Someone please explain the male mind

[PacificBlue]

If a woman sleeps with a man because she wants to, early on, why is she considered easy?

If a woman doesn't sleep with a man because she wants to get to know him better, why is she considered a tease?

How do you get to the happy medium?

 

[glamorilla]

beer.

 

[bknight2602]

Sleep witj me and then we'll disscuss it!

I think that labels are put on people to try and put them down, categorize them.

I never thought that of any woman personally.

 

[red_rose]

Here's how I usually explain the male mind to other women:

Take whatever you're thinking he's thinking... and then simplify it until you've stopped overanalyzing everything.

As for the sex thing... I say wait a few dates. By then you should know if he's worthy of being taken to bed.

 

[red_rose]

beer.

That, too.

 

[Nora]

It's very simple, PB.

The vast majority of men want to stick their dicks into whatever hole is most convenient. They don't particularly care all that much what that hole is attached to, so long as it doesn't give them any trouble.

The fun part is where they try to convince you that they're really not like that. That they're really and truly one of the oh-so-minute minority of men who are not scum. Usually this is accompanied by sad puppy-dog eyes and pseudo-sincerity.

The moment a female gives them any sort of inconvenience regarding sticking tab A into slot B, then there's something wrong with the aforementioned female. According to them.

 

[PacificBlue]

Here's how I usually explain the male mind to other women:

Take whatever you're thinking he's thinking... and then simplify it until you've stopped overanalyzing everything.

As for the sex thing... I say wait a few dates. By then you should know if he's worthy of being taken to bed.

But what if you want more than a few dates? Say... "three". Why is "three" the magic number and if you haven't put out by then your suddenly a tease? Is this a West Coast thing or is there a memo I missed?

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

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[PacificBlue]

It's very simple, PB.

The vast majority of men want to stick their dicks into whatever hole is most convenient. They don't particularly care all that much what that hole is attached to, so long as it doesn't give them any trouble.

The fun part is where they try to convince you that they're really not like that. That they're really and truly one of the oh-so-minute minority of men who are not scum. Usually this is accompanied by sad puppy-dog eyes and pseudo-sincerity.

The moment a female gives them any sort of inconvenience regarding sticking tab A into slot B, then there's something wrong with the aforementioned female. According to them.

I've learned that "Let's go have a drink" means..."Let's go wrestle in my car and I'll lay on top of you and try to talk you into sex".

How did men learn to move so fucking fast anyway?

 

[Shaq]

If a woman sleeps with a man because she wants to, early on, why is she considered easy?

If a woman doesn't sleep with a man because she wants to get to know him better, why is she considered a tease?

How do you get to the happy medium?

I don't think a woman delaying sex makes her a tease at all. Deliberate actions meant to sexually excite without any intent of sexual stimulation makes one a tease.

 

[red_rose]

But what if you want more than a few dates? Say... "three". Why is "three" the magic number and if you haven't put out by then your suddenly a tease? Is this a West Coast thing or is there a memo I missed?

It seems different with every guy, to be honest. I just say not on the first date... unless you're looking for a fling. (That's not always the result, but if he's that into you on the first date, he'll be back. If all he wanted was sex, he mightnot.)

An interesting situation came up with a co-worker a few years back. She told me the story just yesterday.

Apparently the guy she is now living with (been together for 5 years now!) was originally only after her for a piece of ass. lol He told her - many years later - that her not giving it up caused him to keep coming back. After a while, he was so crazy about her that he didn't care about the fact that she still hadn't slept with him. (She waited 2 months.)

Granted, not all men are that patient. lol

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

It's very simple, PB.

The vast majority of men want to stick their dicks into whatever hole is most convenient. They don't particularly care all that much what that hole is attached to, so long as it doesn't give them any trouble.

The fun part is where they try to convince you that they're really not like that. That they're really and truly one of the oh-so-minute minority of men who are not scum. Usually this is accompanied by sad puppy-dog eyes and pseudo-sincerity.

