Stretch marks

I know exactly how you feel. I think you've put into words what I fail to describe many times to people. But all I want to say is you're beautiful. I haven't seen any of your pictures but I still think you're a beautiful person. And I know its hard to realize that we are not a body but more than that but it is true. I am sure you will find someone who appreciates not only your body but also your heart and soul. :rose:

Well since all of these wonderful ladies were so brave enough to post I'll post one too. No they're not from having children...I don't even know if I will/can have children but I'm not too worried about that right now. I'm just trying to accept myself as I am. :)

You are perfect :) I hope you know that and start viewing yourself as beautiful instead of flawed. Your body was made for me kitty *kiss

Eventually I will post one.But not yet .
And your right.Most women's biggest insecurity is their body after childbirth,weight gain/loss, surgery etc. I haven't worn a bathing suit I years.and after my last relationship.I will not even have sex fully unclothed . It will take a lot and someone who genuinely likes me as I am. I am completely upfront on my flaws. The forthcoming disappointment from a man after or during, is not something I can handle well anymore. I can't.It hurts to much inside when you know,again they cannot accept you as you are. You fell short of their expectations.and it does harden you inside. Those who don't know you well see you as aloof, sometimes cold and even call you stuck up. They have no Fucking clue ...

But maybe I will try, for those other brave and beautiful women here that have posted. If you've ever read any of my more personal posts. Them you know I am gutsy. But I have to work up to it.

Cute kitty has the most true quote of all time on her profile. If you live for people's acceptance you will die from their rejection. So live like you are beautiful because you are! Just because some douche bag filled your head with lies, don't let him control your happiness. You have to love yourself for who you are before you find complete happiness! We all have flaws through our own eyes but to someone else, your flaw is one of the reasons they tell you you are beautiful!

No pressure of posting pics :) but I do pressure you to look in the mirror insecurities shining and tell yourself, you are beautiful, every inch of you!
 
Eventually I will post one.But not yet .
And your right.Most women's biggest insecurity is their body after childbirth,weight gain/loss, surgery etc. I haven't worn a bathing suit I years.and after my last relationship.I will not even have sex fully unclothed . It will take a lot and someone who genuinely likes me as I am. I am completely upfront on my flaws. The forthcoming disappointment from a man after or during, is not something I can handle well anymore. I can't.It hurts to much inside when you know,again they cannot accept you as you are. You fell short of their expectations.and it does harden you inside. Those who don't know you well see you as aloof, sometimes cold and even call you stuck up. They have no Fucking clue ...

But maybe I will try, for those other brave and beautiful women here that have posted. If you've ever read any of my more personal posts. Them you know I am gutsy. But I have to work up to it.

Go for it babe. we love the woman just the way they are
 
Eventually I will post one.But not yet .
And your right.Most women's biggest insecurity is their body after childbirth,weight gain/loss, surgery etc. I haven't worn a bathing suit I years.and after my last relationship.I will not even have sex fully unclothed . It will take a lot and someone who genuinely likes me as I am. I am completely upfront on my flaws. The forthcoming disappointment from a man after or during, is not something I can handle well anymore. I can't.It hurts to much inside when you know,again they cannot accept you as you are. You fell short of their expectations.and it does harden you inside. Those who don't know you well see you as aloof, sometimes cold and even call you stuck up. They have no Fucking clue ...

But maybe I will try, for those other brave and beautiful women here that have posted. If you've ever read any of my more personal posts. Them you know I am gutsy. But I have to work up to it.

Us males, can be so stupid, cruel, self-centered and just plain inhuman. We don't see ourselves with our fat guts, receeding hair lines, poor grooming habits and all the other innumerable fault.

Women are, by far, the superior of our species. To be looked up to and admired, respected and appreciated.

Women are God's gift to mankind. And I am grateful.
Thank you, ladies.
 
Us males, can be so stupid, cruel, self-centered and just plain inhuman. We don't see ourselves with our fat guts, receeding hair lines, poor grooming habits and all the other innumerable fault.

