This has been bothering me alot lately. Everybody I know has had sex except me. I'm still a virgin and I'm 30 year old male for crying out loud. It's pathetic. It's made me feel suicidal at times. All I want is the chance to have sex and/or a relationship. Okay. I'll stop for now. *runs*
Still a virgin
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SexCrazed said:
Well, what is it thats stopping you from having sex? Are you too nervous?
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Maybe your standards are too high, dude. I was a virgin until I was 28, so I totally empathise. To say that I'm not a master of seduction would be an understatement. To say that I'm often socially inept would be closer to the truth.
A few pieces of advice from a guy who had a difficult time getting started:
1. Start small. work you way up the social pyramid: many acquaintances=> a few friends=>lots of female acquaintances (perhaps a female friend or two)=>some dates=>a few repeats=>girlfriends=>sex
2. Tell people what you want. Even imagining some kind of insane world where women never wanted sex, some of them would no-doubt accomodate you anyway. But if you don't make your desires/demands known, you get nothing. And women like to be wanted. Doesn't mean they can't refuse, of course.
3. Sex is many things. Coitus (penile penetration) is not everything. Knecking/extended kissing has been a good thing for me to aim for with women I don't know or barely know. Kissing is fun--and it sometimes leads to a grope, or nipple sucking, or any of the infinite shades of grey between a casual hug and doggystyle humping.
4. Oh, and don't underestimate good grooming. Cleanliness and a good manicure can go a long way.
A few pieces of advice from a guy who had a difficult time getting started:
1. Start small. work you way up the social pyramid: many acquaintances=> a few friends=>lots of female acquaintances (perhaps a female friend or two)=>some dates=>a few repeats=>girlfriends=>sex
2. Tell people what you want. Even imagining some kind of insane world where women never wanted sex, some of them would no-doubt accomodate you anyway. But if you don't make your desires/demands known, you get nothing. And women like to be wanted. Doesn't mean they can't refuse, of course.
3. Sex is many things. Coitus (penile penetration) is not everything. Knecking/extended kissing has been a good thing for me to aim for with women I don't know or barely know. Kissing is fun--and it sometimes leads to a grope, or nipple sucking, or any of the infinite shades of grey between a casual hug and doggystyle humping.
4. Oh, and don't underestimate good grooming. Cleanliness and a good manicure can go a long way.
Re: Re: Still a virgin
No one's willing to give me a chance. I did have one opportunity but the woman looked like a guy with a hormone problem complete with a very visible hairy upper lip and a very shitty attitude.
HG - I have many female friends. They only like me as a friend though.
I keep myself well groomed and all that but for some odd reason I don't have any luck. *sigh*
Gutterslut said:
No one's willing to give me a chance. I did have one opportunity but the woman looked like a guy with a hormone problem complete with a very visible hairy upper lip and a very shitty attitude.
HG - I have many female friends. They only like me as a friend though.
I keep myself well groomed and all that but for some odd reason I don't have any luck. *sigh*
