Suggest some Sub Activities?
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raven2
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MRNEWJAX said:
Suggestions would depend on what you are trying to achieve. From what you have said, it seems that you and she are into humiliation, but I would like to have a little clearer idea of what you are looking for.
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...that she leave your ass and find a Dom who would cherish her for the gifts she gives. Unless of course this is all SS&C?
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FurryFury
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Hopefully the sub has consented to all this.
Flashing is pretty hard to do consensually if you are doing this to strangers (and random truckers.)
Selling your sub to strangers at a biker bar sounds pretty unsafe as well.
It's good that no physical pain is involved if the sub in not into it though.
Fury
Flashing is pretty hard to do consensually if you are doing this to strangers (and random truckers.)
Selling your sub to strangers at a biker bar sounds pretty unsafe as well.
It's good that no physical pain is involved if the sub in not into it though.
Fury
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The safest, sanest and potentially consensual thing I can think of to suggest is to give your sub to a Domme for play (and if you wanna screw the consensual bit try giving her to a Pro).
Seems you have prostituted her to pretty much every male use, so I guess some Domme attention might be a welcome change - specially as us kind of gals do see more in a sub than a fuck toy and she might find the experience ... enlightening.
Lady Hecate
PS. I mean a serious Pro-Domme who is into the Lifestyle and not the dosh!
Seems you have prostituted her to pretty much every male use, so I guess some Domme attention might be a welcome change - specially as us kind of gals do see more in a sub than a fuck toy and she might find the experience ... enlightening.
Lady Hecate
PS. I mean a serious Pro-Domme who is into the Lifestyle and not the dosh!
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I'm heavily into the idea of making a sub satisfy multiple men but it's hard to think of a safe way to do it. Right now, handjobs seem key. That or membership @ exclusive wifeswapping club that screens members.
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Lit advocates free speech not SSC.
This poster didnt ask for your views on what you thought of his play so far
He asked for additional ideas.
He didn't ask for views on whether he should sell his sub in a bar, he didnt say if these people were strangers or if it was a pre-set deal.
He didn't say where or how they played and if they were inflicting their lifestyle on 'nilla people or if it was in a place were that behaviour would not be out of place.
He didn't specifically say all of it was real life, for those involved in online I am sure you have played various scenes out in many ways.
Why presume things just because he didnt state them?
Why can't people just answer a straight question anymore?
As for ideas:
Lean her against your car and fuck her.
Have her kneel down in a public area and give you a blow job.
Take her somewhere on a collar and leash
Make her stand in the corner of a shop if she is answers you back when out together.
The list is endless.
Of course there are legal & moral issues attached to all of my suggestions but if they get reported or arrested it was always their choice to engage in these activities or not.
A comment in Marquis thread on the GB made me realise we are in sometimes danger of setting ourselves up as the moral guardians of BDSM.
People have choices, we may not agree but we don't have to inflict our morals on them.
Now I have finished inflicting my moral views on everyone here, I am off to bed in the hope of being able to sleep
*grumpily slams door on way out*
Lit advocates free speech not SSC.
This poster didnt ask for your views on what you thought of his play so far
He asked for additional ideas.
He didn't ask for views on whether he should sell his sub in a bar, he didnt say if these people were strangers or if it was a pre-set deal.
He didn't say where or how they played and if they were inflicting their lifestyle on 'nilla people or if it was in a place were that behaviour would not be out of place.
He didn't specifically say all of it was real life, for those involved in online I am sure you have played various scenes out in many ways.
Why presume things just because he didnt state them?
Why can't people just answer a straight question anymore?
As for ideas:
Lean her against your car and fuck her.
Have her kneel down in a public area and give you a blow job.
Take her somewhere on a collar and leash
Make her stand in the corner of a shop if she is answers you back when out together.
The list is endless.
Of course there are legal & moral issues attached to all of my suggestions but if they get reported or arrested it was always their choice to engage in these activities or not.
A comment in Marquis thread on the GB made me realise we are in sometimes danger of setting ourselves up as the moral guardians of BDSM.
People have choices, we may not agree but we don't have to inflict our morals on them.
Now I have finished inflicting my moral views on everyone here, I am off to bed in the hope of being able to sleep
*grumpily slams door on way out*
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shy slave said:
Here, here, shy!
Grump on, girl !!
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Well I'll stand corrected with my panties down.
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I think certain things should not be blithely encouraged. I for one refuse to do so. I don't stand with my panties down, (well not for that reason anyway) or ready for punishment here because I don't think I deserve any, not for this. I absolutely stand by what I said before. I'm sorry if it offended you ShySlave but I think what I said before are important things for people who may or may not be doing what they claim they are, to keep in mind.
