Sometimes saying hello means saying hello

[Marquis]

well yeah, when i was a young girl there was. isnt that the way it is for everyone?

I think AK answered your question.

 

[Marquis]

Ironically, in my case, the "wrong" hole is the right and vice versa

Do tell!

Pardon me while I get some lube.

 

[Marquis]

I'm way too tight up front.
Anal sex has always been dirtier, more feral and more pleasurable for me.

I am sure once I get used to things in the front, it will be more pleasurable.

As for now, I prefer it in the back

My advice, don't bother with the front.

 

[Marquis]

wahahaha.

one of the best things about buttsex- you can't get pregnant.

Not entirely true. In Latin countries where Catholicism is prevelant, anal sex is often used as a form of contraceptive-free birth control. I can't recall it now, but there is a word for kids born because semen oozed from the ass to the pussy.

Imagine your mom telling you you're one of those kids!

 

[Marquis]

Uh-oh.



Damnit. oh well.

Still feels good

Don't say you weren't warned.

 

[canadiancutie]

It's quite simple for me to keep my virginity intact. I simply think about how *I* would feel, knowing someone I love had fucked someone else... I think about it in detail, and it hurts... but I take that, bottle it up, and use it to keep my own self pure. For me, it's an ultimate expression of love to whomever I may end up being with.

so long story short, you can't get any?

 

[canadiancutie]

Not entirely true. In Latin countries where Catholicism is prevelant, anal sex is often used as a form of contraceptive-free birth control. I can't recall it now, but there is a word for kids born because semen oozed from the ass to the pussy.

Imagine your mom telling you you're one of those kids!

Sodomy is considered a bigger sin than contraceptives so I don't know about that...

 

[Marquis]

so long story short, you can't get any?

LMAO!

 

[Marquis]

Sodomy is considered a bigger sin than contraceptives so I don't know about that...

Nothin but the facts ma'am.

 

[canadiancutie]

Nothin but the facts ma'am.

haha I'll have to tell this to my little sister to bring up in christian ethics class. (We're pretty much the only openly non-christian kids in the school, and the teacher has a problem with this, so we have made it our life mission to make his class difficult. Aparently I'm the anti-christ. Kinda weird considering my name is Christ in latin or whatever)

 

[jasonlf]

so long story short, you can't get any?

As probably most any guy will tell you, you can always get some. It may not be the kind or the way or the person you want, but there's always a girl who'll give it up for a few smooth words.

 

[canadiancutie]

As probably most any guy will tell you, you can always get some. It may not be the kind or the way or the person you want, but there's always a girl who'll give it up for a few smooth words.

except for you. poor you.

 

[Private_Label]

Continuing the hijacking...

well, as the hottest virgin ever, I already lead can't have a sex boss as the leader of a sexless group dear. That being said, you're not canadian

*Feels Canadiancutie's forehead* Your not hot enough yet. Take off your clothes and assume the postion! *waves flogger meaningfully in the air*

Is this our gang or just a wierd group of which's formation I was uninformed?

*looks over at Aeroil with narrowed eyes* You! Recruit! get in formation over here!

I am your Drill instructor... You will refer to me as Ma'am... now you raw recruits...


Um... Killi what do I do next?

 

[canadiancutie]

Um... Killi what do I do next?

....something else?

 

[FurryFury]

I always respond to everyone who sends me a note on CollarMe. I luckily have yet to get any pushy people on there. I've been pleased. All of them but three have just been getting to know you things and that is all I would be interested in.

I'm actually a bit too busy to have long in depth conversations with folks right now. I've had to tell a few, no, I'm not into dominating you. I feel bad cause I think everyone should have that. Hell I want that! I'd even do that if they did me, but I'm not free and you have to put the wood in to get the fire going.

LOL.

Fury

 

[Private_Label]

Just figured I should chime in and say: Virginity is underrated. Don't suddenly get frustrated and decide you don't care who you lose it to, just so you can lose it.

Oh, I'm in no hurry. I figure I've had mine 40 years... a few more wont kill me.
If I really wanted to lose it all I would have to do is go to a few bars and hang out until someone decided that they would hit on me... or I might try shy slave's approach (from the Bad BDSM thead) of talking to a guy for a bit and then say, "so, wanna fuck? Or should I go talk to someone else?"

And if I felt inanimate objects counted, I could say I lost mine to a blanket when I was 5....

 

[FurryFury]

Oh, I'm in no hurry. I figure I've had mine 40 years... a few more wont kill me.
If I really wanted to lose it all I would have to do is go to a few bars and hang out until someone decided that they would hit on me... or I might try shy slave's approach (from the Bad BDSM thead) of talking to a guy for a bit and then say, "so, wanna fuck? Or should I go talk to someone else?"

And if I felt inanimate objects counted, I could say I lost mine to a blanket when I was 5....

Whoa, 40 years of virginity? Damn. I thought 21 years was a lot to make up for. What are you looking for to make it happen "right?" I'm curious now.

Trust me most guys wanna fuck, any opening, any time, that is just a fact.
Most guys won't turn it down. Not that I've ever done that like Shy but I sure as hell know that is true. It would take me about one second to round up a guy or several, if I were so inclined. I'm taken though. *sigh* I'm also actually very shy that way.

Fury

 

[Private_Label]

LOL, I am just puzzled as to the frequency of virgins on a porn board of people most think of as extreme perverts at the very least. How the heck do they survive intact in such an environment...and how do some of them seem to kow so much about all the ins and outs (pun intended), sensations etc., if they have never tried it?

