spit or swallow

[lovetoread]

I think two men together is highly erotic.

Cassidy

Oh yea, I like that particular fantasy too, but I have been unable to convince HIM of that.

 

[Jimbosis]

Anyone read any stories on this topic. Maybe I can show her one and she will get the picture. And youre absolutely right juicylips, when I am in the middle of having great sex I will do almost anything. Well, I cant even think of anything I wouldnt do to tell you the truth. The throes of passion can make you awfully crazy. lol

 

[SexyChele]

And for those of you who think it's disgusting and your mate bugs and bugs you to swallow after he cums in your mouth, tell him that you will as long as he'll kiss you right after he cums, and that he has to take half of his own cum in his mouth and you two can swallow it together! (Betcha he doesn't bug you again for awhile after that suggestion! *laugh*)

~~ XOXO Mystic XOXO ~~

Actually, I've found most men are willing to do this - provided it is their semen and not another man's. (But I can't fault a man for that) I think if women make this a condition, they may be a little shocked to discover their men saying, "Hell, yeah, let's go for it!" Careful what you ask for ~

Originally posted by Jimbosis
This freak is what gives guys a bad name. Please dont put me in his category.

Nothing you have said so far would lead me to put you in the same category as the sick individual you are referring to. The man is ill. He needs to be taking his meds instead of giving them to his wife. And he is, thankfully, not the normative male!

 

[Jimbosis]

This reminds me of that movie "Clerks". Some girl in the movie talks about a guy liking "snowjobs". When she gave him head and then lets it dribble out back into his mouth. If I remember correctly my wife went ewwwww at that. Too bad, I guess.

 

[1HotNurse]

One can always hope, Jimbo

 

[MysticSwing]

Jimbosis, no worries, I don't think anyone here would put you in the same category as SDBipolar... The man has problems and what he added to your thread had nothing to do with your original posting... He's been forgotten...

Now, back to the swallow topic... I agree that there are probably more men out there that are willing to taste their own cum than we know about or that will admit that they would do it....

I'm one of them women that can say I'm pretty lucky to have a pretty open minded husband... But, when we first got married almost 10 years ago he would have NEVER kissed me after he came in my mouth... I think that was more because he worried about what I would think of him... And he definitely wouldn't admit to his friends that he'd taste his own cum back then either... He's grown alot, and become much more secure in his sexuality and and we've grown alot TOGETHER, so I'm lucky to be able to say that nothing much is "taboo" between him and I.... (And his fears of what "The guys" might think of him has changed alot too... Now he really don't give a shit what they think, as long as he's having fun! *grin*)

~~ Mystic

 

[LukkyKnight]

Swallow... I need the protein. The question is (to the males) are you willing to receive it in your mouth via my mouth?

Absolutely. What else could possibly be reasonable? How could you wait for your partner to go brush her teeth and gargle before wanting to kiss her anyway? I don't like a break between oral and kissing for EITHER partner... lacks intimacy, kills the mood, and says funny things about what's good for the goose vs. what's good for the gander.

 

[juicylips]

I don't like a break between oral and kissing for EITHER partner... lacks intimacy, kills the mood, and says funny things about what's good for the goose vs. what's good for the gander.

You have brought up an excellent point about EITHER partner kissing after oral sex. Some of my friends do not like to kiss their husbands after they have been tongued fucked, licked, etc.
They are offended by their own smell.

Not a problem for me. To smell myself on his face is a fantastic turn on. The exchange of smells & fluids is one of the best parts of sex.

Cassidy

 

[MysticSwing]

I have no problems with kissing my partner after he goes down on me... (Or performing oral sex on him after we've had sex...) One thing my husband and I love doing is mutual masturbation... Setting across from each other and watching.... He loves it when I taste myself off of my own fingers, (And I must admit, I love it too! *grin*) Not only does he tell me how much it turns him onwhen I taste myself, but I can SEE how much it turns him on everytime his dick jumps when I do it! *grin*

~~ Mystic

 

[PowerOfOne]

Spit or Swallow

I think I confused some by saying I swallow and then alluding to the transfer of semen mouth to mouth. I do not mean kissing. I like to hold the semen in my mouth and swap it into my lover's mouth. I have had some men to come (pardon the pun) unglued and refused. They also looked at me in shock. Needless to say, these are ex-lovers.

 

[Jimbosis]

WOW !!! You midwestern ladies are "HOT & Oh So Nasty". It really turns me on. If I had you incredible women for partners in my sex life I would be in heaven. I would love to watch my wife masturbate and do it in front of her as well, but she wont get into that either. But I am off on a tangent, one that I am going to be fantazing a lot about thats for sure.

Anyway, back to the "Spit or Swallow", Most guys that I talk to would say they never kiss their wives after a bj. But friends that I am really close with, and we talk about this kind of shit, we all do it. And I for one would love to have my wife do something really nasty like swap sex juices with me. I would love to get my face really wet with her juices and do it to her too. But I know she would probably freak, given past experiences.

 

[SexyChele]

Now, now Jimbo - don't be discounting the ladies on the East or West Coasts, just because they don't post as much. Granted, I was born in the midwest - but I'm a Californian all the way.

