Straight men Question: Anal Play

[Gilly Bean]

Hubby was surpised to hear a friend of ours wants to have someone use a strap on, or vibe on him. He assures us he isn't gay, and has no interest at all in men.


I said I thought this was fairly common.


Would you want to?

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

It isn't something that interests me, but it's not a homo-phobic thing with me.

If it floats their boat, whatever happens between a man and a woman isn't homosexuality.

 

[ozraven]

"Not a chance"

I can't handle her finger sometimes........and I can't fucking believe she can handle me there, but I remain very thankful!

 

[Gilly Bean]

It isn't something that interests me, but it's not a homo-phobic thing with me.

If it floats their boat, whatever happens between a man and a woman isn't homosexuality.

I agree completly.

Lekov said something earlier after we were talking about it. He was talking to some friends back before I had met him, and all but 2 of the group said that a girl isn't made for anal, because it's too 'homo-ish'


What is homoish?

 

[Lovepotion69]

Hubby was surpised to hear a friend of ours wants to have someone use a strap on, or vibe on him. He assures us he isn't gay, and has no interest at all in men.


I said I thought this was fairly common.


Would you want to?

GB, I'm liking your threads more and more.

I've only encountered one guy in person who was into anal play. Most of my other guys didn't want me to go anywhere near (but of course they wanted to try getting near me). This guy is into anal play such as fingers, and I don't think he'd mind the vibe/dildo thing, but very sceptical if he'd want a strap on.

 

[Lasz]

I dont know about a full blown sized strap on. But it might be intresting to get something up there.

 

[Guest]

no way

no chance

 

[SlowHand89]

Sure thing. Especially if she gets off on it. I wouldn't ask for it per se, but if it comes up.

 

[Gilly Bean]

I used to dread the thought of anything up there, but... -grins- It's not soooo bad. -wink wink nudge nudge-


lovepotion~ Glad you've been liking my threads.

 

[Lekov]

As the hubby in question, I will simply state that it just holds no interest for me. Not from a homophobic scenario (and again, I never understood those friends of mine who felt that doing so with a woman was "too close" to it for their comfort). The time or two a finger has started to work back there, just didn't feel good at all. Guess I was a bit surprised at it was all.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

What is homoish?

I don't see anal play as "homoish" behavior. I'm not closed minded to anal play, one woman I used to see was a master at prostate stimulation and that was an unbelievable experience. But I don't sit and daydream and wish it would happen again. The idea of a strap-on being used on me just doesn't appeal to me either.

My wife likes anal sex and I always leave it up to her to initiate things if that's what she wants. I don't think it's a "homoish" thing.

The line should be drawn at actual anal or oral penetration between two men to be considered homosexuality.

 

[loveyamon]

There wasn't enough questions in this poll .................

 

[The_old_man]

At my age a little prostate massage is benificial. Since my wifes fingers are too short to fully cover the gland she uses a small(6in.) smooth dildo and lots of lube. feels good.

 

[Azwed]

Fingers sure but thats probably it.

 

[Calamity Jane]

I've never had a man complain about anal play.

 

[freakygirl]

I've never had a man complain about anal play.

Same here.. but I've never used anything other than a finger.

 

[Gilly Bean]

Lekov is weak, he won't let me!


Actually, I'm not even sure I want to do anal play on a guy, but the whole idea made me curious.

 

[RazeByFire]

I would like to have my gf do this. She uses her fingers and occasionally a toy. I fantasize about her taking me with a strapon. Not sure about it for real, but I would like to try it. Just have to convince her. Any ideas on how to do that?

 

[Romial]

Maybe one day in the future if I'm with the right woman, a little play might happen. But right now, nah no thanks.

 

[Nora]

I would like to have my gf do this. She uses her fingers and occasionally a toy. I fantasize about her taking me with a strapon. Not sure about it for real, but I would like to try it. Just have to convince her. Any ideas on how to do that?

Buy her a strapon, then piss her off.

 

[Rhys]

Having adopted the "don't knock something until you've tried it" attitude...

I have to say my first reaction was...that would hurt

my second reaction was...get me drunk enough and I will try it

my third reaction was WOW!

 

[Gilly Bean]

Having adopted the "don't knock something until you've tried it" attitude...

I have to say my first reaction was...that would hurt

my second reaction was...get me drunk enough and I will try it

my third reaction was WOW!

I looooove that av.

 

[Renegade]

Anal play is good play.

Seriously, it can be a lot of fun with the right woman. You're likely to never hear me complaining about it.

 

[Gilly Bean]

Anal play is good play.

Seriously, it can be a lot of fun with the right woman. You're likely to never hear me complaining about it.

Baby dooooolll.


Long night again?

 

[Rhys]

I looooove that av.

so do I which is why its the av du jour...

thanks