Swallowing...advice and tips please! *gulp*

[ronster]

Hey,
I just want to let you know that I think your guy is pretty fortunate to have someone who loves him enough to want to do this.

I have but one true "fantasy" left to experience for the first time and that is that it. I love my wife dearly and I believe she loves me too but she won't even do it without a condom.

I am too expecting or does that seem kinda nuts for a couple that have been married for 11 years?

 

[Zilla]

Wow, that seems a bit extreme. Why the condom? Is she just that afraid of getting some pre-cum taste in her mouth or something? Even though I have yet to swallow for fear of it, the pre-cum has never bothered me in the least.

 

[isshogai7]

many girls have done excellent advices here,i just want to add a coupla things.You should getting used to the taste of semen,first,like they've said,including tasting some on the fingers,so you will know what to expect;then you can try to aim the penis torwards your palate,so it will shoot there and you will be more in control.Try to get really warmed up,first,so you will stop worryng and will thoink about pleasure only(feeling it instead of thinking about it);let him tell you when he's on the verge(VERY important),so you will not be surprised,make him drink water and Lot of pineapple or orange juicesand avoid smoke or alchohol,so it will get a better taste:things like that can help,i think.Love and affection will surely help you overcome the traumas you've received in the past by some inconsiderate geeks.

 

[Zilla]

I heard that if he eats cinnamon beforehand his semen will taste cinnamony ... is that true? Or an urban legend?

 

[James G 5]

I heard that if he eats cinnamon beforehand his semen will taste cinnamony ... is that true? Or an urban legend?

Dunno, but consensus seems to be if he drinks a lot of Mountain Dew for a day or 2 in advance it'll be sweet

 

[Zilla]

Dunno, but consensus seems to be if he drinks a lot of Mountain Dew for a day or 2 in advance it'll be sweet

Actually, I don't know if that sounds appealing at all! I think I will have him stick to lots of water and maybe some fruit juice...

 

[litdude]

Hey Zilla, your concern might be about the cum surging out of the penis. So when convenient, try tasting some after the climax: get some from inside your pussy, blow him after he cums in you, or just wipe some up after he cums on the outside of you; or after a handjob.

When you get around to letting him cum in your mouth, try keeping the head pointed into your cheek.

 

[Zilla]

I heard that placing the head of his penis under my tongue while he cums will keep it from shooting in the back of my throat and gagging me. Is this a good idea too, maybe? Or will it flood my mouth and make it hard to swallow it.

Thanks for all your advice, guys. You kick ass!

4 more days until I fly down to see him! I can't wait to do this.

 

[James G 5]

I heard that placing the head of his penis under my tongue while he cums will keep it from shooting in the back of my throat and gagging me. Is this a good idea too, maybe? Or will it flood my mouth and make it hard to swallow it.

Thanks for all your advice, guys. You kick ass!

4 more days until I fly down to see him! I can't wait to do this.

Get him off at least once a couple of hours BEFORE you go for oral, this will reduce the volume & "flooding" effect
I am told the cheek trick that was mentioned a post or so back works better than the tongue thing
It allows the semen to "pool" and you to swallow bit by bit
Another thing on acclimating............get him off in a shot glass. Taste it, and then offer HIM some (if he's willing). Being confronted with the experience might make him consider what exactly he's asking you for

 

[skinnylust]

Hi Z, the first reply is how i would think of it but you know me, my kinky, obsessed mind takes over, and theres nothing that i would'nt do in the throws of passion.


mike

 

[Alyx]

I don't know if this will help or not...

When hubby and I were dating, the first time I went down on him, I made sure I had a lot of saliva built up when he said he was getting close. Since guys tend to taste differently, I figured this would be a good way of "watering down" the taste, just in case!

In any event, with the added saliva, the natural need to swallow was there, and my mouth already had a warm, wet liquid in it when he came.

As for positioning, I think this is a matter of taste (no pun intended!). I found it easier in the beginning to have his cock halfway in my mouth, pointed towards the roof. Add the extra saliva to that, and you may not feel him shoot. Might be an added plus for someone who's a little unsure.

Dunno if this helps, but I wish you happy tasting!!

 

[Zas]

HI all
I am with the saliva idea, it works for me.
I hated the thought of swallowing when I was younger, but then I had an affair with a man who was much older than me and he taught me so much.
I wanted to swallow his cum, it just felt right, and it tasted okay too, but I've learned as well, that they all taste different and it depends on what they eat and drink and smoke!!!!

I also think the guy needs to be clean, nothing worse than going down on him and it tasting like piss!!!!

Well I use the saliva thing, and have in the past dribbled it out too which can be an erotic thing to do cause then you can lick it all up later.

Hmmm not sure that I have been much help though

 

[Kathleencd]

If you really love your lover than you should do your absolute best in statisfying him. The best way is by giving him good head. Ask him what he wants and if it feels good. For one reason or not some can't swallow -to bad - the best lovers swallow. If you can't swallow at least let it drool out of your mouth and lick that shaft. Play with the cum. Rub it on him, rub it on yourself. Make a game of it. Enjoy it, love it.

