Stupefying collarme sub profile

[Betticus]

*Edited due to negativity.*

I can't quite put my finger on it but after seeing this girls profile there is no way that I would contact her for anything other than morbid curiosity.

She is apparently God's gift to dominants.

 

[shy slave]

I thought it seemed ok, very honest.

Other threads should give you a clue as to just how much crap women on collarme and alt get sent.

I liked her profile *shrug*

 

[rosco rathbone]

Other threads should give you a clue as to just how much crap women on collarme and alt get sent.

That's the first thing that crossed my mind as well. Probably had some bad experiences.

 

[Slutacus]

I thought it seemed ok, very honest.

Other threads should give you a clue as to just how much crap women on collarme and alt get sent.

I liked her profile *shrug*

Same here. The things she mentions are not huge "I'm going to control the relationship totally" things, just common courtesy personal-ad approach stuff that most of us (females) on collarme do not see much of. And she doesn't use that whining, complaining, bitter, or angry tone to phrase her requests that you often see on profiles with a similar slant. She doesn't strike me as thinking of herself as "god's gift" to anybody, just as somebody desiring some humane and intelligent treatment.

Sometimes I think it's a mistake to put this sort of stuff in a profile; sometimes I don't. On the one had it can make you sound overly negative, but she words these things so well that only an extremely defensive or insecure person would take umbrage at them, and that is exactly the sort of person she does not want to meet in the first place. So it's acting for her as an excellent tool to get certain undersirables to DQ themselves before they bother her. On the other hand, this sort of profile brings out another sort of undesirable in droves, the doting synchophant, who agrees absolutely with everything you say and hopes you will like him or her simply becuase of his agreement not because you two are compatible.

Although I have many of the same complaints as she does about collarme (and more she hasn't mentioned), my current profile doesn't talk about them, as I want to keep it positive despite all the crap. I'd rather simply ignore those who do these sorts of things, and focus on the small handful of emails I get that are appropriate and interesting.

Interestingly enough, her comment about being young at the top of the profile is far more commonly seen on young male dominant profiles than on young sub female profiles.

 

[Betticus]

It could be that I worked all night and am tired. Just not quite ready for bed yet.

 

[INSIDEYOURMIND]

When did Literotica become the judge and jury of Collarme?

She is direct and to the point, she is completely honest, and her comments show that she is wiser than her age.

As a Dominant, I want a pyl that has an opinion, and is a strong willed. While my slave would never speak to me in that manner, she can certainly handle herself in situations in the outside world.

These and other forums are here for the exchange of information, thoughts, experiences, ideas, writings, and questions. Did we add critics of others recently?

My little girl had decided a bit ago to stop posting, not at my suggestion, but because of the tone of the boards.

It is now my turn to go as well, would the last "PERFECT" person, please turn out the lights when they leave.

Flame away if you care to, I will not be returning to these boards, so you can all enjoy bahing me as I am sure you will.

Betticus, If a woman of that quality and nature ever showed you the time of day, I would be curious of your true reaction.

Life is too short, don't waste it on nonsense.

 

[Betticus]

When did Literotica become the judge and jury of Collarme?

She is direct and to the point, she is completely honest, and her comments show that she is wiser than her age.

As a Dominant, I want a pyl that has an opinion, and is a strong willed. While my slave would never speak to me in that manner, she can certainly handle herself in situations in the outside world.

These and other forums are here for the exchange of information, thoughts, experiences, ideas, writings, and questions. Did we add critics of others recently?

My little girl had decided a bit ago to stop posting, not at my suggestion, but because of the tone of the boards.

It is now my turn to go as well, would the last "PERFECT" person, please turn out the lights when they leave.

Flame away if you care to, I will not be returning to these boards, so you can all enjoy bahing me as I am sure you will.

Betticus, If a woman of that quality and nature ever showed you the time of day, I would be curious of your true reaction.

Life is too short, don't waste it on nonsense.

I am definately not the reason that you would have to leave here. Don't try to lay out a guilt trip on me. If you are leaving then you have reasons that add up that don't include me posting about a collarme profile.

 

[Lilith]

While I have no issue with whatever people choose to post regarding their likes and dislikes, I have alway believed that if you tell people what you want instead of what you don't that you are more likely to attract the positive energy that comes with that which you seek. I know it is often the case of just trying to keep away the riff-raff but somehow I worry it's like Beetlejuice, say it too many times and that is what you get.

 

[catalina_francisco]

When did Literotica become the judge and jury of Collarme?


These and other forums are here for the exchange of information, thoughts, experiences, ideas, writings, and questions. Did we add critics of others recently?

My little girl had decided a bit ago to stop posting, not at my suggestion, but because of the tone of the boards.

It is now my turn to go as well, would the last "PERFECT" person, please turn out the lights when they leave.

I would hope neither of you leave and remember that this is a public board and most are the same. As to the critic part, you get no argument from me as I mentioned when it began months ago.....just doesn't seem very ethical or something to go highlighting profiles on other sites to comment on....not to mention we are not here to promote other sites. If you are looking and don't like a profile, maybe if you want to vent do so, but why do we need to highlight and pinpoint that person's profile and travel on mass to those sites and profile to critique those advertising. Are we all so perfect?

Our experience is that across all personal sites (and forums for that matter) there is a small amount of people there who are genuine, far more looking for attention and emails to stroke their egos. I didn't look at this one, as I didn't any other, but I can understand if as some have said she feels the need to state clearly what she will and wil not accept....common sense if you are looking for a workable relationship IMHO, especially given the amount of people who respond for fun and self amusement.

