Squirting

[pinkflames]

Lately, I've been squirting roughly every 10 or so times that I orgasm. There's no obvious technique that I use to make it happen other than extreme horniness, although an ex used to help it happen by applying pressure on my G-spot during oral sex. The two who have tasted it say my ejaculate is slightly sweeter than my usual secretions.

 

[DiscusDave]

My experiences with female ejaculate have all been... (at least from what it seemed like) out of the blue. It was an unexpected, sweet treat. Yep, to me it tastes great.

But I will say it's nice to see such a bank of knowledge on the subject. The total lak of common knowledge about female ejaculation can make for some awkward situations. The first time I was with a woman and made her squirt (I say "I made her" since I was inside her) she got extremely self conscious and embarrassed because she honestly thought she had peed on me. I had to explain to her what it was, and how it was a wonderful thing.

 

[Mr.G]

From tons of feedback

the only correlation I can guess at based on all the feedback notes I've received is that the chances of squirting seems to go up the more aroused she is. In other words if you spend 3 hours in foreplay, don't LET her cum but right on the edge and THEN make her cum hard - usually from a hard G-ing then there is a GOOD chance she'll squirt on ya.

Start G-Spotting her and make her cum quickly and often and, it seems, the propensity to ejaculate disappears.

 

[pinkflames]

I personally go against your advice. I often have had several orgasms from non-genital body contact on the occassions that I have squirted. My ex used to apply pressure to my G-spot as part of oral but that relationship ended 17 years ago. I then had no squirting at all during my 13 years with my next partner. Now my current partner seldom stimulates my G-spot (unless we are making love in the missionary position) but he does pay plenty of attention to my body as a whole and that is why I believe I rediscovered my ability to squirt.

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Black's post is the first I've heard of female ejaculate smelling like urine, or foul at all. If it smells and/or tastes and/or looks like pee, it probably is pee, rather than ejaculate. Some women try so hard that they do actually end up producing pee, rather than ejaculate, and in the heat of the moment, they may very well not know the difference.

IIRC, my ejaculate is pretty much odorless and tasteless, plus it's not the same watery texture as pee (it's very fluid, but has a semi-slick quality). Some report it has a somewhat sweet taste and smell.

At any rate, I wouldn't let one anecdote of it smelling like urine keep me from letting go and ejaculating. I'd suggest assessing your own ejaculate for yourself, rather than going off of what someone else says.

Thanks for a very thoughtful, authoritative and reassuring reply. It's all good to know! Although I was intrigued by the prior assertion, I didn't mean to come across too seriously. Lots of aspects of human bodies during sex are a bit smelly, and it's hardly the end of the world.

But as I said, I was wondering what "proper" ejaculate smells like, so I can begin to tell if that's what I'm actually doing...so thanks for all the replies which help paint the picture. It seems as if, quite understandably, everyone's different, and, as you say, the most important thing to find out for myself. As I also mentioned before, I can get much more wet during and just after I orgasm, sometimes, which begs the question of whether the wetness is actually my ejaculate, in some form. It smells like...well, hard to describe, really, but pretty much my regular aroused vaginal smell, although maybe less strong.

 

[BrightLight]

Interesting topic, not one which has held any real appeal for me in the past, however recently I had an experience, which at the time I found very upsetting, which makes me wonder if I might have experienced this to some extent.

What SweetErika says here:

It's actually just a gush of fluid and feeling of relaxation/relief. That relief feels good...

pretty much exactly describes what I experienced, unfortunately on being informed by my partner that there was a lot more liquid / moisture than normal I immediately assumed I'd had some kind of accident / loss of control and freaked out quite spectacularly.

Interesting to read that there could be another explanation for it. I was particularly relaxed at the time and very turned on, so it doesn't seem impossible... definitely something to think about.

 

[Mr.G]

the PROPER smell/taste ??

I don't think one can ever answer that question. You are all individuals .... like asking what is the "proper" smell or taste for male ejaculate. There is no "proper" taste or smell.

But as I said, I was wondering what "proper" ejaculate smells like, so I can begin to tell if that's what I'm actually doing ....... which begs the question of whether the wetness is actually my ejaculate, in some form. It smells like...well, hard to describe, really, but pretty much my regular aroused vaginal smell, although maybe less strong.

For what it's worth I believe a woman "ejaculate" IS, for the most part, regular juices but in higher volumes so there is even less of a smell and the taste is definitely lighter. If the arousal times stretch on for several hours the build-up can be substantial. If she is encouraged to orgasms immediately (and keep going) there seems to be less of a buildup and her orgasms exhibit regular volumes of juice.

 

[alcwkat]

Use a generous amount of lubrication even if she is dripping wet.

From the-clitoris.com article. Most women are amenable to lube after they realize significant pressure results in maximum benefit, and their ejaculate washes off much of what they produce. What I haven't seen a lot of discussion about (neophyte here) is what are optimal lubes? Grapeseed is great but thin (& wonderful for massage also), but I've had best results w/ thicker oil-based. Silicone's on my list, but not tried yet. And I'd like to have some Slick Kitty just for the label! What has been y'all's experiences?

PS: For any who are still skeerd of oils, here's Brauer's take on it:

http://www.sexualecstasy.org/facts-myths.php

Just avoid condoms & (excessive) consumption!

 

[KyBedroomEyes]

Squirting Help

I am fascinated by this and have been with a couple of girls that could do this! It is crazy!!!! Here are a couple of link that were helpful to me!

http://www.femaleejaculations.com/

http://www.femaleejaculation101.com/

Good luck ladies! Let me know how it goes!