So, um.

[Island_Barbarian]

Hi Snow,

You never mentioned you got married? Anyway, I think you are not really that into him if you feel the need to cheat and surf Literotica at the same time. Just my point of view though and each of us is different.

From a morale standpoint, I think the "all's fair in love and war" is the motto, but if you are that promiscuous, you might be exposing him to risks and that is not fair...unless you real feel these guys are low risk....which would probably only be the case if you are screwing the whole computer club.

Barbarian

 

[bigbear75]

I'm pretty new here but, am convinced this chick is either full of shit or fully retarded. It's not cheating if you don't have an orgasm? Really? You really thought that? C'mon, nobody is that stupid. If your story is for real then please go get yourself sterilized so you don't breed something dumber than you.

 

[BiteMePlease70]

I'm new as well.

Anyway, I was shocked at the posts calling this person out. Everyone is so nice here and welcoming. I guess there have been hoax posts before and now Lit readers can smell them from a mile away.

 

[bigbear75]

I'm new and the bullshitometer is going off the charts. I've been trolling these forums for a bit now before I registered and started posting. There are so many really nice and honest people around here that it's just a shame to have goofy people come in here to ruin it. If the op wants to write fiction then fine, write some fiction. Just don't write something that's asinine and pass it off as real.

And if by some magical force it turns out to be true? Can somebody actually be that brainless and still function in society?

 

[jdc38]

I'm pretty new here but, am convinced this chick is either full of shit or fully retarded. It's not cheating if you don't have an orgasm? Really? You really thought that? C'mon, nobody is that stupid. If your story is for real then please go get yourself sterilized so you don't breed something dumber than you.

I think she is attending Bill Clinton University!

 

[XsnowbunnyX]

I was being completely honest, and I still am. It's not like I could tell one of my friends "Hey um, so why do you think I haven't climaxed lately" so I came to Lit with it. There's no need to be mean, really.

 

[Erosian]

We're not being mean, at least not me. It's just that if you're in college, have gotten married, etc. It's really difficult to accept that logic of "if I didn't orgasm, it doesn't count" mentality.

 

[XsnowbunnyX]

We're not being mean, at least not me. It's just that if you're in college, have gotten married, etc. It's really difficult to accept that logic of "if I didn't orgasm, it doesn't count" mentality.

That was wrong of me to say. I didn't mean, it didn't count as cheating if I don't orgasm. I had meant, I decided consciously to cheat once and get the urge to cheat out of my system, but because I hadn't climaxed, the urge didn't go away, so I didn't stop.

 

[XXX_Daddy]

That was wrong of me to say. I didn't mean, it didn't count as cheating if I don't orgasm. I had meant, I decided consciously to cheat once and get the urge to cheat out of my system, but because I hadn't climaxed, the urge didn't go away, so I didn't stop.

Baby, as long as you cheat and get away with it, you're probably going to do it again... You haven't experienced any concequences for your actions...

But speaking as a married guy I have been tempted, and even offered, free secret, no strings sex.... I've just never been able to go through with it.

 

[Snuggle Bunz]

I was being completely honest, and I still am. It's not like I could tell one of my friends "Hey um, so why do you think I haven't climaxed lately" so I came to Lit with it. There's no need to be mean, really.

O_O
I tell me friends stuff like that...why cant you? They aren't open and accepting?
If I were you i'd tell your guy...or let him go. It isn't fair to either of you to be in a relationship like that. You obviously aren't getting what u need from him, and clearly he isn't getting your full heart and loyalty.

 

[welikeu]

I think you are not being truthful to us. You continue this cheating because you like the sex. For some reason, you are beginning to regret what you are doing so you are using this to justify in your mind that it is ok for you to continue having sexual pleasures with others. The truth be known, you are in fact achieving orgasm and you like it. Question is, are you going to continue until caught, stop or simply break off your relationship with your boyfriend?

 

[brummiesteve]

Guys, can we give Snowbunny some support.
All she wanted was advice not a social concious.

I'm pretty sure that no everyone on these forums are faithful.
Give her a break, I say.

 

[pornobob69]

If you were actually stimulated by the adrenaline you get from engaging in this risky and naughty behavior, your body would respond by making easier, not more difficult for you to climax. You're just not mentally in a place where you want to cheat on him, and you know it on a level that's not very obvious.


Or all of those guys are terrible lovers who knew it was a one time thing and didn't really put in the necessary effort.

Man, wish more married women I know needed to get this out of their system

 

[Guest]

Brief background. I got married a few months ago, happily. I love my husband. I'm in college though, and I've decided to live on campus instead of commuting. It's all good, right?

