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Have started to get curious about fingering my own arse but not sure what to expect.....is it actually enjoyable? Will it hurt? any side effects at first? Can it make you cum......anyone ever tried....i can't be the only man to have thought this can I?

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do it and sniff your finger...if it turns you on go for it....lol...just kidding.

ass play can be a lot of fun. You're by yourself, do you feel like you need permission to do this? I think I know how you feel, when I was
younger i thought ... what will people say or think...now that I am older I realize that people have better things to think about...none of us are
that important. I feel that you should do everything that you wish to do sexually...just go for it...I spent a long time with catholic guilt and
I should have been enjoying women and men the way that I enjoy them...hope that makes sense
 
Go for it I say. I started a few years back now and progressed to larger and larger objects. :p
From personal experience it is enjoyable. It wont hurt if you go slow and just test your limits. Try in the show the first time, have a poke around see what you find... :p Its possible to come from prostate stimulation but generally with anal play its more for a diferent feeling or a feeling of fullness if you progress to toys and such.
No side effects :p Unless you over extend yourself which can cause pain and/or bleeding. Like I said, go slow!

Hope this helps.
 
Some words of caution.

By all means do what you wish. Remember, we all have our own perception of, and tolerance to pain...especially self inflicted. If it doesn't hurt, it doesn't mean it won't tomorrow and for days to follow. I don't think this is the place for elaboration on my part. So, There it is.
 
My experience in playing with my ass is that there is a point at which it is very pleasurable, and if I try to hurry things along to get to that point, it isn't that pleasurable. I can play with my ass and cock and at some point things are warmed up enough that when I push a dildo in, it feels fantastic. But if I try to stretch myself out too quickly, it just feels tight.
 
Have started to get curious about fingering my own arse but not sure what to expect.....is it actually enjoyable?

I like it better when somebody else is fingering me, but it can be nice to do it yourself. I'd suggest starting in the shower. Just caress your asshole with a soapy finger without trying to push it in. If that feels good, then try going a little further.

Will it hurt?

If it does, you're either trying to go too fast, or you need to trim your nails.

any side effects at first?

You'll want to wash your hands afterwards, but there shouldn't be any side effects.

Can it make you cum......anyone ever tried....i can't be the only man to have thought this can I?

Oh, it certainly can. However, getting fingered while getting a good blowjob is even better. Being taken by a hot woman wearing a strap-on is also very, very good (especially if you're fucking another woman at the same time).
 
Arse fingering

I found, earlier on in my sexual investigation of myself, that fingering my arsehole in the shower soon demanded something more intrusive in that tight orifice, hence, two fingers, then three, then as time wore on and newer objects appeared, a butt plug and a dido until that wonderfull night I got the real McCoy, a hard stiff cock, shouldering into me and taking me to paradise. That was many years ago but that memory clings onto me. So, any of you guys who are curious remember the old adage, "Much always demands More". Here endeth the Lesson, Amen!
 
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