Women are, by far, the superior of our species. To be looked up to and admired, respected and appreciated.

Women are God's gift to mankind. And I am grateful.
Thank you, ladies.
Couldn't have said it better myself! Amen buddy!
 
You are perfect :) I hope you know that and start viewing yourself as beautiful instead of flawed. Your body was made for me kitty *kiss



Cute kitty has the most true quote of all time on her profile. If you live for people's acceptance you will die from their rejection. So live like you are beautiful because you are! Just because some douche bag filled your head with lies, don't let him control your happiness. You have to love yourself for who you are before you find complete happiness! We all have flaws through our own eyes but to someone else, your flaw is one of the reasons they tell you you are beautiful!

No pressure of posting pics :) but I do pressure you to look in the mirror insecurities shining and tell yourself, you are beautiful, every inch of you!

I almost never post. (Kinda like the 5 yr old who never talked until the toast was burnt) I had to jump in and give a here-here to Blakely's post. I am a 56 yr old guy and all I can say is that I have only seen gorgeous women posting pictures on here. I am amazed how you girls(and guys I guess) take that first step, and have a whole lot of respect. You people are great. My 2 cents.
 
Well since all of these wonderful ladies were so brave enough to post I'll post one too. No they're not from having children...I don't even know if I will/can have children but I'm not too worried about that right now. I'm just trying to accept myself as I am. :)

Hooray. Thanks for sharing that beautiful pic kitty.
 
Eventually I will post one.But not yet .
And your right.Most women's biggest insecurity is their body after childbirth,weight gain/loss, surgery etc. I haven't worn a bathing suit I years.and after my last relationship.I will not even have sex fully unclothed . It will take a lot and someone who genuinely likes me as I am. I am completely upfront on my flaws. The forthcoming disappointment from a man after or during, is not something I can handle well anymore. I can't.It hurts to much inside when you know,again they cannot accept you as you are. You fell short of their expectations.and it does harden you inside. Those who don't know you well see you as aloof, sometimes cold and even call you stuck up. They have no Fucking clue ...

But maybe I will try, for those other brave and beautiful women here that have posted. If you've ever read any of my more personal posts. Them you know I am gutsy. But I have to work up to it.

Kat, I know that I don't know you all that well. A few PM to say hi but no long talks. I don't stalk you around the boards so I have not seen a lot of your posts other than the few threads we both post in. What I do know is that you have always come across as a very nice person. I didn't reach out and PM you because your pretty, I reached out because your inner beauty shines thru in your posts.
(Yea, OK, I did originally send it because of the white dress but I still meant each and every word I just said)

Guys are jerks. I'm a jerk! I do hope you find Mr. right who see's you the same way that I do, I beautiful person on the inside as much as you are pretty on the outside.
 
I almost never post. (Kinda like the 5 yr old who never talked until the toast was burnt) I had to jump in and give a here-here to Blakely's post. I am a 56 yr old guy and all I can say is that I have only seen gorgeous women posting pictures on here. I am amazed how you girls(and guys I guess) take that first step, and have a whole lot of respect. You people are great. My 2 cents.
Thanks for your 2 cents my friend! I'm sure the ladies love to hear your compliments and I appreciate you giving them compliments! Now if these beautiful women will accept them hooray! Don't wait til the toast is burnt come hang out with us!
 
And my lips do love tummies! :) especially beautiful ones like yours!
Thank you! :kiss:
Eventually I will post one.But not yet .
And your right.Most women's biggest insecurity is their body after childbirth,weight gain/loss, surgery etc. I haven't worn a bathing suit I years.and after my last relationship.I will not even have sex fully unclothed . It will take a lot and someone who genuinely likes me as I am. I am completely upfront on my flaws. The forthcoming disappointment from a man after or during, is not something I can handle well anymore. I can't.It hurts to much inside when you know,again they cannot accept you as you are. You fell short of their expectations.and it does harden you inside. Those who don't know you well see you as aloof, sometimes cold and even call you stuck up. They have no Fucking clue ...

