Straight guys who like gay sex

[Funguy63]

I have been married twice, and have not had sex with a man. I do see myself being fucked and sucking a guy one day and not against what role I am in. I once sucked a cock and have mine sucked several times when younger, now I often think of sucking more.

 

[discjockey74]

I am definitely curious about some of this.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

I’m sexually bi. I like what others have said, if you’re sucking dick, getting your dick sucked by a guy or getting fucked you aren’t what I would call straight . You can be 95/5 sucking cock only on New Years eves , but youre still an ocasional dicksucker. Have fun

Wait, I want to try to understand. You're saying that if a person was sucking dick ... that person's a dicksucker?

Seems there might be a guy that tried sucking and decided it wasn't his style. So he's not a cocksucker.

 

[Astroman72]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

Wow, I could have written that post (except for the actual gay sex experience.)

That is EXACTLY my orientation as well. For me, gay sex is like a super-exciting form of masturbation, and it's completely one-dimensional and unrelated to the multi-faceted way I'm attracted to women.

 

[Escierto]

I am reposting this since I inadvertantly deleted the first time around

I am honestly still trying to figure out how I feel about this.

I love women. Their shape and feel, the smell, etc. However sexually, I have found, as I got older, I have accepted the idea of having an orgasm from a guy (being stroked or sucked) is ok.. And maybe I will reach a point where fucking him may be fun. Maybe this is one on one or a hot wife cuck experience. The hedonist in me drives this for me. Having said all that, I have zero interest in kissing or cuddling a man, nor anything to do with another man’s cock. I have no interest to suck him, stroke him, see him cum, I am just not turned on by it. Perhaps this is selfish some of you may say, but if I am being honest with someone and clear about expectations upfront, I don’t think so. My fantasy if you will, is either a cuck doing clean up for his wife and me, or would be a neighbor who drops by now and then. We talk like old friends about events or sports or whatever, and before he leaves, I’m feeding him my cock. Yes it’s gay sex and I will always be the top. Clearly there has to be a lot of trust there, but I don’t see any emotional attachment. Sex with women Carrie’s an emotional attachment and would still be my preference.

Trying to avoid the labels, I don’t consider myself gay or bi, just interested and flexible.

Wow, that was a long post to inadvertently delete!

 

[J1biboi]

I am reposting this since I inadvertantly deleted the first time around

I am honestly still trying to figure out how I feel about this.

I love women. Their shape and feel, the smell, etc. However sexually, I have found, as I got older, I have accepted the idea of having an orgasm from a guy (being stroked or sucked) is ok.. And maybe I will reach a point where fucking him may be fun. Maybe this is one on one or a hot wife cuck experience. The hedonist in me drives this for me. Having said all that, I have zero interest in kissing or cuddling a man, nor anything to do with another man’s cock. I have no interest to suck him, stroke him, see him cum, I am just not turned on by it. Perhaps this is selfish some of you may say, but if I am being honest with someone and clear about expectations upfront, I don’t think so. My fantasy if you will, is either a cuck doing clean up for his wife and me, or would be a neighbor who drops by now and then. We talk like old friends about events or sports or whatever, and before he leaves, I’m feeding him my cock. Yes it’s gay sex and I will always be the top. Clearly there has to be a lot of trust there, but I don’t see any emotional attachment. Sex with women Carrie’s an emotional attachment and would still be my preference.

Trying to avoid the labels, I don’t consider myself gay or bi, just interested and flexible.

Ain't nothing wrong with that. Ain't nothing wrong with your picture either!!

 

[stargame]

I am reposting this since I inadvertantly deleted the first time around

I am honestly still trying to figure out how I feel about this.

I love women. Their shape and feel, the smell, etc. However sexually, I have found, as I got older, I have accepted the idea of having an orgasm from a guy (being stroked or sucked) is ok.. And maybe I will reach a point where fucking him may be fun. Maybe this is one on one or a hot wife cuck experience. The hedonist in me drives this for me. Having said all that, I have zero interest in kissing or cuddling a man, nor anything to do with another man’s cock. I have no interest to suck him, stroke him, see him cum, I am just not turned on by it. Perhaps this is selfish some of you may say, but if I am being honest with someone and clear about expectations upfront, I don’t think so. My fantasy if you will, is either a cuck doing clean up for his wife and me, or would be a neighbor who drops by now and then. We talk like old friends about events or sports or whatever, and before he leaves, I’m feeding him my cock. Yes it’s gay sex and I will always be the top. Clearly there has to be a lot of trust there, but I don’t see any emotional attachment. Sex with women Carrie’s an emotional attachment and would still be my preference.