The moment a female gives them any sort of inconvenience regarding sticking tab A into slot B, then there's something wrong with the aforementioned female. According to them.

No, I'm really one of those nice guys, I swear!!! Actually, I'm just so used to not getting any sex that i usually masturbate twice before a date...imagine my horror when a woman is actually willing to give me sex, and I'm trying for my 4th orgasm of teh evening...at least I don't go off immediately!

Men are pretty stupid about sex, i'll admit it. If you are interesting, I can go about 6 months with no sex and no explanation. Any further and I assume I'm doing something wrong.

 

[PacificBlue]

Re: Re: Someone please explain the male mind

I don't think a woman delaying sex makes her a tease at all. Deliberate actions meant to sexually excite without any intent of sexual stimulation makes one a tease.

I know the difference. Is it maybe used as a "guilt" tool? There are times when I've been very deliberate with my intention but I was also very ready to follow through.

 

[Guest]

I think that labels are put on people to try and put them down, categorize them.

I never thought that of any woman personally.

same here but some are convinced that I hate women
I am a nice guy but nice guys finish last.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Oh, and I NEVER beg for sex. It's bad enough not to be getting any, but to be horny and pathetic is too much for me to bear!

 

[glamorilla]

if a guy is going to judge you becouse you slept with him than he's not the right guy for you and you shouldn't care what he thinks. when the time is right the time is right and if youre with the right guy he wont be anything except there for more.

 

[PacificBlue]

Thank you.

Pressing on now. Please let this thread die a peaceful death.

 

[Aquila]

this thread shall never die.

MUAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Nope!

 

[Shaq]

Re: Re: Re: Someone please explain the male mind

Let's stab this thread to death like in the climax of Westside Story.

 

[Shaq]

I've never seen Westside story by the way but I think some kinda stabbing occurs...

 

[Cyberguy]

Because women want to have babies.

Not all of them, but enough to make a difference. Because women who want to have babies want the babies to have a father that will be around and help raise the child for the next eighteen years. So they want some commitment from a guy before they do something with him that could create a baby.

Guys are the other hand, generally aren't so concerned with the baby aspect. After all, they always have the option of walking away, denying paternity, etc. There focus is more on stroking their egos by proving they can get a woman into bed.

Thus, women that are willing to go to bed with a guy early on is, by definition, easy. Why she chooses to do so doesn't matter. If she isn't willing, then calling her a tease is a ploy to achieve the goal of getting her into bed. Plan A didn't work, so go to plan B, make her feel guilty.

Not all guys think this way. Of course, those that do are getting laid, and those that don't are surfing the web on a Saturday night

 

[PacificBlue]

Because women want to have babies.

Not all of them, but enough to make a difference. Because women who want to have babies want the babies to have a father that will be around and help raise the child for the next eighteen years. So they want some commitment from a guy before they do something with him that could create a baby.

Guys are the other hand, generally aren't so concerned with the baby aspect. After all, they always have the option of walking away, denying paternity, etc. There focus is more on stroking their egos by proving they can get a woman into bed.

Thus, women that are willing to go to bed with a guy early on is, by definition, easy. Why she chooses to do so doesn't matter. If she isn't willing, then calling her a tease is a ploy to achieve the goal of getting her into bed. Plan A didn't work, so go to plan B, make her feel guilty.

Not all guys think this way. Of course, those that do are getting laid, and those that don't are surfing the web on a Saturday night

I don't want a baby. I want a lover.

 

[phrodeau]

I've never seen Westside story by the way but I think some kinda stabbing occurs...

Two stabbings, one accidental, one in retaliation, not the climax.
Climax is a murder by gunshot.

 

[Guest]

What is to explain most guy if they want to go to bed with you are only looking for sex

Other guys like me will wait till the gal says she wants to go to bed

I how ever waited till I was 27 for my first time