 

[Bobmi357]

From a guys perspective....

I do love it when the wife gives me a blowjob. But swallowing isn't a necessarily important part of the act. In fact, the wife could easily have a towel handy to spit it out on and it wouldn't bother me.

The only advantage that swallowing offers is there is no interuption of sensation. If you bring a guy to the brink, then pull off and finish by hand, you've basically let him ride up a rollercoaster without the drop off. By switching sensations, even in the last few moments, you've changed the whole experience.

My wife swallows. I love her dearly for it She says she'd feel silly spitting it out. Fine, but I wouldn't love her any less if she just spat it out onto a towel or something.

Its just my opinion, but I feel that any guy that insists on you swallowing is just wrong.

Bob

 

[Zilla]

I did it!! I'm in Texas visiting him right now. I got in late last night and this morning when we woke up I decided to just go for it. I did it while he was laying on his back and let most of it dribble out and only swallowed some, that was a great way to ease into it. I had total control in that position. I can't believe I was afraid to do that, it was awesome!! Tonight I am going to go for the full gusto though. Baby steps you know. Thanks for all your replies to this thread, it helped me tremendously and I will also be following your advice when I take the next step.


We are doing MUCH better now, BTW. He never was planning on breaking up with me, we were both sort of overreacting due to miscommunication. Spending time with him and talking in person has cleared up quite a lot. Things are good now!

 

[Zas]

That's great news, congratulations and well done, it can only get better and better from now

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[litdude]

Alright!

Good going Zilla. Very glad you found a way and that it was enjoyable.

On the next round, you may want to swallow quickly and have a chaser, glass of water (something), right after to help wash it down. Later you could hold it in your mouth longer to savor it. You might even do that this time and then make one big swallow.

 

[Zilla]

I did it again last night, this time swallowed the whole shebang. It was great! I didn't mind the taste and also, I had sucked on an Altoid prior to begining the blowjob and that made it easier to swallow too. I hardly even noticed it going down I was so eager to do it! I love doing it this way, I can't believe I ever did it any other way.

 

[Zilla]

Ooh also, after last night he said I knocked "Laura" from when he was 18 out of First Place for the best blowjob he's ever recieved.

 

[Kathleencd]

Now the question is what would you like him do to or for you?

 

[HotMel]

I would just like to re-affirm that his penis doesn't necessarily have ot be in you rmouth when he comes. Pop him out at the last nminute and more "catch" the cum on your tongue. When it all starts to slow down after the first few spurts you might like to try sucking out the last few, slow paced ejaculations.

I hope you enjoy it because it is great fun!

 

[isshogai7]

I don't know if it's right or wrong to say so,but i'm so happy for you.I hope you'll experience many great and wild times in the future.Compliments!

 

[litdude]

Allright!

Way to go Zilla!

Did you find any secrets? Like swallow as it comes or wait for a mouthful? You said you hardly noticed it, so maybe that's "as it came".

It's nice you're trying for him and that you both win.

 

[sweetnpetite]

Re: My 3 1/2 cents!

I never liked the taste of cum when I first started in with oral sex. One thing I did was to keep a tissue handy (bad pun), near the bed and wipe the cum into it if I didn't want to swallow...

However, like the rest of the fellow posters have said, if you let your mind get into it along with your body, it should all work. if not, practice, practice, practice... hell, that's half the fun!

I think its progressive. First you spit it out. It tastes horrible. Then maybe you work up to swollowing, you're trying to impresse him so you pretend to like it. It tastes bad. You start to tollerate it. One day, when your going down, you get just a little bit of pre-cum which is thinner and sweeter. mm, you think not bad. If you get into the whole "naughty" "slutty" or whatever thing, you talk yourself up "I swollowed every drop just like some slutty porn star" You start to tell youself how much you LOVE it when you really maybe only kinda like it. But you build up associations: his reaction, it starts to turn you on because it makes you think of hot times you've had. YOu start to WANT it, you anticipate it, but when it happens you still only tollerate it. Then one day, when your telling him how much you love it, you realize you really do! Then maybe someday, your begging him. (and he's the happiest man on earth) It's definatly an "aquired taste"

oh yeah, and what he eats or drinks effects the taste and texture, so it can vary. sometimes its slightly bitter, sometimes its thick and salty, sometimes its sweeter. If you dont like a particular taste, try having him drink lots of mountain dew, or some other ultra sweet drink throughout the day.

Along with practice, feel free to experiment. Try not to feel "stupid" becuase you've never tried something or whatever. Just go ahead and try it if it looks/sounds fun. That's the whole point of being young, trying out several things to see which ones you like and which ones you don't. And if you decide that you don't like it, no matter what enybody else says about how GREAT it is, don't do it. There's no law that says you have to or even that you should