Catalina

 

[Betticus]

While I have no issue with whatever people choose to post regarding their likes and dislikes, I have alway believed that if you tell people what you want instead of what you don't that you are more likely to attract the positive energy that comes with that which you seek. I know it is often the case of just trying to keep away the riff-raff but somehow I worry it's like Beetlejuice, say it too many times and that is what you get.

I like the honest ones that state what they are looking for. I even respect the list of "don't contact me if's". This particular one was just so darn negative though.

Since you guys pointed out with such enthusiasm that she's probably just been frustrated with assholes I went ahead and sent her a message. Not holding my breath to ever hear a reply though.

Next time I'll stick with posting the creepy serial killer looking ones.

 

[greenmands]

My little girl had decided a bit ago to stop posting, not at my suggestion, but because of the tone of the boards.

It is now my turn to go as well, would the last "PERFECT" person, please turn out the lights when they leave.

Sir, if you and your lady have decided to leave, I for one will miss your insights, experience, wit, eloquence, and your reprimands when we are doing something totally stupid or shortsighted.

 

[DVS]

I didn't see this one, because it was removed before I found this thread. But, the profiles I've seen posted by others seemed far from normal people, far from mainstream BDSM and in my opinion, some have seemed to be far from sane.

We all have oppinions and I for one have always said, anything I post is fair came to someone else. That's just a fact of life. You can't stop what happens. So, anything I want kept private is kept private.

I could have posted at least one profile, but I didn't, because I posted what she said. I didn't want her to get hate messages from someone saying "DVS is NOT pompous!" I see nothing wrong with posting the messages OR posting the profile. But, don't post both. That would be damaging and hurtful to others.

Those profiles on collarme are there to be seen...to attract attention. They fine tuned and polished what they wanted to say and somebody's snickers aren't going to make any difference, one way or the other.

And, if there is someone out there that finds a profile interesting, far be it from me to point my finger and laugh. I've yet to find someone. Maybe my profile isn't strange enough?

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Personally I find all this profile bashing rather bothersome. We are all adults no?


What ever happened to live and let live, and how dare we as a minority judge others?

If you happen to find a profile particullarly offensive to you consider it wasn't meant for you rather than taking a grandiose attitude and thinking it was written just to piss you off or whatever.

Get a grip people!


I sometimes wonder what people think of mine...not!

 

[Slutacus]

When did Literotica become the judge and jury of Collarme?

It doesn't look to me like anybody is trying to be a judge of that website. But posting a link to a profile that contains interesting or thought-provoking content is often a good way to get conversations started. You can't just post it though and say, "here's a link." you have to say something about it why you're posting it. Betticus did that and he's got a good somewhat controversial thread going on. Nothing wrong with that, IMO.

I'm not sure why collarme seems to get picked on rather than the other bondage personals sites--maybe it's because they say more interesting things over there? Or maybe because the profiles are more accessible?

 

[Slutacus]

...but somehow I worry it's like Beetlejuice, say it too many times and that is what you get.

Like Beetlejuice? I saw that movie but I forget the connection. All I remember is "DAY-O!"

 

[Kajira Callista]

Maybe my profile isn't strange enough?

NAHHHH you just live too far away from the woods.

 

[DVS]

NAHHHH you just live too far away from the woods.

I've often thought of taking a hike into the woods, some day. Kind of a hunting trip of sorts. I'd be sure to take the proper hunting tools...rope, gags and cattle prod. I wonder what I'd catch (besides a case of Poison Ivy).

 

[Kajira Callista]

I've often thought of taking a hike into the woods, some day. Kind of a hunting trip of sorts. I'd be sure to take the proper hunting tools...rope, gags and cattle prod. I wonder what I'd catch (besides a case of Poison Ivy).

depends on if you can catch me or not while scratching the poison ivy.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

My idea of camping and hunting is room service.

I've often thought of taking a hike into the woods, some day. Kind of a hunting trip of sorts. I'd be sure to take the proper hunting tools...rope, gags and cattle prod. I wonder what I'd catch (besides a case of Poison Ivy).

 

[DVS]

My idea of camping and hunting is room service.

Your idea of camping is lying in the hotel room bed and your idea of hunting is looking up the number for room service?

I wonder what would be going though your mind, if the room service turned out to be kind of personal.

Now, let's stop hijacking this thread!

 

[Chicklet]

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I missed the profile! what if it was ME?! I'll never know!! (anybody wanna link me up?)

 

[Marquis]

Like Beetlejuice? I saw that movie but I forget the connection. All I remember is "DAY-O!"

You have to say his name three times to summon him.

I think it was a pretty valid analogy. More elaborate security makes more inspired thieves. I meet impenetrable fortresses like this and the desire to slip past the gates and book it with the crown jewels is overwhelming.

I didn't see the profile of course.

 

[DVS]

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I missed the profile! what if it was ME?! I'll never know!! (anybody wanna link me up?)

Nice choice of words, sweetie. I'd love to link you up. Well, in a different way, but I think it would be more fun.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Be very, very quite, I'm hunting.

And if it takes a little hijacking...so be it.

Your idea of camping is lying in the hotel room bed and your idea of hunting is looking up the number for room service?

I wonder what would be going though your mind, if the room service turned out to be kind of personal.

Now, let's stop hijacking this thread!

 

[Slutacus]

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I missed the profile! what if it was ME?! I'll never know!! (anybody wanna link me up?)

Wish I could, but I don't remember anything about it except the content. Pic of a young-ish pretty girl. Text started out with soemthing about people not taking her seriously because of her youth--I've seen this on a lot of profiles, but usually on the male dom ones who are reacting to the prevasive "cult of experience" thing that goes on at collarme.

Then there were about ten other short paragraphs taking about the people she didn't want to contact her, they were-well written and not particularly snide or angry--just weary sounding. Then one short paragraph about what she was looking for.