spit or swallow

[Blip]

All of it...

I know I'm probably one of the "weird" ones around, coz I don't know anyone else (at this point in time) with my tastes (I have run into a rare few at times though)... I love getting sucked dry, gladly kiss her or him and taste or eat my own cum. I'll go down on a guy, as long as I know his cum tastes good, and I've met one or two that definitely _didn't_, and the same goes for any woman... if I don't like the taste, I'll be heading up in no time...
I've had the taste of rotten asparragus flood my mouth once, and I didn't get near his dick again with my mouth... I sure as hell have no intention of repeating that.
And there's few things better than tasting my own cum in a woman's pussy mixed with her own juices... I'll suck it clean and beyond till she begs me to stop or my tongue gets cramped...

And my penny of wisdom: Try it. No matter what, just DO it. If you don't like it, don't do it again. If you do, just think of all the extra fun! I've done quite a lot of things, and of them all, only one I didn't like: being submissive, but the 3 times I did that were well worth the hundreds of new things I've tried and greatly enjoyed.
When push comes to shove I prefer women greatly, and so I've never been alone with a guy... but I just enjoy women too much for that to happen.
There's only 3 things taboo in my book, and those are kids, animals and the involvement of things that belong in the toilet-bowl and flushed asap.

And, just to keep it clear and simple:
Me: Men: Swallow. All the way. Women: _Anything_ at all... preferably everything, all at once and all day long.
Her/him: Swallow or come on them, but don't waste a wonderful load of cum by spitting it out... give it to me if you're gonna throw it away.

Just in case any of you still had any doubts, yeah, I'm a guy.
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Drugs ain't the only good thing in Holland...

 

[slipperywetnsc]

Just plain ol' southern etiquette...A lady NEVER spits!!

As a true southern lady, I would not even consider spitting. I love everything about oral sex including the taste of my cum as I lick it off his face. Yum!

 

[Guest]

The alphabet works every time! Any one for English class. lol

 

[genie-in-a-bott]

On Spit or Swallow

I'm a guy- I love it when she swallows, unfortunately that doesn’t happen often. The reason I'd rather she swallow is this:

Fact- a man's orgasm lasts 3-4 squirts
Fact- the pleasure, for a man, on climax, is maximised by the depth of his thrust (scientific, it's an uncontrollable primal urge- he has to be as deep inside the vagina as possible, in order to enhance chances of fertilization of the egg)

Extras- as a man comes, if she's a swallower, she's bound to be sucking- the harder she sucks, at that very moment that he swallows, it lengthens his pleasure time.

If she spits out, chances are she withdraws the phallus as soon as she feels the penile muscles jerk, a split second before ejaculation- MAJOR PUT OFF! Imagine you pulling him out, during sexual intercourse, as he is climaxing (get the drift)

So the spit or swallow subject, to me, isn’t about power or any romanticism.
genie-in-a-bottle@magicmail.co.za

 

[ausqldbris]

While I found genie's scientific analysis of swallowing both fascinating and perfectly logical, I think that the psychology may be a little more powerful. There is nothing quite like looking down at a beautiful woman, brushing her silky hair aside, seeing your cock deep in her mouth, knowing that she is about to swallow your cum. Let's face it, life is, on the whole, fairly mundane. These are the kind of moments we all live for, the moments when we know that despite all the crap we put up with every day, despite all the hassles of life, a woman can do such a personal, pleasurable thing for us and the world is a beautiful place, at least for a few moments.

Well, that's my two cents worth anyway.

 

[slipperywetnsc]

While I found genie's scientific analysis of swallowing both fascinating and perfectly logical, I think that the psychology may be a little more powerful. There is nothing quite like looking down at a beautiful woman, brushing her silky hair aside, seeing your cock deep in her mouth, knowing that she is about to swallow your cum. Let's face it, life is, on the whole, fairly mundane. These are the kind of moments we all live for, the moments when we know that despite all the crap we put up with every day, despite all the hassles of life, a woman can do such a personal, pleasurable thing for us and the world is a beautiful place, at least for a few moments.

Well, that's my two cents worth anyway.

Ooooo. ausqldbris... the psychology works both ways...
Knowing that I have the power to transform a mundane life for a few moments by doing something so simple makes swallowing that much more erotic for me. yum!

 

[ausqldbris]

I would imagine, slippery, that the experience for you may be something like I feel as I lick and taste a woman's pussy. It is an amazing feeling to know that those moans and groans of pleasure, the squirming and grinding of hips, the wetness and heat, are caused by me.

Even better, when she gets wild and desperate and grabs my head, wanting more and more of my tongue and lips.

