Subs: What one thing

[MissTaken]

do you do that you absolutely can't stand?

You know, what activity do you engage in that you dont' enjoy, but do so for your Dom/me?

 

[T.J. Jackson]

do you do that you absolutely can't stand?

You know, what activity do you engage in that you dont' enjoy, but do so for your Dom/me?

*snort chuckle*, I'm gonna lurk with interest on this thread.


I'm not laughing at you MissT, it's an inside joke.

 

[pierced_boy]

In a long term relationship

If it does it for her it does it for me
h
pS and vice versa

 

[MissTaken]

Re: In a long term relationship

If it does it for her it does it for me
h
pS and vice versa

I can understand that thinking.



Now, waiting for our submissives to reveal their secrets!

 

[Quint]

I really really dislike having to refer explicitly to myself and my parts. Yeah, it's easy enough to type "cunt" but having to say it usually requires much effort. And I've never been able to say "asshole" in a non-insulting context before--but I'm sure as hell being told to do it now!

That's the one that comes immediately to mind; I'm sure there are more I'll add later.

 

[sub princess]

I really really dislike having to refer explicitly to myself and my parts. Yeah, it's easy enough to type "cunt" but having to say it usually requires much effort. And I've never been able to say "asshole" in a non-insulting context before--but I'm sure as hell being told to do it now!

That's the one that comes immediately to mind; I'm sure there are more I'll add later.

i agree here! i am forbidden to use the word "pussy," and am punished if i do, instead i must use "cunt" which i have always hated. And as you said Quint, typing it is alot easier than saying it. But of course i do say it, and blush profusely every time.

Recently though He has me speaking in the third person (only when speaking or typing to Him though), and i must say it is driving me a little crazy. lol After spending time with Him, or typing a long letter to Him, i sometimes find myself 'stuck' in that mode. i have on more than one occasion found myself referring to me as "she" or "her"...... and once referring to myself as "Master ____'s slave____" when signing an email to a vanilla friend of mine. (thank God i always proof read)

i am unsure just how long He will have me doing this, maybe forever He says.... ~sighs~, but she is just doing as she is told... i mean i am doing as i am told. LOL

 

[Quint]

I hear that one, too, sub princess! He generally doesn't ask that sort of speech from me but often he'll refer to me as "his little girl," as in "Does my little girl want more?" in which case I have to answer in the third person. By that time I'm usually so gone that it's almost natural.

What really tasks me is when he'll start twisting reality and make me agree to it as well. He'll do something he knows I can't stand or at least am having a great deal of difficulty taking, and then tell me to beg for more and tell him how much I love it. Most recent example, about half an hour ago.

Me: "Nooo, please stop!"
T: "Stop? Stop means 'do it harder,' doesn't it?"
Me: "No, stop means stop!" (Which isn't exactly true; "red" means stop. "Stop" means "gawd, that's hard to take.")
T: "No, stop means 'do it harder.' You want me to do it harder, don't you?" (I hesitate.) "DON'T YOU?!"
Me: (giving up) "Yes, sir, please do it harder."

Makes me very frustrated! In addition, often he'll wait for me to say that and then say "Well, I was going to stop, but if you really want me to do it harder..." and make it seem like if I'd held out for just one more minute then the torment would be over. GRRRRR!

 

[Justina123]

I completely agree with Quint and subprincess. Using those kinds of terms out loud is something I HATE doing.

My one other big hate- gags. No physical reason, jus psychological.

- justina

 

[Etoile]

Words are funny things. I too have no problem typing anything at all, and I enjoy hearing words like pussy and cunt, but when they actually come out of my own mouth they sound foreign to my ears.

Another thing I do that I don't like is topping from the bottom. I know I do it, and I really wish my Daddy would punish me more for it - it's not what I want!

 

[Quint]

justina, any sort of gags? His hand over your mouth? Wadded up pair of panties he's just ripped from your body? Or simply the standard ball-type gag?

Etoile, may I just mention that every time you refer to your Daddy I get all squirmy. I love it. T and I are finally in a place where he simply stopped tolerating my topping, which is disconcerting because I didn't realize the sheer extent of how often I do it; now it seems like I can't say anything without being checked. Okay, slight exaggeration, but there is a big shift in my demeanor taking place...maybe you should count your blessings!

 

[lark sparrow]

Asking to masturbate. She's not concerned about frequency nor really gets off on my asking. This one is hard for me. Either way, not asking or asking, I am dependent on Her sexually. But it is also that precious control, in a form that is not easily adjusted to for me - it's really simple, but difficult because I resist... and She has set it up that my resistance does not effect Her - if I want to be frustrated, I'm allowed.