Because we frequent porn boards! LOL
Or call it frustration. by my late 20's I wanted to understand what all the fuss over sex/no sex was and finally bought myself a copy of "The Pearl" and "The Oyster" (victorian erotica) and a vibrator to find out. Having my first orgasm was an eye opener and now I understand why it has such appeal. I mean masterbations felt good before, but nothing I would die without. That was the limit of my perversion until I had a computer with internet access and discovered the wonders of usenet. Again, just to see what all the fuss was about. And I um... liked the thing they were fussing over.
Why I am here and posting - that is because I discovered my sub/dom streak and want to understand myself better (control freak that I am). I can't learn this on the "vanilla" boards.

I suggest we begin physical examinations just to check....think I'll nominate Shadowsdream and Netzach as the leaders and directors of the inspection team. All virgins begin signing up for their in depth, intimate and personal examination.....cookies will be passed out to the waiting line by gracie.

Catalina

No, nononnonno... Wait... Did you say cookies?

 

[rcuhljr]

Because we frequent porn boards!

That may very well be the reason. Not stating a cause and effect per se, but perhaps a correspondance. Simply because you are a virgin doesn't mean you aren't interested in sex.

 

[Private_Label]

tampons are not made of plastic, nor are they the same size as a penis.

Not the tampon themselves but some have a plastic sleeve that is used to insert them. And what does size have to do with the question of penetration. If you want to split hairs then it could easily be argued that someone can claim virginity because no one has a penis that fits her personal definition of how large it has to be to count.

That being the case, then I lost mine to a medication applicator at 12 for a yeast infection. Or a blanket at 5 ... it's all in how you want to define it. My mental "cherry" was popped years ago.

I am choosing to define it as having a real live person inside of me.

 

[FurryFury]

Not the tampon themselves but some have a plastic sleeve that is used to insert them. And what does size have to do with the question of penetration. If you want to split hairs then it could easily be argued that someone can claim virginity because no one has a penis that fits her personal definition of how large it has to be to count.

That being the case, then I lost mine to a medication applicator at 12 for a yeast infection. Or a blanket at 5 ... it's all in how you want to define it. My mental "cherry" was popped years ago.

I am choosing to define it as having a real live person inside of me.

Yep I'm with you on that one PL. I may not have technically had an intact hymen due to tampons, horseback riding or what have you, but I was a
"virgin" until a guy stuck his cock in my vagina and not before.

Then I was an anal virgin until...well you know...

Fury

Still it's awfully surprising how close to the real thing my little fantasies were. Seems my body knew just what it would feel like before I experienced it. Species memories maybe?

 

[TaintedB]

I don't get people at times. Recently I've created an account at Collarme.com and have been messaging a few individuals with the same sort of interests as myself just to learn a bit more about the scene and trade a few techniques and tips. I don't want this to degrade into a rant of any sort, but it seems that some people automatically assume that a rather innocent message and introduction is akin to a pushy come-on.

Take, for example, a simple greeting such as: "Hi! Just checking out your profile and wanted to see if you're up for chatting. I'm new to the whole BDSM thing myself and I'm looking for other newbies with their thoughts and opinions."

Does that sound flirtatious? Does that sound pushy? I don't think so, yet some people tend to believe civil conversation is just one big pick-up line.

Okay, so maybe that did degrade into a rant. Still though, I see it all the time. Attention all women: Sometimes a guy wanting to talk, means exactly what it says.

Okay, I'm done for now.

I agree with what Killi and others have said. The place is intended as a personals site, although people do use it for other kinds of networking, so your greeting is probably going to be taken as something other than what it says, due to the context (the website's nature) in which it is sent. Lots of men use that sort of greeting with women and if they respond positively, the next thing the guy asks is when they can fuck...or something close to that. So of course people are wary, they're used to being fooled. In another sort of place it wouldn't be considered a come-on, but at a personals board, I think you have to make it more explicit that you aren't coming on to someone.

Another way to avoid this reaction is to just contact non-gay men who share your interests and chat with them.

 

[TaintedB]

You have my empathy O'Mac as I have found the same. We do advertise, but we also have approached people who have a similar lifestyle and/or interests outside just D/s with an idea of being friendly and if local, perhaps going out for a drink/dinner and fun chat sometime just as a social thing, no intimate relationship or swapping or sharing involved. LOL, it seems it is usually regarded as a strange thing to want to do for some and obviously must be another way to try and get them interested sexually.....ah, no....most do not fit what we are looking for in that department..chatting would do just fine.

Catalina

Does collarme have many people there from your country? Most of whom I see when I browse hail from the US or Canada.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Not the tampon themselves but some have a plastic sleeve that is used to insert them. And what does size have to do with the question of penetration. If you want to split hairs then it could easily be argued that someone can claim virginity because no one has a penis that fits her personal definition of how large it has to be to count.

That being the case, then I lost mine to a medication applicator at 12 for a yeast infection. Or a blanket at 5 ... it's all in how you want to define it. My mental "cherry" was popped years ago.

I am choosing to define it as having a real live person inside of me.

using an applicator for a tampon or medication isnt what i was talking about and how the fuck can you penetrate yourself with a blanket? i dunno. i would say that if you are fucking yourself with a vibrator or dildo that your virgin "status" no longer exists.


btw... here is my def of virgin because as we know, not everyone is intact physically. someone inexperienced or someone who never has felt something penetrate them in a sexual way... so ya wanna keep splitting hairs darlin'?

 

[Netzach]

My definitions are probably not that uncommon, but anyways, here goes.

I consider men virgins until their cock has been in a human vagina, mouth or ass.

Women are virgins until their vagina, mouth or ass has been penetrated by a cock.

That's really it. But I also believe that to an extent there are physical and mental/spiritual virginities. But I probably shouldn't go into that, it could take all night.

There are some serious lesbian virgins out there who are having much better sex than I am then.