Trying to avoid the labels, I don’t consider myself gay or bi, just interested and flexible.

Yes, if it's gay sex, you are for sure Top, and I for sure....am your feminine muse bottom.

 

[Swuchrow]

I am reposting this since I inadvertantly deleted the first time around

I am honestly still trying to figure out how I feel about this.

I love women. Their shape and feel, the smell, etc. However sexually, I have found, as I got older, I have accepted the idea of having an orgasm from a guy (being stroked or sucked) is ok.. And maybe I will reach a point where fucking him may be fun. Maybe this is one on one or a hot wife cuck experience. The hedonist in me drives this for me. Having said all that, I have zero interest in kissing or cuddling a man, nor anything to do with another man’s cock. I have no interest to suck him, stroke him, see him cum, I am just not turned on by it. Perhaps this is selfish some of you may say, but if I am being honest with someone and clear about expectations upfront, I don’t think so. My fantasy if you will, is either a cuck doing clean up for his wife and me, or would be a neighbor who drops by now and then. We talk like old friends about events or sports or whatever, and before he leaves, I’m feeding him my cock. Yes it’s gay sex and I will always be the top. Clearly there has to be a lot of trust there, but I don’t see any emotional attachment. Sex with women Carrie’s an emotional attachment and would still be my preference.

Trying to avoid the labels, I don’t consider myself gay or bi, just interested and flexible.

I am a bi bottom. I am attracted to women. Sex with a woman is physical and emotional.

While I am not attracted to men I love the feeling of submitting to a top and allowing him to use me for his needs. With a man it is only physical and base sex.

 

[Escierto]

I love the feeling of submitting to a top and allowing him to use me for his needs.

Me too. Of course my only top is my beautiful girlfriend!

 

[Swuchrow]

Me too. Of course my only top is my beautiful girlfriend!

Prefer my top to be at least 6’, 200lbs, +6” and hairy.

 

[Escierto]

Prefer my top to be at least 6’, 200lbs, +6” and hairy.

You have described me except for the hairy! My girl is 5'6" and 110 pounds but she has a lovely big cock.

 

[Swuchrow]

You have described me except for the hairy! My girl is 5'6" and 110 pounds but she has a lovely big cock.

Nice. I am 5’8”, 155, very average cock.

 

[carlg111901]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

Spoiler alert, you don't need anyone's assurance on what you're sexual identity is. Be you. If you say you're straight, than you're straight. You don't need to explain yourself to anyone. Leave the labels to the haters who feel everything needs a label. You define you.

 

[Bathtubbill]

Prefer my top to be at least 6’, 200lbs, +6” and hairy.

Tick, tick, tick

 

[Swuchrow]

Tick, tick, tick

You are my perfect sex toy.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

I am reposting this since I inadvertantly deleted the first time around

I am honestly still trying to figure out how I feel about this.

I love women. Their shape and feel, the smell, etc. However sexually, I have found, as I got older, I have accepted the idea of having an orgasm from a guy (being stroked or sucked) is ok.. And maybe I will reach a point where fucking him may be fun. Maybe this is one on one or a hot wife cuck experience. The hedonist in me drives this for me. Having said all that, I have zero interest in kissing or cuddling a man, nor anything to do with another man’s cock. I have no interest to suck him, stroke him, see him cum, I am just not turned on by it. Perhaps this is selfish some of you may say, but if I am being honest with someone and clear about expectations upfront, I don’t think so. My fantasy if you will, is either a cuck doing clean up for his wife and me, or would be a neighbor who drops by now and then. We talk like old friends about events or sports or whatever, and before he leaves, I’m feeding him my cock. Yes it’s gay sex and I will always be the top. Clearly there has to be a lot of trust there, but I don’t see any emotional attachment. Sex with women Carrie’s an emotional attachment and would still be my preference.

Trying to avoid the labels, I don’t consider myself gay or bi, just interested and flexible.

That is well put, I’m along the same lines, although I do feel a strong attraction towards effeminate men and trans people that could go way beyond just a sexual desire. Somehow it moves away from top or bottom but still falls in the parameters of dominant and submissive.
It’s all very fun to explore and discover.