Sudden turn-offs

[minsue]

Condescension. A big pet peeve and also a personal failing. (I can't count the number of times I've been told I come off as condescending. It doesn't help that it's unintentional. For myself, it just pisses me off even more if I'm condescending without meaning to be. )

 

[NoJo]

The only instant turn offs I can think of both involve restaurants. Anyone who is rude to the staff and/or tips less than 20% just ain't worth it to me.

Thought of one more: finishing my sentences. I had one boyfriend who would do that or interrupt with, 'I know what you're thinking.' Even after over a year, not only would he not stop fucking doing it, he never once was anywhere near what I was going to say. If anyone tried to do that now, I'd be gone in a flash.

You've just described two of my relatives! Have to admit those traits are a turn-off to me too. (not a prob, not into dating those two family members)

 

[NoJo]

The assumption my boobs are sensory organs of sight.

The assumption that because I have boobs I have no brain.

Any man who ever tired to quote or tell me about history to impress me, and was wrong.

obviously these particular turn offs contributed greatly to the reason I no longer date men

-Colly

Yes, I'm afraid with those stipulations, you've pretty much ruled all of us out.

 

[Boota]

List them Boota, list them!

I went to bed right after posting on ere last night, so I didn't see this until just now. Off the top of my head I would have to say the quality I have that is listed most in the Playboy turn-off's is body hair. They almost all list that. But that's okay. I'm not about to apologize for being a man. LOL. The other one is when they say "men who don't like animals". I don't like animals. I have no use for them in a personal situation. I'm not cruel to them or anything. I just feel that animals either belong in the wild or on my plate. I don't care for pets. Strangely, I really enjoy the zoo with my nieces and nephews. LOL.

 

[tiger_smurf]

women who wear too much makeup.

 

[Honey123]

Telling someone something nice about them and they answer "Whatever!"

Someone who is crazy about you one day and then the next day they aren't and tells you "We are not on the same page"

What is this "Book"? I want to rip the damn pages out!

 

[ABSTRUSE]

Bad grammer and poor manners.

 

[damppanties]

Arrogance, like he's above everybody else. Pride in yourself, your acheivements is different.

People who behave like the doorman, lift operator, waiter don't exist. A simple 'thank you' won't hurt. And related - people who think they (doorman,etc.) are just doing their job and they don't need your thanks. Related - People who have trouble saying 'thanks'.

Ohh and yes, dirty nails.

 

[Honey123]

People who think you will be there for them at the drop of a hat.