Submission

[goodtimes21]

I am submissive but I need the fight. I can’t, at least for now, see the attraction if an immediate passive engagement. Respect is earned. Surely. On both sides. To break the rules and be punished is right. That’s where the pleasure is. I want that. To be headstrong and broken over time, that is the place of my dark desire. This excites me like nothing else. I need to test and be tested. And let go eventually into a kind of possession. Man, woman it doesn’t matter which. Sex yes, to be taken for pleasure and excess. All of that.

How does this feel? I’m pretty new here.

 

[cocktaildress21]

I could never submit to someone I didn't respect - but when I do, it comes scarily naturally.

 

[emme8]

Find a wonderful partner then take it the submission slowly. Just like with any relationships lasting submission rarely occurs suddenly.

 

[cocktaildress21]

I feel the exact opposite: If I don't feel submissive to a guy, I'll never have (that kind of) sex with him. And it's not a movable obstacle. Can't start regular, then build dominance on top.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I’m immediately submissive. If i meet a guy and hes naked im the first one on my knees going towards sucking his cock. Even if its mutual agreed well be doing each other. As im orally pleasing i submit to his needs. I want to pleasure him, touch him, let him touch me where he wishes. Some dominant men insist i lay back and let them suck me(which i love). However, with my one buddy its different. Ill be submissive and were passionate. Then hell say “are you ready to fuck me? Ill get up start entering him and call him my bitch. Tell him hes going to take my cock like the little slut he is. Ill climb on top, put him on his belly and demand he lay there and take the fucking he deserves until im finished. I love playing both roles.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I am submissive but I need the fight. I can’t, at least for now, see the attraction if an immediate passive engagement. Respect is earned. Surely. On both sides. To break the rules and be punished is right. That’s where the pleasure is. I want that. To be headstrong and broken over time, that is the place of my dark desire. This excites me like nothing else. I need to test and be tested. And let go eventually into a kind of possession. Man, woman it doesn’t matter which. Sex yes, to be taken for pleasure and excess. All of that.

How does this feel? I’m pretty new here.

Structure

 

[Subsy]

It is a dark art. Dredging salvation from depths of depravity…..disgust, terror, gaining strength by surviving. Obedience is my master’s name. Shame is my achievement and reward. I crave the cock which sluices through my depths, my central realms of being. I need that, crave that, an addiction for certain.

 

[domjoe]

Nothing puts me off like an over-eager submissive. If there’s no need to discipline them firmly (but not sadistically - not my thing ), I can’t say I enjoy it much.

 

[MissPennyLane]

I wrote on my fetlife bio "I've only properly submitted to one before, I do very much enjoy being a good girl, but are you worthy of it?
(Not much of a brat, very much wanting to obey...
Just not dumb & appreciative of my own self worth)" and I think that covers it well from my pov there's no right or wrong for these things! X

 

[Older_Pervert]

What the feck are you on? Do you think this is feckin Gothic movie? You need a feckin shrink or run over by a marmoset.

And a happy new year to you too, sunbeam!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I find a man who is very dominant IRL sexy as hell when they trust me enough to submiss to me..
The more dominant they are, (and I have had the pleasure of getting to know some amazingly sexy Dom's) the more turned on I am by their submissive side..

 

[sammy1999]

Find a wonderful partner then take it the submission slowly. Just like with any relationships lasting submission rarely occurs suddenly.

when i was 18 i was makeing out with a guy . it was at a party and he had my top lifted i knew my boobs where exsposed but i did nt mind then another guy started feeling my leg. no one seamed to care so i just gave in later he took me home and had sex with me in front of 2 buddies then ask me to take them 2 i did.
it was crazy we did alot of sexual things that night is that normal

 

[MrEntitled]

I am submissive but I need the fight. I can’t, at least for now, see the attraction if an immediate passive engagement. Respect is earned. Surely. On both sides. To break the rules and be punished is right. That’s where the pleasure is. I want that. To be headstrong and broken over time, that is the place of my dark desire. This excites me like nothing else. I need to test and be tested. And let go eventually into a kind of possession. Man, woman it doesn’t matter which. Sex yes, to be taken for pleasure and excess. All of that.

How does this feel? I’m pretty new here.

