spit or swallow

[Nicodemus]

Just knowing that your out there and there may be others like you helps cuteone. As for the thought of not returning the favor all I can say is the men out there that won't are nuts. Not only is it fun and pleasurable it should be done if for no other reason than pleasing your partner.

I massage my wifes feet and back for her almost every night to help her fall asleep.....not because I always want to but because they hurt and it helps relax her. Reciprocation is the name of the game...besides doen't it say somewhere, something about doing onto others as you would have them do onto you. If that ain't an argument for recipricotive oral sex I don't know what is.

 

[juicylips]

Open wide..

Absolutely love to swallow.

The taste of cum is a huge turn on...

I like the texture and feel of it too, no kidding!!

The way is shoots out and fills my mouth...mmmm

Cassidy

 

[Jimbosis]

Well Nic, I guess you and I are just a couple of the unlucky ones. It sounds like you are thinking exactly the way I do, that if we do nice things for our wives, maybe they will want to do something that is pleasurable for us as well. Its too bad that the wives that are only giving and not receiving and the husbands that are only giving and not receiving didnt know beforehand.

And juicylips you just gave me a big hard-one... God I love women like you... I mean I wish I could love a woman like you ... I mean ... All this talk makes me crazy.

 

[lovetoread]

we do nice things for our wives, maybe they will want to do something that is pleasurable for us as well. Its too bad that the wives that are only giving and not receiving

I must take offense at this. Being a wife,I have no problem blowing my husband. Its not tit for tat in my relationship,just because he goes down on me,doesnt mean that I have to blow him and vise versa. But to be honest since we generally are doing it at the same time it becomes a non issue.

 

[Nicodemus]

Lovetoread,

First off with regards to your name....me too.......

I agree it should not be a tit for tat thing. It should be about sharing with your partner and exploring and being open to sharing the things you enjoy while allowing them to share the things they enjoy.

The problem for me is it has become almost a trial to enjoy this form of sexaul expression. To be completly honest the part that frustrates me the most is not her reluctance to go down on me but her refusal to let me go down on her. Cumming by only oral stimulation for me has been rare, but enjoying giving oral pleasure to the woman in my life has always been a favorite since I first discovered it.

And just in case you are giving me that doubtful look.....I have checked with previous partners and have been given nothing but praise in the area of oral sex(beleive me, if it had not been satisfactory it would have been stated). In fact my X went so far as to say that she lists that as one of the things she missed the most about our relationship.

 

[Jimbosis]

Well lovetoread, I dont know if you have been reading all the threads here, but if you had you would have noticed that myself, along with I am sure every other husband that is not getting oral sex, doesnt think that just because we eat our wives pussy we should get blow-jobs. Quite the contrary, we do so many nice things for our wives just to show them how much we love them. If one of things includes eating their pussy, well than even better for the woman. As you can see some men would like to give oral sex to their wife, but either their wife doesnt want them to or she does something to prevent this from happening. So as you can see this really isnt quite as superficial as you would like to make it out to be. But what the fuck do I know. Im still not getting head tonight.

 

[lovetoread]

Well lovetoread, I dont know if you have been reading all the threads here, but if you had you would have noticed that myself, along with I am sure every other husband that is not getting oral sex, doesnt think that just because we eat our wives pussy we should get blow-jobs. Quite the contrary, we do so many nice things for our wives just to show them how much we love them. If one of things includes eating their pussy, well than even better for the woman. As you can see some men would like to give oral sex to their wife, but either their wife doesnt want them to or she does something to prevent this from happening. So as you can see this really isnt quite as superficial as you would like to make it out to be. But what the fuck do I know. Im still not getting head tonight.

I didnt say you were wrong, just that I disagreed. Sorry about not the not getting head though. Have you honestly sat her down and talked about it? Slipped some erotica her way? Some women think that the taste, smell, etc is bad. Maybe if she reads some of these stories on here she will change her mind.

Besides you are posting on an adult board,expect someone not to agree with you, and dont take it as a personal attack.

 

[MysticSwing]

I LOVE oral sex!!! I love giving it almost as much as I love recieving it!! Sometimes I swallow, sometimes I don't... I'm all for it, but sometimes my partner loves pulling out just before he cums and shoots his load all over my tits.... He then sits back and watchs me rub his cum into my tits and then lick his sweetness off of my fingers... (I also have to agree with Foxxxyred, If I don't like him enough to swallow, I don't put his dick in my mouth... *grin*)
XOXO Mystic XOXO

 

[cuteone99]

Nicodemus & Jimbosis..