Except there was this guy. A cute guy. And I was maybe possibly a tiny bit unfaithful. But I didn't climax when I had sex with him, so in my mind, it didn't count as cheating.

And neither did the next five.

So, yeah. I've cheated on my husband with six different gentlemen in the past two weeks and I'm not ashamed, because I haven't freaking climaxed, so it feels like I'm torturing myself more than having an affair.

I can climax with my husband, no problem. So I was wondering if someone has an idea as to why I can't climax with anyone else. These guys are fairly cute. I was horny when I was with them. But I can't climax.

Help.

I'd say either you're having a laugh and playing a joke.... or a really self-absorbed nasty person.

You cheated on your husband with SIX men in a few months and try to rationalise it by the fact you didn't cum.

I sincerely hope you're just trying to get people annoyed by spouting this crap, otherwise you need help and your husband needs to get shot of you as soon as he possibly can.

 

[XsnowbunnyX]

Guys, can we give Snowbunny some support.
All she wanted was advice not a social concious.

I'm pretty sure that no everyone on these forums are faithful.
Give her a break, I say.

Thank you.

If you were actually stimulated by the adrenaline you get from engaging in this risky and naughty behavior, your body would respond by making easier, not more difficult for you to climax. You're just not mentally in a place where you want to cheat on him, and you know it on a level that's not very obvious.


Or all of those guys are terrible lovers who knew it was a one time thing and didn't really put in the necessary effort.

Man, wish more married women I know needed to get this out of their system

I get it. Cheating is something I thought I wanted to do, but obviously I'm just not really into it, and it was a bad idea. Thank you

 

[MisterSir]

Guys, can we give Snowbunny some support.
All she wanted was advice not a social concious.

I'm pretty sure that no everyone on these forums are faithful.
Give her a break, I say.

She's not going to fuck you, no matter how hard you defend the indefensible.

 

[Wyldfire]

Thank you.



I get it. Cheating is something I thought I wanted to do, but obviously I'm just not really into it, and it was a bad idea. Thank you

You going to fess up to the Hubby?

 

[SexyCleric]

I can climax with my husband, no problem. So I was wondering if someone has an idea as to why I can't climax with anyone else. These guys are fairly cute. I was horny when I was with them. But I can't climax.

Help.

Leaving morality at the door, as I often do, I'd just ask why bother fucking around with other guys if your husband can get you off?

If it seems like torture, why do it?

 

[Wyldfire]

Leaving morality at the door, as I often do, I'd just ask why bother fucking around with other guys if your husband can get you off?

If it seems like torture, why do it?

Cause she's a dumb cuntbunny.

 

[SexyCleric]

Cause she's a dumb cuntbunny.

I'd never heard of a cuntbunny before...

Oh well.

Snow, I'd recommend that you spend some time figuring out whatcha want. If your hubby lights your fire, stick with him. If the thrill of the cheating is what you want, stick with that.

Or, perhaps, tell hubby what happened, and perhaps the two of you should talk about swinging.

 

[Wyldfire]

I'd never heard of a cuntbunny before...

Oh well.

Snow, I'd recommend that you spend some time figuring out whatcha want. If your hubby lights your fire, stick with him. If the thrill of the cheating is what you want, stick with that.

Or, perhaps, tell hubby what happened, and perhaps the two of you should talk about swinging.

Or about him beginning the use of full body condoms to keep his health safe from her.

 

[SexyCleric]

Or about him beginning the use of full body condoms to keep his health safe from her.

Because I looooove playing devil's advocate, who said she didn't use protection?

 

[Paradick1]

You going to fess up to the Hubby?

That would be as stupid as her behavior. If shes done then let it lie. Why rub the poor bastards face in it ?

Now what gets me is "Hubby" paying the bill for her fucking around. That would be worse than her screwing everybody in sight !

para

 

[Wyldfire]

Because I looooove playing devil's advocate, who said she didn't use protection?

Six times at what percentage per time? Once I can forgive. Six times and she's begging to catch something he isn't gonna want.

 

[Wyldfire]

That would be as stupid as her behavior. If shes done then let it lie. Why rub the poor bastards face in it ?

Now what gets me is "Hubby" paying the bill for her fucking around. That would be worse than her screwing everybody in sight !

para

That would be fair to him Para. He deserves to know, so he can deside if he wants to keep the cheating whorebag or not. Once is a mistake. More than once is intent and she can't love him as much as she claims to.