It's lovely to hear it be described in such a way from the other side.
I agree. I need the "fight" too (in the non-violent sense of the word!!). To spend time on her, seduce her, win her respect and watch as she surrenders her defenses one piece at a time - it's magic.

 

[Dearelliot]

I'm what the guy above posted.
I'm a male submissive, "to any woman but Sexually only."
I am not a submissive who will work on her house or wash her car. Pay her bills.
I have a wife I'm submissive to, like that.

 

[tirp123]

I'm what the guy above posted.
I'm a male submissive, "to any woman but Sexually only."
I am not a submissive who will work on her house or wash her car. Pay her bills.
I have a wife I'm submissive to, like that.

Makes 2 of us. Last line was funny, but so true. Only for the lucky few does line #2 and #4 converge !

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I'm a switch...
I've never understood the submissive, "brat", however.
I like pleasing my Daddy or my Dom...
And I need my subs to do just that, submit. Fully, after vetting of course... But I enjoy a total submissive man...
But, to each their own.

 

[Dearelliot]

Makes 2 of us. Last line was funny, but so true. Only for the lucky few does line #2 and #4 converge !

Not that my wife is a Domme, I'd love that...but she is a "Honey Do" wife.
I do pay for meeting with pro Dommes, I have no choice, it's pay them or do without.

 

[tirp123]

Not that my wife is a Domme, I'd love that...but she is a "Honey Do" wife.
I do pay for meeting with pro Dommes, I have no choice, it's pay them or do without.

How does your wife deal with you domme interactions.. unless you keep your 2 worlds mutually exclusive. Just curious ... please ignore, if not something you can share.

 

[Dearelliot]

She aged out a while ago, say around 55ish..prior to that we dabbled and when possible I ate out. .We both are pretty old. she's 85, I'm 88..so she is past caring what I do now
when she is away, and that isn't often I invite a semipro lady I know.. maybe 4 time a year. When she goes on vac with daughter I get a couple of weeks to play. I have an AMP ivisit on occasion where the Asian lady plays BDSM a little.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I am blessed with a sub bi kinky playmate who gets my own submissive need give pleasure and be used ....and a sexy horny wife who presents her body for us to lick and suck and cum on our waiting tongues.

 

[Anchor10]

I'm a switch...
I've never understood the submissive, "brat", however.
I like pleasing my Daddy or my Dom...
And I need my subs to do just that, submit. Fully, after vetting of course... But I enjoy a total submissive man...
But, to each their own.

Love to be your submissive man....

 

[tirp123]

She aged out a while ago, say around 55ish..prior to that we dabbled and when possible I ate out. .We both are pretty old. she's 85, I'm 88..so she is past caring what I do now
when she is away, and that isn't often I invite a semipro lady I know.. maybe 4 time a year. When she goes on vac with daughter I get a couple of weeks to play. I have an AMP ivisit on occasion where the Asian lady plays BDSM a little.

Thanks for sharing ! It is enlightening to know that past the 80's the desire for submission remains. I notice that in my 50's the desire feels less stronger than in youth. Perhaps it is age, or perhaps the weariness of knowing that it these things are less likely to happen in the future... if they have not already. BTW ..How do you even discover someone that is a semi-pro ?

 

[Subsy]

Arousal is an art……or could be…..arousal is the magical enticement……submission….or dominance….the acting out in novel ways…..oh so many ways !
although submission was my initial way of getting what I need….it’s just the other side of the coin. I love hearing the confessions of the needy.
most of my experiences are with men…occasionally with couples. Novelty…the very first time to a never before act….is so liberating.
Now I’ve learned to break down a forbidden act into multiple parts……the first time…..the first time in public, the first time with people there to watch etc….

 

[goodtimes21]

I find a man who is very dominant IRL sexy as hell when they trust me enough to submiss to me..
The more dominant they are, (and I have had the pleasure of getting to know some amazingly sexy Dom's) the more turned on I am by their submissive side..

This works for me

 

[artslut86]

I find a man who is very dominant IRL sexy as hell when they trust me enough to submiss to me..
The more dominant they are, (and I have had the pleasure of getting to know some amazingly sexy Dom's) the more turned on I am by their submissive side..

This.
Hot for both parties.
I had a similar experience