 

[bunny bondage]

lol! quint, you and i really do have lots in common! He loves making me beg for more of something that He knows is hard for me to take. while this isn't that bad for me, what you mentioned earlier does. refering to myself and my body in "dirty" terms. i have never been the sort of girl to scream out things like "oh your (blank) makes me feel so (blank)!" or whatever, and frankly - i'm not a talker, i'm a screamer. so not only do i have to concentrate enough to form sentances (which is hard enough sometimes) but i must also beg for lewd things and tell Him in detail just how good it feels. i'm not sure which is harder; saying things like "please, piss on my face" or actually gathering my wits enough to speak. but i guess this is the one thing i enjoy least.


well, that, and being tickled. i've made several (completly empty) threats against Him about what i'm going to do if He doesn't stop tickling me, but He knows i'm all hot air so He keeps it up even more vigerously.

 

[Quint]

bunny, I just put foot tickling down as a hard limit and left it alone. It's really more for his safety than mine because I WILL lash out and aim to kill; it's just the reflex I have when something touches my tender tootsies.

 

[MissTaken]

Journaling is one thing that comes to mind. In the beginning, it is fun and exciting, then, after a while, it becomes a big chore.

Anal sex is fun sometimes, but it isn't always the preferred course for me. I do it, and always enjoy it, but it isn't something I want too often.

And yes, is everyone listening?

Cumming!
Orgasming is truly something I don't enjoy doing all the time!

*blushing*

Okay. I squirt. However, any Dominant or nilla man I have been with has so enjoyed how I orgasm that they challenge themselves to make me orgasm harder, higher, further or whatever. It is an exhausting orgasm, teh first time, so by the tenth or eleventh time...

well, that is my "gift", my true token of submission, I suppose.

Phew! Huge cats getting let out of the bag!!!!

 

[Richard49]

Journaling is one thing that comes to mind. In the beginning, it is fun and exciting, then, after a while, it becomes a big chore.


Phew! Huge cats getting let out of the bag!!!!

I try to journal everyday
cause it stops thoughts from running all over the place

Now with the cats
damn hard to put them back in bag

 

[bunny bondage]

why MissT, i never imagined! though truthfully, i've always been jealous of you squirters. i'm more of a dribbler, no real show.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

*takes notes for future reference and (ab)use*

 

[Richard49]

*takes notes for future reference and (ab)use*

Johnny

can I borrow your pen?

 

[MissTaken]

I think the gentlemen are enjoying my "pain!"


As I have been told, one of the turn ons for a Dominant is an ability to control his or her submissive's orgasm.

Well, control it , already! Will ya????

 

[zanna]

i am very ticklish all over. Last time i overstepped a boundary, i was warned the next time i would be tied up and tickled as punishment. At first that seemed almost amusing until i thought more about it. That does not sound like fun at all!

When He is driving, He will sometimes insist i close my eyes, not speak, and put my head down. That is hard for me to do. i feel somehow that as long as i can see, i am "safe" in the car. To give up my sight in that circumstance messes with me a bit mentally. He will not speak to me so there is no comfort there either just from hearing His voice. To feel yourself "moving" but unable to see is disorienting. i don't care much for it.

And...this one makes me blush terribly even writing it...sometimes He insists i suck on my nipples while He watches.

i hope the above does not sound like i am complaining at all. That would make me feel uncomfortable.

zanna

 

[Richard49]

There was a woman in my life that hated to be tickled
often as ... hell just cause I wanted to
would tickel her till she came
she would always pee when she came this way

 

[SierraMoon]

i am one of the "squirters".. and i just thought i would hijack for a moment... it is impossible to 'pee' while having an orgasm... so Richard, she was probably squirting at that time..

Anyone wants to read up on it.. here is a link..

http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm

[/hijack]

sorry MissT!!!

 

[MissTaken]

i hope the above does not sound like i am complaining at all. That would make me feel uncomfortable.

zanna

Of course not!

There is no way, as submissives, that we are going to love every act, every minute of every day.

Now, we may love doing it for Them!

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

the one thing I dislike more than anything is simply this: being blinded. It drives me crazy. I hate not being able to see. I am voice trained so i can go for hours without making a sound...as long as I can SEE. But when the blind is in place...i feel like i lose all control...very difficult. My owners have always liked to blind me (i think because I am so uncomfortable with it) and I let them do what ever they like But gods it really bothers me!!!!

 

[Pleasurekitten]

i think you're all pretty game to openly admit to what thing/s you don't like doing for your Dom/me, especially if they read your posts.

i don't need to post mine, cause i am sure He already knows.