And, yes, I absolutely LOVE to swallow ~

 

[juicylips]

Dumb Question...

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And I for one would love to have my wife do something really nasty like swap sex juices with me. I would love to get my face really wet with her juices and do it to her too. But I know she would probably freak, given past experiences. [/B]

Have you ever talked to your wife about these desires? Does she know how you feel??

Maybe there is a chance that you could coax her into trying something a little at a time...I know sometimes it is hard to express these desires in person, but maybe it might help.

Cassidy

 

[Paradox]

I've kissed after and licked after. Doesn't bother me.

 

[kittycathunter]

Happy to share

I would have no problem sharing my cum with my lover. I have never shied away from kissing her after cuming in her mouth and she doesn't object to kissing me when my beard is full of her nectur. I think the comment about some men fearing thougts of being gay is right on and causes them to miss out on truely giving into their passions. I find few things to be objectional when they are shared by willing partners engaged in passionate activities.

 

[shmily]

I love to swallow. I agree I won't put it in my mouth if I don't care about him. my current love enjoys I would wake him up every morning that way but he won't let me I enjoy starting the day with a little cum for breakfast.

 

[MysticSwing]

Re: Happy to share

I think the comment about some men fearing thougts of being gay is right on and causes them to miss out on truely giving into their passions.

After I said that yesterday about men maybe fearing they were "gay", there seemed to alot of people who disagreed with me... In my experience, I noticed that most the men who say "No way! I would NEVER kiss her after I came in her mouth!" Are also a bit on the homo-phobic side... EX: 2 male friends of my husbands and mine, complete opposites, "R" is very open minded, "J" is very closed minded... Both of them are straight, married men... "R" and my husband both have admitted to knowing what their own cum tastes like and "J" swears he'd commit suicide before his own cum gets anywhere near his mouth! My husband and I hang out at an alternative gay owned and operated night club... We've taken both of these friends with us before... When "R" gets hit on by another guy at the bar he finds it to be a compliment and just simply tells the man "no thanks, I'm straight"... If "J" gets hit on he's ready to kick the guys ass...

I think if someone is secure in their own sexuality, then they're more open to try new things... I personally believe that being secure with yourself and being open to new and different things is what makes a couples relationship stronger and their sex life even better! (And being 100% comfortable around and with your sex partner doesn't hurt either... *smile*)

Sorry for the long post... (I have to watch myself, I can go on and on sometimes! *laugh*)

~~ Mystic

 

[Guest]

The whole "men don't want to be thought of as gay" thing I think is some what true, for some.

I am sure some men just don't like the taste, just as some women don't like their own taste or smell.

Personally I enjoy both. I have no problem tasting myself on a womans lips or even tasting my cum on her tongue. I find it very arousing. As for her tasting herself on me the same applies, both are a turn on. Once I am with some one and sharing myself I think we should both be able to explore all of our fantasies and desires together.

Oh, one other thing. A few women on her have refered to the quicky blow job or enjoying waking their partner up with a morning blow job. Just thought I would let you know that their are men out their that enjoy returning the favor. Nothin' like a good morning orgasm to send her to work happy.

sorry this post ran long. I was really busy yesterday and did not get to keep up with it.

 

[Nicodemus]

great, then I also forget to log in.

 

[celiaKitten]

To each his own..

I always say. But as for me....

As I've said before on various BJ related threads, I have a total oral fixation and love the down-n-dirty parts of it, as well as the romantic sweeter aspects to it. To me, jumping up after he cums in your mouth to hack it up just ruins the mood ... and the imtimacy. For me, the taste of cum was life beer or wine - totally an aquired taste! So, give it some time eh? It's really very addicting to me now

(how's that for an answer dear??)

 

[MysticSwing]

I do agree that cum can be an acquired taste... (One that I've grown accustomed to, and quite fond of, I guess. *grin*)

But, I also think that one must be willing to try it before the "Ewwwe's!", "Icks!" and "Yucks!" should leave their lips.

~~ Mystic

 

[kotori]

Swallow?

My wife and I always thought of the "swallow" being a much better alternative to the "stork." Oral sex (as an alternative to coitus) is the perfect birth control--it just takes some major self-control not to switch positions.
As to tasting each other, we both love it. I heard the practice of passing cum from one mouth to another as "snowballing;" anyone else heard that term?

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

COuld swallow lover 24-7 if he allowed me!

But since I don't have a bf or a husband, works for me agree's with fixx if i don't like the guy i don't go down on him plain and simple!

 

[Nicodemus]

Yep, that sounds about right . I have heard it refered to as snowballing and beleive that is how it was refered to in the movie Clerks, as someone mentioned earlier.

 

[Coven911]

Some of us will...

1HotNurse,
I kinda like that question "would any of you men out there swallow?" *laugh*.... Hell, most men won't even kiss a woman after they came in her mouth! (I guess they think if they get their own cum on their lips that they might actually like the taste and it'll make them gay or something! *laugh*)
(Snippage)
~~ XOXO Mystic XOXO ~~

Sweet Mystic, some of us WILL kiss our lover/gf/wife after she has taken our cum, and some of us will even eat them out after we have cum in them. *S*

So, there are a few of us who enjoy teasing and treating our lovers etc with tongue lashings! *S*