So, um.

[XsnowbunnyX]

Brief background. I got married a few months ago, happily. I love my husband. I'm in college though, and I've decided to live on campus instead of commuting. It's all good, right?

Except there was this guy. A cute guy. And I was maybe possibly a tiny bit unfaithful. But I didn't climax when I had sex with him, so in my mind, it didn't count as cheating.

And neither did the next five.

So, yeah. I've cheated on my husband with six different gentlemen in the past two weeks and I'm not ashamed, because I haven't freaking climaxed, so it feels like I'm torturing myself more than having an affair.

I can climax with my husband, no problem. So I was wondering if someone has an idea as to why I can't climax with anyone else. These guys are fairly cute. I was horny when I was with them. But I can't climax.

Help.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

I would guess because you ARE cheating on him and you know it. When you cum, in general you cum because you are happy and relaxed.....you obviously are not. Stop screwing around on the husband you profess to love and get on with your schooling.

Funnily enough.....it aint feckin rocket science.

 

[wayfarm]

Brief background. I got married a few months ago, happily. I love my husband. I'm in college though, and I've decided to live on campus instead of commuting. It's all good, right?

Except there was this guy. A cute guy. And I was maybe possibly a tiny bit unfaithful. But I didn't climax when I had sex with him, so in my mind, it didn't count as cheating.

And neither did the next five.

So, yeah. I've cheated on my husband with six different gentlemen in the past two weeks and I'm not ashamed, because I haven't freaking climaxed, so it feels like I'm torturing myself more than having an affair.

I can climax with my husband, no problem. So I was wondering if someone has an idea as to why I can't climax with anyone else. These guys are fairly cute. I was horny when I was with them. But I can't climax.

Help.

Does he know about the five? Gotta be honest with him. It is your best chance at living the life you want.

 

[77817]

But I didn't climax when I had sex with him, so in my mind, it didn't count as cheating.

Hi, I'm from Earth. Where are you from?

 

[orgamimime]

That is quite the quandry...

Brief background. I got married a few months ago, happily. I love my husband. I'm in college though, and I've decided to live on campus instead of commuting. It's all good, right?

Except there was this guy. A cute guy. And I was maybe possibly a tiny bit unfaithful. But I didn't climax when I had sex with him, so in my mind, it didn't count as cheating.

And neither did the next five.

So, yeah. I've cheated on my husband with six different gentlemen in the past two weeks and I'm not ashamed, because I haven't freaking climaxed, so it feels like I'm torturing myself more than having an affair.

I can climax with my husband, no problem. So I was wondering if someone has an idea as to why I can't climax with anyone else. These guys are fairly cute. I was horny when I was with them. But I can't climax.

Help.

 

[liquen]

it's called guilt. you know you've been cheating on him.

 

[XsnowbunnyX]

I would guess because you ARE cheating on him and you know it. When you cum, in general you cum because you are happy and relaxed.....you obviously are not. Stop screwing around on the husband you profess to love and get on with your schooling.

Funnily enough.....it aint feckin rocket science.

Does he know about the five? Gotta be honest with him. It is your best chance at living the life you want.

it's called guilt. you know you've been cheating on him.

I know, and I know I come off as a total bitch. But I've been looking at other guys and stuff, and I decided that if I just cheated on him once and had fun, I'd get over my urge and move on. But I didn't climax, so one guy led to the next... Gahh.

 

[chelleb]

Then perhaps you are too young to have gotten married.

 

[alekhorn]

maybe because you are being a lil cheating whore?

 

[TallMan60]

I know, and I know I come off as a total bitch. But I've been looking at other guys and stuff, and I decided that if I just cheated on him once and had fun, I'd get over my urge and move on. But I didn't climax, so one guy led to the next... Gahh.

You may want to reconsider your definition of cheating. I define it as something that I would be happily willing to do in the presence of my wife, and she would be OK with it. I think that's pretty close to the standard definition. If you thought about that, then perhaps your actions were cheating long before you had a man's cock up in you, regardless of your climax. I agree with the other posters that your body knows what's going on. Some people want to cheat and find cheating sexy and hot, they will climax. But you are not one of those. Sorry.

 

[drksentinel1]

ok, all moral quandry aside, well most moral quandries aside, i cant get over the idea of how amusing the internal monologue must be.

"ok, so i'm here at school, away from my husband, so i can focus on school work. awesome. wait... he's cute... doh, now i have the urge to cheat...

maybe, just maybe if i let one slip by the gates, i'll get it out of my system for the rest of my time married to my loving husband, who i love so much. i'm really doing this for us, so i wont be tempted later. because i love him and he loves me...

gosh this guy is cute... oh, and he's so charming, oh golly, my panties are on the floor! and i'm on my back! well, i'll have one little fling and call it a day.

oh gosh darn it, i didnt orgasm with him. this is not the fulfilling infidelity i imagined. i'll just have to keep going until i get it right..."