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Interesting that the original posters first post two days ago was in the personal's section... https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=416143
As for suggestions, I suggest you listen to some of the posters above who advocate not subjecting "strangers and ramdon truckers" to your play. JMHO
As for suggestions, I suggest you listen to some of the posters above who advocate not subjecting "strangers and ramdon truckers" to your play. JMHO
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I wholeheartedly agree with your comment, Shy. However, everyone has a freedom to speak his or her mind with regards to the poster's initial entry, even if it's a negative reaction. A right to free speech doesn't just mean you can say what you want and be free from criticism. It also means others can disagree or disapprove of the original comments.
I happen to agree with what many have said so far with regards to this thread.
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dixicritter said:Interesting that the original posters first post two days ago was in the personal's section... https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=416143
As for suggestions, I suggest you listen to some of the posters above who advocate not subjecting "strangers and ramdon truckers" to your play. JMHO
Interesting. Kind of makes you wonder if he's done any of the things he has claimed to or if he would just like to. When one is "educated" in BDSM from porn, I suspect these are the kinds of things they might think it is.
I tend to be very welcoming of new people on the board in any section I notice them in but I don't think it's a great idea to encourage certain things or misperceptions.
dixicritter said:Interesting that the original posters first post two days ago was in the personal's section... https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=416143
As for suggestions, I suggest you listen to some of the posters above who advocate not subjecting "strangers and ramdon truckers" to your play. JMHO
Interesting. Kind of makes you wonder if he's done any of the things he has claimed to or if he would just like to. When one is "educated" in BDSM from porn, I suspect these are the kinds of things they might think it is.
It seems to me that most short posts from new people, (mostly male) saying look at what I've done have likely NOT actually done those things at all. Maybe they wish they had but they usually don't even have another person to do things with.
However I think my record shows that I am in general very tolerant of MOST kinks.
Also I think I am usually very welcoming of new folks.
I just don't happen to think this was a good laundry list of activities to endorse. I have a serious worry about non consent and safety issues that I won't just put aside because it seems "un-welcoming." This, to me, is very important stuff. I'd hate to think someone new to everything would think oh that's the way to do this and proceed because I was too cowed to mention the potential problems with it.
I looked over M's thread at the GB and tried to find what might have set you off Shy. You know I love and respect you so I went through a lot of pages to try to figure it out..
What I saw was that three people there don't like M.
I also saw that some of the people there think the BDSM side isn't friendly to new people.
I disagree. New people, are as many have noted for themselves, welcomed here rather warmly in comparison to the GB.
Are we perfect? No. Is any board? No.
I think when a new person comes over here and doesn't know, like this thread started probably doesn't what BDSM is all about, then states some misconceptions they indeed might get a cool reception. I don't think that's unreasonable though.
Of course the great thing about an online board of any stripe is that anyone is free to say anything. We can all disagree on whatever and that's fine. Everyone has the opportunity to state their view point. Until they get too damned tired of dealing with it.
The other thing was that our board moves slowly in comparison. That doesn't bother me although the rate of posts as stated, about one an hour is a gross exaggeration. Of all the BDSM web sites I've hung at this one has the most going on.
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FurryFury said:Interesting. Kind of makes you wonder if he's done any of the things he has claimed to or if he would just like to. When one is "educated" in BDSM from porn, I suspect these are the kinds of things they might think it is.
Fury
Yes it is interesting. TheHis original post was less than 24 hours previous on the personals. It does make me wonder now about what he really is doing.
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Being the sweet quiet shy submissive woman that i am *bats lashes*
Number one...it would be a total and absolute turn off for a Dominant to come online to get ideas on how to effectively abuse me.
Number two... truckers like to be flashed, they like seeing you naked and spread in the front seat of the car also.
Number one...it would be a total and absolute turn off for a Dominant to come online to get ideas on how to effectively abuse me.
Number two... truckers like to be flashed, they like seeing you naked and spread in the front seat of the car also.
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what ever do you mean? *bats lashes*shy slave said:
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I have a confession to make. I have less worry when a submissive says she is into things that are not SSC than when a self proclaimed Dom does. Yep, it's a double standard. I admit it. I never said I were perfect, consistent or free of double standards. *L*
I'm pretty sure not ALL truckers are into this sort of thing, but with KC doing the displaying, I'm sure the overall reaction would be VERY positive. I might just rent a truck and do a little driving myself.
Fury
I'm pretty sure not ALL truckers are into this sort of thing, but with KC doing the displaying, I'm sure the overall reaction would be VERY positive. I might just rent a truck and do a little driving myself.
Fury
