Soft / Hard Limits

[MyNameIsNO]

I see we must be very specific with the cookie

 

[MyNameIsNO]

If it was something like Locks of Love I may consider it but it wouldn't be some big thing and it wouldn't be shaved. Cut down to a pixie cut and straightened and relaxed. And no sedation. I'd want to be awake and aware and watching.

 

[Farawyn]

Farawyn if you seriously think I would ever hurt a hair on your head you do not know me as well as I thought you did

Psssh, I was playing.

If it was something like Locks of Love I may consider it but it wouldn't be some big thing and it wouldn't be shaved. Cut down to a pixie cut and straightened and relaxed. And no sedation. I'd want to be awake and aware and watching.

This is a hard limit for me. Sorry. You will not cut your hair.
*bag goes back over my head*

 

[NoeMasks]

If it was something like Locks of Love I may consider it but it wouldn't be some big thing and it wouldn't be shaved. Cut down to a pixie cut and straightened and relaxed. And no sedation. I'd want to be awake and aware and watching.

Honestly Baby Girl, I hate the Idea, of you cutting your hair, that short, but if it was for the Kids...

 

[MyNameIsNO]

Psssh, I was playing.



This is a hard limit for me. Sorry. You will not cut your hair.
*bag goes back over my head*

Wait, how is MY hair a hard limit for YOU.

Honestly Baby Girl, I hate the Idea, of you cutting your hair, that short, but if it was for the Kids...

I know, you fell in love with my hair first.

 

[NoeMasks]

I know, you fell in love with my hair first.

No I fell in love with the Enigma, hiding behind the hair first.

 

[Farawyn]

Honestly Baby Girl, I hate the Idea, of you cutting your hair, that short, but if it was for the Kids...

Oh, fuck that. Go raise awareness some other way!

Wait, how is MY hair a hard limit for YOU.

It just is.

Is that not allowed?

 

[NoeMasks]

Oh, fuck that. Go raise awareness some other way!

I was about to get preachy, but no, I think you are trying to get a rise out of me.

To Clarify though, for those who do not know, Locks of Love, accepts Hair Donations, to be made into high quality human hair wigs, for children undergoing Chemo. They can use both Head and long Facial Hair, please next time you get you hair cut, ask if the shop is a Locks of Love Contribuitor, and Fuck Cancer!

 

[MyNameIsNO]

Oh, fuck that. Go raise awareness some other way!



It just is.

Is that not allowed?

Hey just curious

 

[cookiecat]

I prefer to have a yes list, and negotiate anything radically new than have a hard limits list.

This is an interesting idea. I've usually worked with a NO list because I feel that's shorter.

Hard limits:

gangbangs
being shared
bestiality
don't shave eyebrows
no overt public exhibitionism / humiliation
don't tell me what to wear in vanilla settings (lingerie ok. not clothing or shoes)

I never thought about adding drama but... that seems a good one for every relationship.

 

[Farawyn]

This is an interesting idea. I've usually worked with a NO list because I feel that's shorter.

Hard limits:

gangbangs
being shared
bestiality
don't shave eyebrows
no overt public exhibitionism / humiliation
don't tell me what to wear in vanilla settings (lingerie ok. not clothing or shoes)

I never thought about adding drama but... that seems a good one for every relationship.

Eyebrows. Hmm...

 

[Farawyn]

I was about to get preachy, but no, I think you are trying to get a rise out of me.

To Clarify though, for those who do not know, Locks of Love, accepts Hair Donations, to be made into high quality human hair wigs, for children undergoing Chemo. They can use both Head and long Facial Hair, please next time you get you hair cut, ask if the shop is a Locks of Love Contribuitor, and Fuck Cancer!

I was just being a NO fangrrrrrl.

 

[MyNameIsNO]

I had this big long thing typed up and I accidentally hit something and it all erased.

Fucking hell.

 

[MyNameIsNO]

I was just being a NO fangrrrrrl.

I think he just wanted to use the phrase "get a rise out of me"

 

[CutieMouse]

This is an interesting idea. I've usually worked with a NO list because I feel that's shorter.

Hard limits:

gangbangs
being shared
bestiality
don't shave eyebrows
no overt public exhibitionism / humiliation
don't tell me what to wear in vanilla settings (lingerie ok. not clothing or shoes)

I never thought about adding drama but... that seems a good one for every relationship.

Huh... just remembered another one. Don't fuck with my lingerie.

Don't pick it out.
Don't tell me what to wear.
Don't damage it.
Don't even think of tossing it in a heap on the floor.
Don't suggest ripping/cutting it off me.
Don't joke about it only staying on for 5 seconds/what's the point?
Just.Don't. It won't end well.

Respect the lace, and everyone stays happy.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I have no idea, really.

Off the top of my head I would say

NO Tickling.

Just for that, I'm going to make sure to get you firmly tied down to a bed, then approach you slowly with a long feather.

 

[MyNameIsNO]

"Daddy, these scrubs are getting worn out. I think we need to do a rape scene with them."

*giggles gleefully*

 

[NoeMasks]

"Daddy, these scrubs are getting worn out. I think we need to do a rape scene with them."

*giggles gleefully*

Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[SalvDali]

Hard Limits:
shit
breath play
blood
urine
any closed fist hitting
any hitting in the face
humiliation

Soft:
non-monogamy
CNC

Rimming used to be a hard limit for me... I will just leave it at that

I am sure things will change some with time considering we are both new to this.

 

[MastersDelight]

Ugh yeah no rimming, giving or receiving.

 

[bob53]

This TEDx talk really drove home my thoughts on limits and consent.
Failing to keep true to your word is also a major deal breaker for me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOSU7B8iR-Q

 

[xxxSubSamxxx]

This TEDx talk really drove home my thoughts on limits and consent.
Failing to keep true to your word is also a major deal breaker for me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOSU7B8iR-Q

People can change their mind for multiple reasons so holding someone to their word can be rather harsh, but I haven't watched to youtube yet so I may have grasped the wrong end of the stick xx

 

[xxxSubSamxxx]

This TEDx talk really drove home my thoughts on limits and consent.
Failing to keep true to your word is also a major deal breaker for me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOSU7B8iR-Q

I have watched it now. The guy was in the wrong, he raped her full stop. She did not want intercourse for multiple reasons and he did not want to wear a condom, but he wanted unprotected sex and he took it. He did not stick to his word, he raped her and others too.

She is true to her word, I doubt he is though.

Sam xx

 

[gracie920101]

I was about to get preachy, but no, I think you are trying to get a rise out of me.

To Clarify though, for those who do not know, Locks of Love, accepts Hair Donations, to be made into high quality human hair wigs, for children undergoing Chemo. They can use both Head and long Facial Hair, please next time you get you hair cut, ask if the shop is a Locks of Love Contribuitor, and Fuck Cancer!

And if you have a few grays mixed in, please don't be disappointed that some little girl won't get your hair. They won't ever use any with gray for wigs. However, they will sell your hair to help defray costs for making the wigs.

I was crushed to find this out when I donated 42" of my hair thinking three little girls would be really happy but I'm sure there was enough there to help make a few.