squirting

[Freya]

Yeah like I said, I don't really know myself. I just found it difficult t believe that I would be peeing and he'd feel it on his cock, since technically the urethra is outside the range of his cock at the time. I mean if it were on his balls, or legs etc then I might tend to go along with what you are saying...but I just can't see it from a logical point of view.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Laine, I know the difference between urninating and ejaculating, thank you. In fact, I also know, which you apparently don't, that semen is only ejaculated from a penis. Seeing as I don't have one of those, I highly doubt that that is what I am squirting. How do you know what these other women are experiencing anyway? Perhaps some of them are experiencing what I do. I said before, and I'll say it again. In addition to squirting from the urethra, I also ejaculate. Without getting too graphic, it's not only my opinion that ONE of the fluids I'm squirting is urine. It isn't hard to imagine that if you let go of all inhibitions and just go with it, that you may squirt some urine. It's also not hard to imagine that as he enters and exits that he'd feel it on his penis, esp. if you are 'ejaculating' as well. The best advice I can give you guys is experiment with your own body in order to figure out what you like and what you don't like, and take it from there. All I can say is that it sends me through the roof so I really don't care what it is.

 

[Freya]

But what you aren't getting I think is that it's not as he enters and exits...he is deep inside at the time...so there is no logical way it could be urine. Plus being as urine is typically yellowish and what I've heard described as female ejaculate is creamy whitish, there is a noticeable difference.

I do however get what you say about being relaxed and the possibility of urinating during that time...I just don't think it's what's happening in a lot of these cases.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Well sheesh, noone specified that he feels it deep inside. Now that doesn't make sense to me either. However, like I said, I ejaculate too, so if I'm cumming so hard that I pee, it only makes sense (to me at least) that I would also be producing a significant amount of cum, which must be what he's feeling deep inside. I have experienced both substances while cumming, I just misunderstood what y'all were getting at; sorry. My advice still stands though, get to know your body by masturbating!!

 

[Freya]

Well sheesh, noone specified that he feels it deep inside. Now that doesn't make sense to me either. However, like I said, I ejaculate too, so if I'm cumming so hard that I pee, it only makes sense (to me at least) that I would also be producing a significant amount of cum, which must be what he's feeling deep inside. I have experienced both substances while cumming, I just misunderstood what y'all were getting at; sorry. My advice still stands though, get to know your body by masturbating!!

I think actually that's the best advice on here so far....only you can determine what your body is capable of and how exactly it responds to certain stimuli...allowing you to be free to share that with partners.

 

[wolf2002]

I posted something about this subject a couple of months ago. I translated some info I found on a Dutch website. Some of the things have already been discussed on this thread but maybe it will help. Here it is:

"First condition is that the lady in question is very aroused, maybe has had an orgasm already and is very at her ease. Squirting can be triggered by stimulating the g-spot, so the lady's partner better concentrate on that. Slide one or two fingers in her pussy, the palm of the hand upwards and go for the 'spongy' little place which is the g-spot. Stimulating it will make it swell. It is usually less sensitive than the clitoris so you can use some pressure. The best is to rub the g-spot with your fingers as in a 'come here' movement. Ask the lady in question what she likes best and rub faster/slower/harder/softer if necessary.
At a certain moment she might feel as if she has to pee. Don't hold back at that moment, you really won't pee when reaching an orgasm. Continue fingering, arousing her, stimulate her nipples and clit, do whatever makes her very hot... When she starts cumming tell her to PUSH your fingers out of her pussy. Then let her relax. Once more let her push again really hard, but keep on fingering her with the 'come her' movement... Let her push and relax -- push and relax -- and repeat this till she starts to cum.
When she's relaxed enough and pushes again while cumming she might just squirt her juices out. TADDAA! Don't be embarassed, it's definitely not pee, it really are cum juices."

Good luck with it. If it doesn;t work, never mind, you still had good sex. If it does: good for you! A squirting lady is the best thing I know... and in my experience it doesn't smell, taste or look like urine.

 

[maudadib]

thanks wolf2002,
that is the kind of advice i am looking for. it would seem my original ? generated a debate i wasnt expecting, namely is it cum or is it pee. frankly i dont care whether it is cum or pee, what interests me is the pleasure my woman recieves. i want her to experience the most intense orgasms she can have. you advice is invaluable in this respect. if you have any other advice or anybody has any practical advice keep it comeing folks. may i remind folks we can reach gspot orgasm but the squirting eludes us. we have managed to attain gspot orgasm on numerous occasions. again thanks to all who have participated. my eye is on the prize.

 

[dreamer]

I've experienced this up close and first hand and let me tell you it's not pee. Not for all women anyhow. There was NO pee taste or smell associated and I've licked and swallowed plenty.