In fact, I'm curious to know. Do many women enjoy it when a man grabs their hair and (reasonably gently) enters your mouth more deeply? Does it add to the moment...or spoil it? Or does it just depend on the right time, place, person and mood?

 

[lovetoread]

In fact, I'm curious to know. Do many women enjoy it when a man grabs their hair and (reasonably gently) enters your mouth more deeply? Does it add to the moment...or spoil it? Or does it just depend on the right time, place, person and mood?

I think its a person to person thing. Personally grabbing my hair (not in any rough way) is a good thing for me. But I'd ask first. Its a bad spot to be in if she gets mad....

 

[slipperywetnsc]

I would imagine, slippery, that the experience for you may be something like I feel as I lick and taste a woman's pussy. It is an amazing feeling to know that those moans and groans of pleasure, the squirming and grinding of hips, the wetness and heat, are caused by me.

Even better, when she gets wild and desperate and grabs my head, wanting more and more of my tongue and lips.

In fact, I'm curious to know. Do many women enjoy it when a man grabs their hair and (reasonably gently) enters your mouth more deeply? Does it add to the moment...or spoil it? Or does it just depend on the right time, place, person and mood?

I don't know about other women, but for me, I get incredibly aroused when I see and feel the evidence that what I'm doing is having the desired effect on my lover. Like you, I want him to writhe, moan and groan, and become desperate for more. I love to feel him swell and throb in my mouth as he thrusts deeper with the approach of his orgasm.

 

[Guest]

I know for me. I love when a woman grabs my head or squeezes her thighs together while she has an orgasm. It certainly lets me know it's me she wants then and there, and I've done something wonderful for her. Especially if she screams "Eat me" at the same time. <grin>

 

[Nicodemus]

Bump

 

[Desertroot]

Spit or Swallow - The debate!

Well hello all,

I wanted to throw in my 2 cents about spitting and swallowing. I myself find it incredible sexy and a turn on when my ex's had swallowed. But in reality it doesn't matter to me if she spits or swallows, whatever makes her feel more comfortable and more at ease with me. Intimacy can take so many forms.

I have no problem kissing her afterwards. The way i figure it, it "came" from my body so its made up of me and well I like what I'm made of! LOL!

Well those are my 2 cents, i take refunds! Surrender to the flow!

Desertroot

 

[just4fun268]

Hey Jim, I feel for you man. I was married for 13 years to a woman I loved very much and like you had two children. To me though, the problem is not if she will swallow or even if she will give you a blowjob. The real problem is that she is unconcerned about your happiness. My ex was the same. While dating, I thought she was God's gift to me. After marriage, she let me know that sex of any kind was at her complete control and my input was extremely limited. Making love was something that happened only when and how she said. Jim, that is no relationship! It certainly is not a marriage. A marriage to me is giving to each other whatever it takes to make the other happy. Obviously this is within the boundary of respecting the other and not requesting somthing you know they are completely uncomfortable with. And yes Mystic, if that includes her wanting me to kiss her with her mouth full of my cum, then I would, and have. Different people have different needs, physically, emotionally, and sexually. To deprive the person you claim to love of any of these needs is abusive. Personally, I have been single now for over 10 years. I got divorced because it was either get a divorce or have an affair. You have to do what you have to do, but getting caught in an affair will cost you dearly. Be cool, do the right thing. If you are that unhappy, then leave. There are plenty of women out there who understand that to receive in a relationship, you also have to give.

Just call me older and wiser.

 

[LukkyKnight]

~nodding~

You're wiser, indeed. Well said.

 

[Carla Regon]

I am simply amazed. This is my first day here and the forum has the wildest subjects I have ever seen. I love it!!

Now - About swallowing ...... Have any of youever sat around the steam room of a gym and listened to the boob enhanced, my-shit-don't-stink, rich-men-only, it is NOT a face lift girls talk about their recent dates? The only thing they will swallow voluntarily is champagne, that is if you can convince them to put that Armani clad dude's cock in their mouths.

Then there are the rest of us ordinary gals who learned long ago that fancy fucking and sucking is fun. For us swallowing is wonderful, besides that how about the half swallow followed by kissing him deeply and letting your tongues entwine with his cum.

I love this web site!!

 

[xzchief]

I am simply amazed. This is my first day here and the forum has the wildest subjects I have ever seen. I love it!!

I love this web site!!

Welcome, Carla! Nice to have you here.

