Spiritual sex

[FatPhim]

Is anyone else interested in the idea of spiritual sex? I envisage something like the complete unification physically, mentally and spiritually to create a mind blowing simultaneous union of souls.

That for me would probably be the closest to heaven we can get on this Earth.

Any thoughts?

 

[magic_rat]

I thought sex was always like that.

 

[AlwaysDancing]

I’ve been thinking a lot about serenity lately because lord knows I need some.

Anyway; serenity requires being fully engaged in the moment. And I think that’s what you’re talking about.

In the moment with your lover. Not thinking about bills. Not thinking about what’s next or what was. Not fantasizing on who you’d rather be fucking.

In the moment.

Feeling your own pleasure. Experiencing your lover’s pleasure. Each heart beat. Each breath. Each moan. Each quiver.

Somewhere, there in that moment is the bliss of heavens you’re talking about.

Hmm. What the hell is in my coffee this morning.

 

[FatPhim]

Yes! That’s a beautiful articulation of exactly what I’m talking about. Mindful. In the moment. Just savoring every feeling and emotion in the experience. No stress or expectation. But also about total acceptance of your lover. As you said, not thinking about who you’d rather be fucking but actually giving your all to the person you’re with.

And I want whatever’s in your coffee

 

[Kenrychard]

Pick up couple of books, Tantric Sex and Kama Sutra. the single best sexual experience of my life occured when my wife and I were practicing what we read there... I felt like our souls had melded...

 

[Jasmine12345]

My idea of spiritual sex is when the partners attract each other emotionally and mentally in a sensual context. When this happens, it may quite likely lead to sexual arousal naturally without any means of external sexual stimulation. And the big O could even be secondary.

 

[FatPhim]

My idea of spiritual sex is when the partners attract each other emotionally and mentally in a sensual context. When this happens, it may quite likely lead to sexual arousal naturally without any means of external sexual stimulation. And the big O could even be secondary.

Yes! I love this way of looking at it. The mental and emotional connection comes first leading to a natural physical attraction.

 

[lowcollar]

The more we sharer our most difficult to accept urges or thoughts in teh bedroom, the more unified we become. Last week, we were in bed for nearly two and a half hours doing all kinds of things. It was majestic.

 

[Jasmine12345]

I see you guys talking about "the moment". I understand how good it is. Any kind of spark, even non-sexual, with another person is wonderful. But, before you get to enjoy the sexual moment with another person, don't you need some kind of mental or emotional attraction (unless you are in an orgy room )? How do 2 strangers get to bed ?

 

[FatPhim]

I see you guys talking about "the moment". I understand how good it is. Any kind of spark, even non-sexual, with another person is wonderful. But, before you get to enjoy the sexual moment with another person, don't you need some kind of mental or emotional attraction (unless you are in an orgy room )? How do 2 strangers get to bed ?

I can only speak for myself. Yes, the emotional spiritual connection for me is worth more than anything. Sex is secondary, but the cherry on the cake. I’m looking for that spiritual connection, everything else to me is a detail

 

[JustinCase1313]

I wish there were more conversations like this.
Don't get me wrong, I believe that this community's preference of words to 'get off' proves a deeper appreciation for the mental connection over simple visual or physical stimulation,
but what about the deeper connection that is needed to make the 'get off' truly satisfying?
Am I alone in wanting to feel fulfilled for as long as possible and not be looking for the next story within a matter of minutes?
I want quality (over quantity) that touches me on a deeper level - read between the lines.

 

[Lucien_Al]

Pick up couple of books, Tantric Sex and Kama Sutra. the single best sexual experience of my life occured when my wife and I were practicing what we read there... I felt like our souls had melded...

We have dabbled in Tantric sex and loved what we have done so far. We just wish there were more people out there to guide you on the journey and the reading material that we have found is quite limited.

 

[Wonderer67]

This is an interesting thread. We learned a little bit about tantric sex practices.

I’m not sure if we’re doing them the right way, because often times we have full blown sex.

We have experienced some intensely close moments and experiences: especially with my wife withholding and controlling my orgasm.

We have experienced many times together of intense personal closeness and the most amazing body contractions that accompany them.

I have wondered (since I’m not sure if we’re practicing this the right way) if it is emanating from my root chakra. Really pleasant sensations and contractions that emanate from deep inside my pelvis.

But some of the things we’ve done and things we’ve felt def feel more on the spiritual side.

 

[Giftboy]

Is anyone else interested in the idea of spiritual sex? I envisage something like the complete unification physically, mentally and spiritually to create a mind blowing simultaneous union of souls.

That for me would probably be the closest to heaven we can get on this Earth.

Any thoughts?

Find yourself a Slutty whore, fill her with cheap vodka, a hot curry and some of my pal, Bertie McGlumphurt’s cunt stimulating cream, and there you go! Mission accomplished.