Stereotypes XD

mansome said:
I admit to keeping my bi-side hidden from friends and co-workers for the full five years i've been playing around with men.....

what I don't understand is why women and men who advertise on swing/hook-up sites looking for single men..... will not consider a man who describes himself as bi~curious? I love women just as much as an straight guy... but it seems that too many people label "bi" as just being totally gay.......

It's a tad annoying.. but I'm not really one to talk..... like I said my bi~side is only known in Cyberia and those that I physically meet through here.......
That doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me either. *shrug* I guess maybe the people on here are just getting started too and are looking for someone to lead the way.
 
DallasWantsPink said:
That doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me either. *shrug* I guess maybe the people on here are just getting started too and are looking for someone to lead the way.


Well, I haven't been in an actual chatroom in quite along time.. but I do remember all the "bi" women seem to only talk to other women and not even consider men...... I think it's a moniker that's got way too many stereotypes attached to it, and it means something different to different people.. which doesn't bother me too much.... I wait to meet the real person anyway.....
 
mansome said:
Well, I haven't been in an actual chatroom in quite along time.. but I do remember all the "bi" women seem to only talk to other women and not even consider men...... I think it's a moniker that's got way too many stereotypes attached to it, and it means something different to different people.. which doesn't bother me too much.... I wait to meet the real person anyway.....
Well with women (at least in my case) I'm already with a guy who I love dearly. For a while we were looking only for women to fool around with... Then he told me that he was bi-curious :)eek: ) :D Now we're looking for bi men and/or women. Gives us a much broader group to select from :)
 
DallasWantsPink said:
Well with women (at least in my case) I'm already with a guy who I love dearly. For a while we were looking only for women to fool around with... Then he told me that he was bi-curious :)eek: ) :D Now we're looking for bi men and/or women. Gives us a much broader group to select from :)


Damn...that's my dream relationship.............

My ex-girlfriend was bisexual and had a girlfriend on the side that I new about from the beginning, but she would never share her with us.. which is understandable as her girlfriend was lesbian... she had that and I didn't have anything until one night we met a married couple at a bar and went back to their place... He didn't want to do anything with me and I could tell that so I stayed away from him.... she had so much fun with the woman though and we both had fun with each other's women......... soon after that she took a job in Connecticut and I haven't seen her since... I do wonder what happened to the married couple though as that was the wife's first experience with a woman...... hmmm maybe they are on here somewhere..

*laughs*
 
mansome said:
Damn...that's my dream relationship.............

My ex-girlfriend was bisexual and had a girlfriend on the side that I new about from the beginning, but she would never share her with us.. which is understandable as her girlfriend was lesbian... she had that and I didn't have anything until one night we met a married couple at a bar and went back to their place... He didn't want to do anything with me and I could tell that so I stayed away from him.... she had so much fun with the woman though and we both had fun with each other's women......... soon after that she took a job in Connecticut and I haven't seen her since... I do wonder what happened to the married couple though as that was the wife's first experience with a woman...... hmmm maybe they are on here somewhere..

*laughs*
Other than silly high school stuff I've never been with a woman and would -never- do it without my man being there or, at the very least, knowing and consenting to it. I wouldn't want him to be with another guy if I wasn't there. But I'm the jealous type ;)
 
DallasWantsPink said:
Other than silly high school stuff I've never been with a woman and would -never- do it without my man being there or, at the very least, knowing and consenting to it. I wouldn't want him to be with another guy if I wasn't there. But I'm the jealous type ;)

So.. have you two done anything about your curiosities together yet? or is it just talk and fantasizing?
 
mansome said:
So.. have you two done anything about your curiosities together yet? or is it just talk and fantasizing?
so far, just talk and fantasizing :(
We'd like to do more, but it can be difficult to find somebody you trust to do these things with.

We have had a 3some involving another guy but it was MFM, not MMF. The guy is his best friend and Honey (smartly) isn't willing to risk losing a great friend over an awkward moment. His friend is totally straight and, although he would be accepting of my dear's choices, I don't think he'd like to be involved.
 
DallasWantsPink said:
so far, just talk and fantasizing :(
We'd like to do more, but it can be difficult to find somebody you trust to do these things with.

We have had a 3some involving another guy but it was MFM, not MMF. The guy is his best friend and Honey (smartly) isn't willing to risk losing a great friend over an awkward moment. His friend is totally straight and, although he would be accepting of my dear's choices, I don't think he'd like to be involved.


hmmm.. you are in Dallas huh? I'm just not close enough to drop in one day.. *laughs*

so you haven't explored your bi curious side yet as a couple?
 
mansome said:
hmmm.. you are in Dallas huh? I'm just not close enough to drop in one day.. *laughs*

so you haven't explored your bi curious side yet as a couple?
*sigh* nope.
He's taken me to strip clubs though... That was TOO much fun! :D
 
DallasWantsPink said:
*sigh* nope.
He's taken me to strip clubs though... That was TOO much fun! :D

Does your boyfriend hop on here at all? at least you have this and the internet to flirt with women and "feel" them out.....

actually the strip club puts us back on topic........

I'm not sure but I have a sterotype that almost all strippers are bisexual....... ....
 
mansome said:
Does your boyfriend hop on here at all? at least you have this and the internet to flirt with women and "feel" them out.....

actually the strip club puts us back on topic........

I'm not sure but I have a sterotype that almost all strippers are bisexual....... ....
I've met several stippers that are full on lesbians. They're super sweet too!

Yeah, he's MZR2.3. Kinda quiet around here, but here nonetheless. :D
 
DallasWantsPink said:
I've met several stippers that are full on lesbians. They're super sweet too!

Yeah, he's MZR2.3. Kinda quiet around here, but here nonetheless. :D


well tell him to get on here next time so I can flirt with him and you two together..

;^)
 
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