 

[Jimbosis]

Thanks just4fun

I appreciate the advise. Here is the deal though. She is concerned about my happiness most of time. We have a great relationship except for in bed. I do things that she wants me to do that I dont want to do, and I am sure she feels the same way about some of the things I want her to do outside of sex. Its when it come to sex that she wont open up. She never turns me down for sex, she just doesnt do anything extra. She is so fucking vanilla. Sometimes I just want a wild and nasty whore.... I have asked her and she says she just cant do it. I just dont think I can leave her and essentially leave my children. Besides, a divorce would cost us both dearly financially. I think maybe I am better off looking for my relief outside of the house. I have been thinking about it for quite awhile now, and I think it will make me happier, which should in turn be better for us both. I certainly dont plan on letting her know this though. I dont want to hurt her. I just wish I had someone like Carla. Its nice to know that there are women out there like you.

Hey Jim, I feel for you man. I was married for 13 years to a woman I loved very much and like you had two children. To me though, the problem is not if she will swallow or even if she will give you a blowjob. The real problem is that she is unconcerned about your happiness. My ex was the same. While dating, I thought she was God's gift to me. After marriage, she let me know that sex of any kind was at her complete control and my input was extremely limited. Making love was something that happened only when and how she said. Jim, that is no relationship! It certainly is not a marriage. A marriage to me is giving to each other whatever it takes to make the other happy. Obviously this is within the boundary of respecting the other and not requesting somthing you know they are completely uncomfortable with. And yes Mystic, if that includes her wanting me to kiss her with her mouth full of my cum, then I would, and have. Different people have different needs, physically, emotionally, and sexually. To deprive the person you claim to love of any of these needs is abusive. Personally, I have been single now for over 10 years. I got divorced because it was either get a divorce or have an affair. You have to do what you have to do, but getting caught in an affair will cost you dearly. Be cool, do the right thing. If you are that unhappy, then leave. There are plenty of women out there who understand that to receive in a relationship, you also have to give.

Just call me older and wiser.

 

[HotnMature]

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In fact, I'm curious to know. Do many women enjoy it when a man grabs their hair and (reasonably gently) enters your mouth more deeply? Does it add to the moment...or spoil it? Or does it just depend on the right time, place, person and mood?

Oh my yes, and there are times when I like being a slut and it gets a tad forceful, I would say it adds tremendously to the moment

 

[HotnMature]

Oh my yes, and there are times when I like being a slut and it gets a tad forceful, I would say it adds tremendously to the moment

Let me also add to this, there are also times when I like my hair/head pulled off his cock and he teases me, not letting me get my mouth around it and have cum shot all over my face

 

[Jimbosis]

OK OK OK

HotnMature is my favorite now.......

 

[Shdwpro]

Carla takes the cake!

Carla, you are my hero! LOL!

That is one of the first times I have heard someone say it like it is when it comes to the "Pedestal Pieces"vs. the REAL women.

I salute you and thank the heavens above there are women like you out there to make us men appreciate reality.

 

[softballcutie]

Swallow

I love to swallow...... nothing tastes better or feels better than that

 

[just4fun268]

Hey Jim. I understand. I did the country club thing. 3 or 4 vacations a year. When I got home from them, believe me, I didn't feel relaxed. Personally, I sucked it up, got a divorce, quit the club, sold the house, stocks, land, etc., go on two vacations a year now instead of 4, and am loving life. I won't retire at 50, but I will die knowing I had a good time. Personally, no regrets. By the way, my informal poll would strongly suggest that more women swallow than not. Wasn't a scientific study mind you, I just have a good memory.

Later

 

[just4fun268]

Hi Carla,

I agree with you 100%. The my shit don't stink women are pretty bad all the way around in bed. I'll take a drink a little, smoke a little, woman any time. Guess they don't feel the need to pretend there is something dirty about sex. Go for it girl.

Later

 

[zeke]

well to all the fellas that don't get blow jobs I am soooooooo sorry been there. My x wife was the same way. Now those gents that don't eat their women out have you lost your damn mind!!! There is nothing better than haveing your head between her legs and giving her pleasure at its finest not to mention the thrill it gives you. Now for the ladies that don't go down do you not realize the control that you can have over your man at that point? We are guys and mostly we are simple beings, give us sex cars and a few other minor things and we will do almost anything to keep our lady happy. If you don't feel like doing all of it a simple BJ will shut us up and keep us out of your way for atleast alittle while. Now for the final part spit or swallow? The geat debate continues so here is my 2 cents. Spitting well it can be the most anti-climatic experence that I have ever had needless to say that girl and I didn't stay together for long after that. Swallowing all I can say is O MY GOD the entire body goes numb and your eyes rol back into your skull and there is no better feeling! Ladies that like facials like you for being in the world. That ladies and gents is my story and i am sticking to it.