I agree that instead of a clinching of the muscles when coming it's pushing. This feels amazing when having sex and is very obvious when using fingers as well.

It is an incredibly erotic sensation being flooded with warm wetness and I got really into triggering this response during oral sex...using fingers as well. BUT, I agree with Freya, this cannot be FORCED. It's all about relaxation and going with the feelings.

Then again, isn't that what all sex is anyhow? Does the orgasm count really matter? Isn't it about the sensations and pleasure during?

 

[Native Alien]

just my opinion

As a female, I know that the few times that I have done this, it was caused by repeated g-spot orgasms. Once you completely relax and get thru the first orgasms the following ones seem to trigger the squirting.

In my case, it most definitely is not urine. The man that I was with at the time was most definitely pleased with what happened and so was I.

dreamer, i agree with you that the number of orgasms isn't the thing that it is the degree of pleasure that counts.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Alrighty then, this was really bothering me, so I did something about it. Last night I did some research. I got out my toys and put them to work. You are right, it is not urine at all. I was mistaken. Yes, you should somewhat push as opposed to clenching up. Oh, and regarding the feeling of wet warmth that he feels while deep inside her; I asked my vibe what it felt, but I got no response whatsoever, just a soft buzzzzzzzzzz

 

[dreamer]

HAhaha thanks for the research.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Hey, no problem dreamer. After all, I'm here to help

 

[Freya]

Alrighty then, this was really bothering me, so I did something about it. Last night I did some research. I got out my toys and put them to work. You are right, it is not urine at all. I was mistaken. Yes, you should somewhat push as opposed to clenching up. Oh, and regarding the feeling of wet warmth that he feels while deep inside her; I asked my vibe what it felt, but I got no response whatsoever, just a soft buzzzzzzzzzz

LMAO! Well nice that yours don't speak to you...mine seem to be yelling "Get away from me woman, you are insane!" lately.

 

[yuppietowngirl]

OMG I had this happen to me last week. I was so embarrassed since I thought I had peed on him. I stopped and wouldn't continue after this since it was the first time it had ever happened. I must admit that after he left the room...I looked at the spot...and it didn't smell of urine. So it couldn't have been urine. But I was so confused that I didn't say a thing to anyone. All I remember was seeing this gush of fluid...and I didn't even feel it. That was the weird thing. I had heard of women that squirted but thought that they must know when it was happening. I was on top when this happened.

I am still confused.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

YuppieTownGirl, you're in good company. We're all confused, some more then others (me), but we're all confused. I repeat; grab your toys and put them to work!!!

 

[yuppietowngirl]

YuppieTownGirl, you're in good company. We're all confused, some more then others (me), but we're all confused. I repeat; grab your toys and put them to work!!!

LOL he didn't seem fussed about this...but I was mortified. I didn't hear from him for a few days...so I thought that he was upset with me. I didn't even want to bring up the subject. And he never said anything...so I guess...it might have been ok.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

I have never heard of either a man or a woman feeling anything but excitement about his/her female partner squirting. So, if they like it, offer them seconds thirds?

 

[yuppietowngirl]

I have never heard of either a man or a woman feeling anything but excitement about his/her female partner squirting. So, if they like it, offer them seconds thirds?

hehehe I was just shocked. Since until him...I had never enjoyed it as much...he is the one that is teaching me to just enjoy and let go.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

You should let go and enjoy it, he would.

 

[dreamer]

OMG I had this happen to me last week. I was so embarrassed since I thought I had peed on him. I stopped and wouldn't continue after this since it was the first time it had ever happened. I must admit that after he left the room...I looked at the spot...and it didn't smell of urine. So it couldn't have been urine. But I was so confused that I didn't say a thing to anyone. All I remember was seeing this gush of fluid...and I didn't even feel it. That was the weird thing. I had heard of women that squirted but thought that they must know when it was happening. I was on top when this happened.

I am still confused.

You are describing one of my fondest sexual memories...don't be worried. Have fun and enjoy this added facet to your relationship.

Enjoy.

 

[foosballfan]

write me...

I have a great artical on female ejaculation. PM me and i'll get it to you. It's long but interesting..

 

[yuppietowngirl]

You are describing one of my fondest sexual memories...don't be worried. Have fun and enjoy this added facet to your relationship.

Enjoy.

I only wished that I hadn't freaked out I never expected it to happen to me...this is the sort of thing that happens to others but not me. hehe but it did

 

[Naughty n Nice]

It did, and you should consider yourself lucky. So shake off the embarrassment and get back on the proverbial horse!!

 

[yuppietowngirl]

It did, and you should consider yourself lucky. So shake off the embarrassment and get back on the proverbial horse!!

woo hoo...it will be tomorrow and if I have my way...the next day also *s*

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Go get 'em Tiger!!! lol Bengal Tiger