But maybe I will try, for those other brave and beautiful women here that have posted. If you've ever read any of my more personal posts. Them you know I am gutsy. But I have to work up to it.
HUGS! I've seen you around, but we've never spoken and I like you exactly the way you are, there is only ONE you, and that cannot be replaced. THAT makes you perfect as you are! :rose:
Well since all of these wonderful ladies were so brave enough to post I'll post one too. No they're not from having children...I don't even know if I will/can have children but I'm not too worried about that right now. I'm just trying to accept myself as I am. :)
Don't ever doubt your beauty honey, you're beautiful, inside and out!
Us males, can be so stupid, cruel, self-centered and just plain inhuman. We don't see ourselves with our fat guts, receeding hair lines, poor grooming habits and all the other innumerable fault.

Women are, by far, the superior of our species. To be looked up to and admired, respected and appreciated.

Women are God's gift to mankind. And I am grateful.
Thank you, ladies.
:kiss:
I almost never post. (Kinda like the 5 yr old who never talked until the toast was burnt) I had to jump in and give a here-here to Blakely's post. I am a 56 yr old guy and all I can say is that I have only seen gorgeous women posting pictures on here. I am amazed how you girls(and guys I guess) take that first step, and have a whole lot of respect. You people are great. My 2 cents.

First one is the hardest!

You should join in more!
 
Beautiful ladies, most people have seen mine on the twins but I am not quite brave enough for the belly shot, I have a spray tan to hide some. I am always amazed what and proud what my body has been through to have my perfect little people.
 
Kat, I know that I don't know you all that well. A few PM to say hi but no long talks. I don't stalk you around the boards so I have not seen a lot of your posts other than the few threads we both post in. What I do know is that you have always come across as a very nice person. I didn't reach out and PM you because your pretty, I reached out because your inner beauty shines thru in your posts.
(Yea, OK, I did originally send it because of the white dress but I still meant each and every word I just said)

Guys are jerks. I'm a jerk! I do hope you find Mr. right who see's you the same way that I do, I beautiful person on the inside as much as you are pretty on the outside.

Pink !!! The dress is Light Pink !!! :rolleyes::D and Thank you CoachEric :rose: I have a small hope I will find the right one. Sometimes I think,Maybe I'm One of those who weren't meant to find their mate ?? It is possible ? I tend to think out loud and say how I feel when responding to posts or threads. I do my best to be decent and nice. And I feel honesty is best.

People say confidence is sexy.and they're right .But confidence is also hard to maintain when negative memories haunt your conscience. So I struggle back and forth with it. There are days I'm good to go.and days I'm not so sure . A big smile and positive thoughts help a lot. The bad days find me emotional and teary eyed. Many reasons I won't delve into right now.
I have thought of starting a lltgread we camnall,I've you want, tell a story about ourselves. Kinda like therapy :D but free
Mine would be long though.I tend to try and paint it as a whole.therefore you understand each other better.
 
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LOL, in the avatar it looks white.

Yea, I've spilled my guts at times online. That free therapy is good at times.
 
Thanks for the welcome! I will definitely make a point to share my admirations PUBLICLY ! My wife has a few trophies from our 2 kids, now grown. I try to always show my loving respect. Funny, after almost 30 years, she still seeks self conscious. Guess I need to try harder. I'm learning.
 
I really didn't think this thread would take off. Like the ladies said.That has always been one of my worst insecurities. I too filter the shit out of my belly when I was taking pictures. I'm envious for your bravery ladies! Kudos. :rose:

You look amazing!! No need to filter anything, ever! ;)
 
High five brave posters

I've read this thread a few times, wanted to comment and say how gorgeous you all are and how brave and honest enough to post, but was too scared to post myself. And then gave myself a kick up the arse for daring to be so vain. :eek:

So here's one from me. No clever angle or finding the best filter to flatter. :eek: I do love that so many people will go out of their way to say they find stretch marks sexy and they should be embraced. It's lovely and would love to 100% believe it for myself about myself. But that's work in progress.