I guess it's a case of either you like it or you don't.. I'm sorry that it seems like in your wives case.. they don't. I look at giving head as a true art form.. to practice and be perfected. I give 120% of me when I do it.. for us it's a feeling of complete intimacy. Our problem is that we can't 69 very often because I find it distracting when I'm trying to blow him. I like to be able to give his cock my full attention.. now whether he's distracted is another story.. I try my hardest to distract him with a blow job whether we're driving down the road, he's talking to his boss on the phone or trying to watch the football game!

As for your being able to go down on her.. believe it or not.. I used to be the same way. I used to be so uptight about the whole thing that there was no way I could enjoy it. Then I found my fiance who taught me to lay back, RELAX and enjoy. The key for me was to be able to just relax and stop worrying about stupid things such as whether if he was truly enjoying it or feeling that he owed me, did I smell fresh enough, was I too wet, was it taking me too long to cum..

Thinking back on it, I was the poster child for uptight!! After much practice *grins* we've now got it down to a science and he can get me off in a matter of a couple minutes. . For me it was just a matter of someone reminding me to relax and enjoy to be able to let go of all the things that women have been taught that are supposed to be taboo. Maybe that's the place to start with your ladies.. just a thought!

 

[juicylips]

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And juicylips you just gave me a big hard-one... God I love women like you... I mean I wish I could love a woman like you ... I mean ... All this talk makes me crazy. [/B]

I really hope things work out for you.

As you can tell from all of these replies, everyone is different. Some things hold us back, while others set us free.

Sorry about the "big hard-one"..nahh...not really...

Cassidy

 

[SanDiegoBipolar]

My solution worked

My wife was one of those "now that were married, get your cock out of my mouth and I will fuck you on your birthday, maybe."
I am bipolar and am addicted to sex so that did not work but my sleeping pills did. My doctor gives me 1mg Clonazepam tablets to help sleep. I put three or four in her tea or wine but tea is better because you can mask it with loads of cream and sugar.
The first time she was so knocked out I fucked every hole and even shot a load in her mouth and face. I told her I was going to keep it up or she was going to take good care of my cock. She sucks it now and even lets me ass fuck he but she still gets knocked out and I have shared her with several friends. She will learn some day. If your in Southern California and are interested in meeting her and maybe even partying send me an email at sandiegobipolar@hotmail.com

 

[MysticSwing]

~~ HEY!! SanDiagoBipolar ~~

You are WAY TOO fucked up! Let me tell you, you would have done that to me one time and one time ONLY!! After that first time I'd of either called the cops and had you arrested for RAPE (Wife or not, rape is rape.) or I would have drugged you like you did me and beat your ass with a baseball bat while you slept and after I was done beating you I'd pack my bags and walk out on your ass with out ever looking back!
And THEN you say you let your friends have her too? You really are a sick fucker!! Yeah, you're right, she WILL learn some day... I suggest you aren't around when she does - you might be in some serious trouble!
Oh, and one more thing... Food for thought: Did you ever stop and think that maybe the reason she doesn't give you oral sex has something to do with YOU?? (I'm guessing by your post that you don't treat her too well.) I've been marrried almost 10 years and my husband loves when I give him head... He swears it was a talent I was born with.. *gloating* ..... BUT, he treats me with respect so pleasing him pleases me!
Anyways, I do appologize to everyone else for my "bitching" here... (That post just pissed me off... Sorry.)
XOXO Mystic XOXO

My Bio: http://literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=49592

 

[MysticSwing]

Another comment...

Hi all! I just got an email from SanDiegoBipolar... He told me he was a sex addict and there was nothing he or anyone else could do about it.... that he and his wife loved each other and he told me to chill out. I just want to add that in my opinion, if you love someone then you don't treat them this way. Sex addict or not, there are other things you can do besides drugging your wife and letting your friends fuck her!! (I feel sorry for her... Maybe she likes it?? Stranger things have happened, I guess. )

Enough of the negative... Lets get back to the topic, SPIT OR SWALLOW??? *grin*.

 

[lovetoread]

Re: Another comment...

Hi all! I just got an email from SanDiegoBipolar... He told me he was a sex addict and there was nothing he or anyone else could do about it.... that he and his wife loved each other and he told me to chill out. I just want to add that in my opinion, if you love someone then you don't treat them this way. Sex addict or not, there are other things you can do besides drugging your wife and letting your friends fuck her!! (I feel sorry for her... Maybe she likes it?? Stranger things have happened, I guess. )

Enough of the negative... Lets get back to the topic, SPIT OR SWALLOW??? *grin*.

I agree whole heartedly with ya,and I am a spitter...alas I prefer it to be shot at me rather than on me.

 

[HothouseFlower]

I love to swallow!

Why would anyone want to spit out something that tastes so good?

I enjoy sucking cock and the taste of my man's cum!

 

[Goldmoon800]

Bring it on!

