YogiBare
Not Your Average Bare
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When I was in my mid 20s I fell head-over-heels in love with a woman whom I later found out was a lesbian. I loved her personality, her body, and her mind. Just being around her turned me on. And I would have done anything for her.
The obvious problem was that she was not interested in me romantically, but as a best friend/brother, which is the relationship that we had (mostly!) for about three years.
The odd thing was that she was also sexually turned on by me. We would have sexual conversations (like about what we each liked sexually), ride together on her motorcycle with my crotch pressed into her ass, and she would get very hot, send me home, and ride straight over to a female lover's house for hot sex. When we would be drunk together, she would initiate wonderful French kissing sessions. I kept hoping that she would become my girlfriend, but it eventually became clear to me that this was not going to happen. For me, it was all too much of a tease and I, very sadly, had to end the friendship.
I have always thought that the degree to which she was sexually attracted to me reflected some degree of bisexuality on her part. But I haven't understood why she would not act on that attraction, combined with the love that we shared in our very intimate friendship.
My questions are:
#1- to the guys - Have you ever had any similar experiences with a lesbian woman?
#2 - to the lesbian women - What has your experience been with having straight guys/male friends becoming very attracted to you? How have you handled these situations?
#3 - to straight women - have you ever had a situation similar to mine happen between you and a gay man? What happened?
I look forward to your comments!
The obvious problem was that she was not interested in me romantically, but as a best friend/brother, which is the relationship that we had (mostly!) for about three years.
The odd thing was that she was also sexually turned on by me. We would have sexual conversations (like about what we each liked sexually), ride together on her motorcycle with my crotch pressed into her ass, and she would get very hot, send me home, and ride straight over to a female lover's house for hot sex. When we would be drunk together, she would initiate wonderful French kissing sessions. I kept hoping that she would become my girlfriend, but it eventually became clear to me that this was not going to happen. For me, it was all too much of a tease and I, very sadly, had to end the friendship.
I have always thought that the degree to which she was sexually attracted to me reflected some degree of bisexuality on her part. But I haven't understood why she would not act on that attraction, combined with the love that we shared in our very intimate friendship.
My questions are:
#1- to the guys - Have you ever had any similar experiences with a lesbian woman?
#2 - to the lesbian women - What has your experience been with having straight guys/male friends becoming very attracted to you? How have you handled these situations?
#3 - to straight women - have you ever had a situation similar to mine happen between you and a gay man? What happened?
I look forward to your comments!
