to see his wife with another female only? maybe he has the hots of another married woman and talks his wife into meeting them to fulfill his secret desire?

As well, one tends to "meet" lots of couples before actually finding the one where everyone is comfortable and interested and attracted enough to each other.

It would probably also start with same room, but no swapping, or else just the 2 women having sex while the guys watch.

Once a couple gets more into it, more comfortable with the situation then things progress to swapping, meeting with multiple couples at the same time, and going to a club...

lol great post. 1 idea that can be spun off into 10 different unique stories

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I like this post a lot, too. If I write another swinging story, I think this will be the basis for it.

lol great post. 1 idea that can be spun off into 10 different unique stories

Have fun with the ideas...

There are lots of potentials for swinging stories that aren't just about wives gone wild.

Look forward to reading the outcomes

 

[Bramblethorn]

okay dokie kiddies, when you think about couples with an open marriage what kinds of things to you picture?

After about twelve years in an open relationship: Logistics. Scheduling. Trying to find a babysitter. And playing Scrabble.

Ah, the glamorous poly lifestyle! ;-)

 

[DRS_EROS]

Open Marriage

okay dokie kiddies, when you think about couples with an open marriage what kinds of things to you picture?

is it best for couples to jump in and share with another couple or start off slow? Would you prefer to have them in a swinger club or two couples sharing at one of their homes?

has anyone written and published a story along these lines?

My personal challenge is that I don't think I could ever be comfortable and confident in a club with 150 other couples

ideas....thoughts....

HHHmmm, interesting storyline, I would think if the couple were thinking fo experimenting with other couples, it might be better to start off slow with maybe a like minded couple ....and see how it goes and see if it is what the couple thought it would be....if you start in with the "experts" at a swingers party things may not go as well and could get rough....even the individuals within the couple may have a different meaning of a open marriage once it really starts and there is no turning back .......................

 

[DRS_EROS]

Open Marriage

lol great post. 1 idea that can be spun off into 10 different unique stories

Yeah, similar ideas that I have, usually slow is better when starting new things !!!! That has been my experience in the crazy world of sex and close relationships !!!!

 

[jeninflorida]

Yeah, similar ideas that I have, usually slow is better when starting new things !!!! That has been my experience in the crazy world of sex and close relationships !!!!

that's my mental block issue, for a couple to meet and jump into bed over the course of one night.

However, I think if people know each other for years, that things could heat up one night.

 

[sirhugs]

that's my mental block issue, for a couple to meet and jump into bed over the course of one night.

However, I think if people know each other for years, that things could heat up one night.

you've never had sex with someone you just met at a party or bar? Other than the 15 years of monogamy with my now ex-wife, most of my women were like that... so I think a setup like a party designed for sex would make it even more likely.