spit or swallow

mistyc said:
I love to give head, and swallow. But it would be nice to get something in return.

Jim try 21 years married and my husband doesn't come near me except when he wants me to give him head, Ive been without now for close to a year and am just about ready to pack up and leave home

This is something I've never been able to understand. I love a good blowjob... or any blowjob, since they're all good... ;)
But I also love to lick my partner just as much. When she sucks me, and I don't get the opportunity to lick her, I feel... alomst cheated somehow... It's very hard to have a partner whom you feel is very one sided in a relationship.
 
Anyways, I was intrigued by some of these responses. I'll have to agree with a lot of the ladies out there. I love to have his cock in my mouth...just sucking it, tasting his pre-cum and then swallowing all of it. YUMM....thinking about it makes me wish he was here. :p Honestly, I really think I'm just addicted to his cum.

:rose:~His Flower~:rose:
 
His Flower said:
Anyways, I was intrigued by some of these responses. I'll have to agree with a lot of the ladies out there. I love to have his cock in my mouth...just sucking it, tasting his pre-cum and then swallowing all of it. YUMM....thinking about it makes me wish he was here. :p Honestly, I really think I'm just addicted to his cum.

:rose:~His Flower~:rose:
Wow. Well I wish u could have some of my cum cause I've got plenty right now. And I know u wouldn't waste a drop either, Then maybe I can give u a lending hand ( or lick ).
:devil:
 
tuddy said:
Wow. Well I wish u could have some of my cum cause I've got plenty right now. And I know u wouldn't waste a drop either, Then maybe I can give u a lending hand ( or lick ).
:devil:

:cathappy: heheh...I'm sure you'll find a perfect woman to give you a lending hand...or should I say mouth?

:rose:~His Flower~:rose:
 
swallowing...

you know, its been a long while since a woman swallowed on me. thinking back, i really do miss it! huh, i think about it, but not, when i really think about it...dern!

i think i need to find someone who will! sorry, maybe all that could have been done in my head! LOL

-SnowMedic
 
confused

Don't get me wrong guys...I love to swallow...but honestly, I'm always wondering, what is about women swallowing that you guys like SOOO much? Is it a physical pleasure, psychological pleasure? Just wondering..

:rose:~His Flower~:rose:
 
for me its both...

I'm one of the guys who like a woman to linger once i've gone...some guys i've heard are pretty sensitive afterword, i am, but i like to let the touching continue...

on the Psych side, its the act of swallowing to really let me know she enjoyed what she did. i want a woman to enjoy me as much as i enjoy her. i love the give and the take of both sides of the relationship. seeing a woman swallow lets me know and lets me see and lets me hear that she loved what she did...

but that's just me...

:)

-SnowMedic
 
Re: for me its both...

SnowMedic said:
I'm one of the guys who like a woman to linger once i've gone...some guys i've heard are pretty sensitive afterword, i am, but i like to let the touching continue...

on the Psych side, its the act of swallowing to really let me know she enjoyed what she did. i want a woman to enjoy me as much as i enjoy her. i love the give and the take of both sides of the relationship. seeing a woman swallow lets me know and lets me see and lets me hear that she loved what she did...

but that's just me...

:)

-SnowMedic

Good enough for me. Now are the men out there who doesn't really care if she spits or swallows?

:rose:~His Flower~:rose:
 
Guess I'm odd

I'm not a big one for getting head -- I think it's much much better to give than to receive. I love flicking a clit and thrusting my tongue deep inside. I can usually get my lady off at least once before we bump and grind.

It takes a lot of work for a gal to get me off orally and I get distracted by the effort. It's fine as foreplay, but

I will say the times I've had a lady swallow are the memorable times.

- HG
 
Blowjobs after marriage

Jimbosis said:
Well Nic, I guess you and I are just a couple of the unlucky ones. It sounds like you are thinking exactly the way I do, that if we do nice things for our wives, maybe they will want to do something that is pleasurable for us as well. Its too bad that the wives that are only giving and not receiving and the husbands that are only giving and not receiving didnt know beforehand.


I'm not quite so unlucky, but my wife has definitely cut back on the oral sex over the past couple years. She claims she's afraid her teeth (which are chipped, we haven't gotten the cash to fix them yet) will scratch my dick, which of course would be bad for both of us.... still, I miss it quite a lot. It helps a little that the marriage is open and I'm free to look elsewhere... but most of the women here seem to shy away at the married part.
 
