Blakely123
Really Really Experienced
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- Jul 23, 2015
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I know exactly how you feel. I think you've put into words what I fail to describe many times to people. But all I want to say is you're beautiful. I haven't seen any of your pictures but I still think you're a beautiful person. And I know its hard to realize that we are not a body but more than that but it is true. I am sure you will find someone who appreciates not only your body but also your heart and soul.![]()
Well since all of these wonderful ladies were so brave enough to post I'll post one too. No they're not from having children...I don't even know if I will/can have children but I'm not too worried about that right now. I'm just trying to accept myself as I am.![]()
You are perfect
Eventually I will post one.But not yet .
And your right.Most women's biggest insecurity is their body after childbirth,weight gain/loss, surgery etc. I haven't worn a bathing suit I years.and after my last relationship.I will not even have sex fully unclothed . It will take a lot and someone who genuinely likes me as I am. I am completely upfront on my flaws. The forthcoming disappointment from a man after or during, is not something I can handle well anymore. I can't.It hurts to much inside when you know,again they cannot accept you as you are. You fell short of their expectations.and it does harden you inside. Those who don't know you well see you as aloof, sometimes cold and even call you stuck up. They have no Fucking clue ...
But maybe I will try, for those other brave and beautiful women here that have posted. If you've ever read any of my more personal posts. Them you know I am gutsy. But I have to work up to it.
Cute kitty has the most true quote of all time on her profile. If you live for people's acceptance you will die from their rejection. So live like you are beautiful because you are! Just because some douche bag filled your head with lies, don't let him control your happiness. You have to love yourself for who you are before you find complete happiness! We all have flaws through our own eyes but to someone else, your flaw is one of the reasons they tell you you are beautiful!
No pressure of posting pics

and Thank you CoachEric
Scariest photo I've posted yet!