I agree with most of the other women on this thread.

I mean I love to suck cock and I love to tease a guy with my lips and tongue to prolong his pleasure for as long as he can take it, but eventually the true reward is in seeing him fire off that love juice.

The feeling that it was my tongue and lips that could bring about such a result is so intoxicating that there is never a second thought as to whether to swallow or not.

Sometimes when I am really bad, I will suck him for a LONG time, bring him to the point of orgasm over and over and over and over and over again, and then when he can not take anymore, I stroke him until he shoots all over his belly and then I lick it all up!

Cum is so erotic that anyone who likes sex should like it.

Goldie

 

[SexyChele]

Re: My solution worked

My wife was one of those "now that were married, get your cock out of my mouth and I will fuck you on your birthday, maybe."
I am bipolar and am addicted to sex so that did not work but my sleeping pills did. My doctor gives me 1mg Clonazepam tablets to help sleep. I put three or four in her tea or wine but tea is better because you can mask it with loads of cream and sugar.
The first time she was so knocked out I fucked every hole and even shot a load in her mouth and face. I told her I was going to keep it up or she was going to take good care of my cock. She sucks it now and even lets me ass fuck he but she still gets knocked out and I have shared her with several friends. She will learn some day. If your in Southern California and are interested in meeting her and maybe even partying send me an email at sandiegobipolar@hotmail.com

Damn! All I can say is sometimes Lit gets some really sick puppies around here. And your wife stays married to you? Makes me wonder who is the one who is truly more ill.

But, then, the whole tone of this post tells me something isn't quite right.

Oh, and skip the PM - I already have a male friend who will take care of the response for me, and it won't be pleasant for you.

 

[1HotNurse]

Yeah, let's get back to spit and swallow...I don't swallow. Did it once and almost threw up...Would any of you men swallow? I don't think so. It's different when a woman cums, so you don't have to swallow.

 

[XRated]

Total agreement

Goldmoon800...I couldn't agree with you more

I can't even imagine going down on a guy and not finishing it off by swallowing...

 

[MysticSwing]

1HotNurse,
I kinda like that question "would any of you men out there swallow?" *laugh*.... Hell, most men won't even kiss a woman after they came in her mouth! (I guess they think if they get their own cum on their lips that they might actually like the taste and it'll make them gay or something! *laugh*)

I don't find swallowing "Gross" and like I said in a previous post, sometimes I do, sometimes I don't... It really all depends on the mood I'm in...

To each his own... And for those of you who think it's disgusting and your mate bugs and bugs you to swallow after he cums in your mouth, tell him that you will as long as he'll kiss you right after he cums, and that he has to take half of his own cum in his mouth and you two can swallow it together! (Betcha he doesn't bug you again for awhile after that suggestion! *laugh*)

~~ XOXO Mystic XOXO ~~

 

[1HotNurse]

lmao, mysticswing

 

[Jimbosis]

SDpolar is exactly what I didnt want people to think when I first made my post. I dont want a blowjob, or any sex for that matter, to be something forced on my wife. I want it to be something she does and enjoys for the pleasure of both of us. I am sure most men feel this way. The shit this guy does is wrong, I cant imagine his wife putting up with it. This freak is what gives guys a bad name. Please dont put me in his category. And dont worry, I am not taking anything written here personaly. I just dont want what I am saying being taken out of context.

And I will tell you another thing, if it meant getting a great blowjob I would be more than happy to swallow half of my load. Hell, I used to kiss her all the time after cumming in her mouth before she stopped giving me head. I figured it was only fair since I would kiss her after going down on her.

 

[lovetoread]

And I will tell you another thing, if it meant getting a great blowjob I would be more than happy to swallow half of my load. Hell, I used to kiss her all the time after cumming in her mouth before she stopped giving me head. I figured it was only fair since I would kiss her after going down on her.

That has to be the best thing I have heard. Not many men would do that, nor do alot of them want to go down there after sex either.

 

[juicylips]

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And I will tell you another thing, if it meant getting a great blowjob I would be more than happy to swallow half of my load. Hell, I used to kiss her all the time after cumming in her mouth before she stopped giving me head. I figured it was only fair since I would kiss her after going down on her. [/B]

I really believe that more guys think along these lines than most women believe.
If it is part of the whole lovemaking scheme of things, I think a guy is more apt to do that in the throes of passion.

If it is just a quickie somewhere and that is all there is to it..might be harder to talk him into it.

Personally, It is a HUGE turn on when a guy swallows his cum or shares it with me...but, then again, I think two men together is highly erotic.

Cassidy

 

[PowerOfOne]

Swallow... I need the protein. The question is (to the males) are you willing to receive it in your mouth via my mouth?