I am one of the fortunate guys who has a wife that loves giving head. Been married for 25 yrs. and it's just as good now as it was at the beginning. She loves for me to be over her on my hands and knees with my cock in her mouth fucking away until I blow my load down her throat. She will always swallow my cum when sucking unless I want to give her a fascial or cum on her tits or where ever. When it is that time of month for her it's bj time for me. And of course I do the same in return for her. When we finish our sexipades we are both very happy campers. We are looking for a bi- fem to satisfy one of our fantasies but have not scored on that end yet. All good things come to who can wait.
 
His Flower, from the guys that I have talked to, it is far more a psychological thing, than an actual physical thing.

The other thing is that over the years, when talking about this with various men, alot of them say that while it is very hard to get off orally, they love it when a partner will finish them orally at the last minute.

I am a swallower by the way.
 
I know I'm cumming into this discusion a bit late but I just wanted to add my 2 cents :)

I simply adore giving head, I miss it terribly. The feeling of his cock in my mouth and knowing that I'm giving such pleasure just about kills me. I wouldn't dream of not swallowing...unless, of course, I was in need of a facial or a skin treatment. ;)
 
I can't remember if I commented in this thread before or not but...
it's impolite to spit ;)
 
From this man's perspective, I'm not sure why you'd want to spit cum, thought it doesn't matter to me if you don't swallow, butthe visual of my cum on her lips, tongue, face, breasts, etc., is extremely erotic... and having her share some of that with me in a long, deep, cum filled wet kiss is simply incredible!
When I lick her driping pussy, the last thing I would do is spit all those delicious juices... I want to taste her... savor her... add my cum to hers, and it's heavenly...
;)
 
I think that some women spit, because some men don't have a very good taste to their cum. I know that for me personally that is a consideration. If he doesn't care enough to try and eat right for me, then why should I try to swallow something that will make me gag.
 
Native Alien said:
I think that some women spit, because some men don't have a very good taste to their cum. I know that for me personally that is a consideration. If he doesn't care enough to try and eat right for me, then why should I try to swallow something that will make me gag.

This is very true, I've found even just drinking more water can make a marked difference in a mans cum. What they eat also helps but I've never experenced awful tasting cum.
 
I can not imagine being married and not having oral sex. It has lead to the best sex for my husband and I, and we have been married for ten years. I love to watch his face when he cums and it tastes wonderful.
 
swallow performance

I love to film my wife giving me head. I think it looks so incredibly sexy when she looks into the camera and jerks me off into her mouth before greedily swallowing every drop - I guess she loves to perform too.
 
Just my 2 cents.....

I happen to love giving head! What the man eats/drinks definitely makes a difference. I don't always swallow, but I don't mind it as long as it tastes good! If he avoids medications and alcohol, it can be very tasty. I do prefer to see it on me instead of swallowing....something about white cum on my brown skin!

Now if I could only find someone in my neck of the woods.....

Brainy Brown Sugar ;)
 
Hexiegirl said:
I can't remember if I commented in this thread before or not but...
it's impolite to spit ;)

I love your attitude Hexie....did I ever tell you that? :kiss:

:rose:~His flower~:rose:
 
Native Alien said:
I think that some women spit, because some men don't have a very good taste to their cum. I know that for me personally that is a consideration. If he doesn't care enough to try and eat right for me, then why should I try to swallow something that will make me gag.

I guess thank goodness for me His cum doesn't make me gag. YUM YUM!

:rose:~His flower~:rose:
 
swallow or spit

Hello All,
I'm new, and shy, but I had to join in.
I love to play with my mans cock, licking and sucking him all around, but I know when the MOMENT comes, he likes me to stick my tongue out just under the rim of his head, and wank him onto my tongue, letting some slide down my face, some dripping onto my breasts, but some sliding down my throat. Then I make an obvious show of swallowing the rest and licking my lips, and of course lap the rest off his cock.

There's always loads and loads, I'd struggle to swallow it all, but I would if thats what he wanted. :p
 
Hmm...

I was just remembering the other day and I dont know if some of you guys tried it before. My girlfriends use to tell me that they would alter the taste of their man's cum by sucking on a mint while giving their man head. It's also suppose to feel better for the guy because it has the sort of cool minty feeling. I don't know...something you guys might want to try :p

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