squirting but no gspot orgasm?

[SilentSometimes]

Mate I can relate.

I actually get anxiety sometimes when I’m close to coming and I’m scared the guy is going to change it up! Then that’s effectively me ruining my own orgasm. It’s like the anxiety of being in the cinema with someone who is talking loudly….even when they’ve stopped talking I’m waiting for them

Im sure lots of men would be absolutely eager to take that class

Haha well that’s also why one night stands are so hard for women. We’re not all built the same and so unless you wind up with someone who is willing to ask questions and pay attention: the orgasms will be lost.

I think a lot about LGBTQ sex where they need to discuss their wants and needs before the sex starts because it’s not as obvious what people’s preferences are. Straight couples are missing out on that and it takes time.

And in my case: when you say “I’d like to know how to squirt” and a guy thinks he knows how because his last girlfriend did, you might end up like me thinking it’s impossible or painful instead of maybe he has the wrong technique or the two of you need to find the sweet spot. Or MAYBE you’re orgasms and squirts are separate!

 

[Milliemackle]

Haha well that’s also why one night stands are so hard for women. We’re not all built the same and so unless you wind up with someone who is willing to ask questions and pay attention: the orgasms will be lost.

I think a lot about LGBTQ sex where they need to discuss their wants and needs before the sex starts because it’s not as obvious what people’s preferences are. Straight couples are missing out on that and it takes time.

And in my case: when you say “I’d like to know how to squirt” and a guy thinks he knows how because his last girlfriend did, you might end up like me thinking it’s impossible or painful instead of maybe he has the wrong technique or the two of you need to find the sweet spot. Or MAYBE you’re orgasms and squirts are separate!

Absolutely. I’ve had very few one night stands precisely because I’ve rarely enjoyed sex with someone right from the bat. It’s a process, a work in progress.

The best lovers I’ve had have had the same traits outside of the bedroom as they have within it: patient, generous, methodical, tenacious and a desire to really understand a woman.

 

[SilentSometimes]

I’ve come hardest when fucking or when being stroked off and sucked. Not being in control and all that anticipation is very very hot for me.

When we are talking about “squirting orgasms” we mean by women, not men. Sorry if there was any confusion but the OP is asking women on tips for female squirting orgasms.

 

[Kittenheels54]

For me it’s not like a clitoral orgasm…it’s a different sensation all together. Sometimes I can feel it & sometimes just the squirting happens.

 

[SilentSometimes]

For me it’s not like a clitoral orgasm…it’s a different sensation all together. Sometimes I can feel it & sometimes just the squirting happens.

But is it a sensation that you can explain? Like is it similar to an orgasm feel through your body? Or is it isolated to your pussy? Is it pleasant or painful or both? And how do you reach it? Through sex? Masturbation? Special toys? Do you need to be well hydrated in order for you to feel it come out?

More info, please!

 

[WetSubGirl]

Ma

Maybe that’s what is missing: I should be trying to align my clitoral stimulation and gspot at the same time?
I’ll try it!

You may explore how it works for you, if you first get yourself nicely aroused, then you pussy plump and really sensitive, when you're ready- explore with fingers gently, what feels good. You may add clitoral stimulation from time to time, check out both coupled and one by one, sequentially.

 

[Hugo_Agogo_UK]

When we are talking about “squirting orgasms” we mean by women, not men. Sorry if there was any confusion but the OP is asking women on tips for female squirting orgasms.

Thank you. Sorry. I’ll get my coat.

 

[SilentSometimes]

You may explore how it works for you, if you first get yourself nicely aroused, then you pussy plump and really sensitive, when you're ready- explore with fingers gently, what feels good. You may add clitoral stimulation from time to time, check out both coupled and one by one, sequentially.

I appreciate the recommendation but for reasons I won’t get into: that’s not how I masturbate (finger fucking myself).

That’s why I’m looking for information on how *others* are able to reach it. I know what the internet recommends, read the articles and watched the videos and I’ve only been able to get there with 1 partner. I also know there are many other ways to get there. I want to know what’s working for people who have personally experienced it. And if you feel it AS an orgasm or as some separate feeling, like I did.

 

[Newreality]

Absolutely. I’ve had very few one night stands precisely because I’ve rarely enjoyed sex with someone right from the bat. It’s a process, a work in progress.

The best lovers I’ve had have had the same traits outside of the bedroom as they have within it: patient, generous, methodical, tenacious and a desire to really understand a woman.

 

[Kittenheels54]

But is it a sensation that you can explain? Like is it similar to an orgasm feel through your body? Or is it isolated to your pussy? Is it pleasant or painful or both? And how do you reach it? Through sex? Masturbation? Special toys? Do you need to be well hydrated in order for you to feel it come out?

More info, please!

For me it’s like muscle spasm contained in my pussy. It’s not painful at all. It gives you the sensation of needing to pee but just keep going. My husband uses his fingers to press on & use a “come here” motion on the g spot. It feels kinda spongy & is about 2 inches inside & upwards. You can put a pillow under your hips to help your position. It might take some time & practice but just keep trying. I don’t think being hydrated matters. It might not gush out or stream…it might dribble etc. don’t expect porn results! Relax, explore, & have patience. I’ve never done it with toys so I can’t speak to that. Good luck!

 

[NightBirdNYC]

I went through this too. Was very rare I squirted when I was young, though much more now in in my mid-40s. Not all of the squirts are full orgasms, though I love the sensation and keeping going leads to an orgasm most times.

Absolute how it was for me when I would masturbate during my teens. Dribbles at first, and over the years it has often been arcs across the room, soaking items I has no intention of damaging, to include a few paintings, cameras and other electronics! But goodness it feels so delicious to just let go, and my orgasms have been more intense as the years (dare I say decades?) have gone by!

https://vlix.io/video/2c5fb481a7a99b0da7fa/

 

[stormyrosey]

I need people (specifically people with vaginas who can and have squirted) to weigh in here because I was with someone who was able to make me squirt for the first time in my life. And not just a little bit: it was significant!

However, when we talked about it, he kept referring to it as an orgasm and it didn’t feel like one.

For me, it’s a separate feeling. Orgasms for me are much more powerful and pleasurable and mind numbing and toe curling. Even though I was able to juice a good amount, it felt… different. Not bad but not great, just different.

I’m not going to be able to describe it well because it only happened a couple of times, but do any women know what I’m talking about?

When you squirt is it ALWAYS as an orgasm? Or is this something different for you?

So for me a squirt isnt always the same as a regar orgasm but sometimes yes I dont really know how to describe it. Also I make myself squirt more than men do for me. And if im doing anything on cam I think the thrill of watching me gets so strong I explode even more im sure that wasn't helpful at all.

 

[DynamicFigure]

I was seeing this woman a while back. She would squirt periodically.

One night, she was on top and squirted when she came. She left the pool of juice on my stomach and in my belly button.

I commented that there was so much juice that you could skip rocks across it. We laughed our asses off. Good times.