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I've read this thread a few times, wanted to comment and say how gorgeous you all are and how brave and honest enough to post, but was too scared to post myself. And then gave myself a kick up the arse for daring to be so vain. :eek:

So here's one from me. No clever angle or finding the best filter to flatter. :eek: I do love that so many people will go out of their way to say they find stretch marks sexy and they should be embraced. It's lovely and would love to 100% believe it for myself about myself. But that's work in progress.

That's a beautiful picture. You're gorgeous. :rose:
 
I've read this thread a few times, wanted to comment and say how gorgeous you all are and how brave and honest enough to post, but was too scared to post myself. And then gave myself a kick up the arse for daring to be so vain. :eek:

So here's one from me. No clever angle or finding the best filter to flatter. :eek: I do love that so many people will go out of their way to say they find stretch marks sexy and they should be embraced. It's lovely and would love to 100% believe it for myself about myself. But that's work in progress.

It shows how lovely you really are SlowTease and I love those panties too! :rose:
 
I've read this thread a few times, wanted to comment and say how gorgeous you all are and how brave and honest enough to post, but was too scared to post myself. And then gave myself a kick up the arse for daring to be so vain. :eek:

So here's one from me. No clever angle or finding the best filter to flatter. :eek: I do love that so many people will go out of their way to say they find stretch marks sexy and they should be embraced. It's lovely and would love to 100% believe it for myself about myself. But that's work in progress.

https://farm1.staticflickr.com/691/20926818811_d41ee41c68.jpg

So sexy:kiss:
 
I've read this thread a few times, wanted to comment and say how gorgeous you all are and how brave and honest enough to post, but was too scared to post myself. And then gave myself a kick up the arse for daring to be so vain. :eek:

So here's one from me. No clever angle or finding the best filter to flatter. :eek: I do love that so many people will go out of their way to say they find stretch marks sexy and they should be embraced. It's lovely and would love to 100% believe it for myself about myself. But that's work in progress.

https://farm1.staticflickr.com/691/20926818811_d41ee41c68.jpg
:) thank you beautiful! You are so so soooo so sexy! ;)
 
All of you women are incredibly beautiful. Don't be insecure about your bodies.

I agree. It is too bad that I did not find this thread earlier. The best lover I was ever with had earned her stretch marks and C section scars as badges for being a wonderful sexy mother to her children. She was very happily not shy about them and my worship of her included plenty of attention to those parts of her beautiful womanly body. Her "baby belly" was as sexy to me as her gorgeous round breasts and perky nipples.
 
I haven't worn a bathing suit I years.and after my last relationship.I will not even have sex fully unclothed .

That is a pity for you and for the men who are involved. I have been with some very prudish and self centered women and one of them was even a top nude model in her day. On the other hand I most enjoyed being with a short, chubby woman who introduced me to the joys of C section scars and stretch marks. I worshipped her like a goddess. Our relationship was completely uninhibited and we were as un-self-conscious as naked babies. She still looks great to me now that she is in her sixties but she has unfortunately completely lost her sex drive.
 
I've read this thread a few times, wanted to comment and say how gorgeous you all are and how brave and honest enough to post, but was too scared to post myself. And then gave myself a kick up the arse for daring to be so vain. :eek:

So here's one from me. No clever angle or finding the best filter to flatter. :eek: I do love that so many people will go out of their way to say they find stretch marks sexy and they should be embraced. It's lovely and would love to 100% believe it for myself about myself. But that's work in progress.

https://farm1.staticflickr.com/691/20926818811_d41ee41c68.jpg

Your belly is so sexy. It is unfortunate that I am not there with you to worship it. :heart:
 
I have a lady friend who, at one time, was selfconscious about donning a swimsuit. But I was able to convince her to visit a nudist club with me and now she is a member.

Ladies, all of you are a joy ot see. :rose:
 
Bumping this back to the front. I know most women are self conscious about the marks, but everyone please remember- scars, stretch marks, etc are the souvenirs we all carry from our life. They are a part of us. And no one should be ashamed or mocked for a life that has been lived.

Great pics ladies- ALL of them.
 
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