*two weeks later*

"gee whilickers! six different cute, handsome men, and i still havent managed to have a proper orgasm while cheating on my husband. you know, so i can work through this cheating thing with one quick fling. because i love my husband so much. and he loves me. i definitely need to remedy this problem so that the next guy i sleep with that isnt my husband does the job properly so that i can get this cheating thing over and done with. SO! i'll ask for help. because people are so helpful. and i really need their help to fix this problem so that i dont cheat on my husband later on in our marriage. because i love him so much. and he loves me."

Miss, or Missus, i should say, i have no right to judge you. not just because of my own personal morality, but because i've done things far worse than cheating on a spouse, so i can't really throw stones. but let me say, i think you're awesome, and applaud your efforts. this is one of the most remarkable tales of human behavior i've encountered.

so please allow me to say thank you for the entertainment. and while i won't encourage you to continue your current behavior, i do hope you engage in something else wacky and nonsensical (at least to me, but then, i may be the one who's cracked if i find this unusual), and that you give me the privilege of hearing about it in the future.

 

[Wyldfire]

Gaaahhhhhhh! And I looked at this thread willingly! Another cheating bitch! And she doesn't think it's cheating.

My advice? Tell him honestly what you did and line hime up with an equal number of broads as slutty as you are and watch him fuck them. After that see if your marriage lasts. Bets he'll do them all and brag how much better they are than you and then walk on you.

Just damned glad you're young and there are no kids involved. There are no kids right?

 

[johnyboi]

Honestly, I think this is completely fake. It's just too stupid to be real.

Then again, I've been wrong before....

 

[LVsincity]

Like others have said, you feel guilty. Let him have sex with 6 women on the condition he cant climax. Of course you will be ok with this since its not cheating.

Once the scores even, like magic your guilt will go away, and you can go about climaxing again. Blessings to your wonderful marriage.

 

[ManLooking]

maybe it's time to talk to the health nurse or your dr about getting some testing done... 43% od sexually active women under 21 have chlamidia. pray it's only chlamidia.

 

[kaycee217]

So you've arguably cheated with 6 different men (not including your husband), and you're wondering why you can't climax with those 6 men?

I'm with johnyboi, I suspect the OP's post is fake.

 

[Erosian]

Go for six more?

 

[IluvBust]

i love naughty girls

 

[Phall82]

Wow

After reading this post I feel I've grown dumber. :caning:

 

[welikeu]

And a BLOW JOB is not SEX just like Smoking Mary Jane and not inhaling is legal too....LMFAO. Where is your campus; the wife and I want to both enjoy sex with you...

Brief background. I got married a few months ago, happily. I love my husband. I'm in college though, and I've decided to live on campus instead of commuting. It's all good, right?

Except there was this guy. A cute guy. And I was maybe possibly a tiny bit unfaithful. But I didn't climax when I had sex with him, so in my mind, it didn't count as cheating.

And neither did the next five.

So, yeah. I've cheated on my husband with six different gentlemen in the past two weeks and I'm not ashamed, because I haven't freaking climaxed, so it feels like I'm torturing myself more than having an affair.

I can climax with my husband, no problem. So I was wondering if someone has an idea as to why I can't climax with anyone else. These guys are fairly cute. I was horny when I was with them. But I can't climax.

Help.

 

[XsnowbunnyX]

Okay, now I really do feel worse. Thanks for trying to help, the ones that did. I never thought it wasn't cheating, and he wasn't faithful when we were dating, but I always was... so I figured, okay, since I've been tempted lately, I'll do it once and get it out of my system. But because I didn't climax, it didn't get out of my system, and I had several repeat offenses.

I guess my body is more of a "good girl" than my conscience is

 

[wehstar]

Okay, now I really do feel worse. Thanks for trying to help, the ones that did. I never thought it wasn't cheating, and he wasn't faithful when we were dating, but I always was... so I figured, okay, since I've been tempted lately, I'll do it once and get it out of my system. But because I didn't climax, it didn't get out of my system, and I had several repeat offenses.

I guess my body is more of a "good girl" than my conscience is

You know I really don't like to say this, I really don't, but honestly I read your post earlier on and thought that your behaviour was terrible. I'm thinking about deleting this as I type, because this site is about being open and honest and shouldn't be about bashing people - but it really is cheating and I'm glad you accept that.

I really shouldn't interfere - but if he is screwing around, and he was screwing around, and knowing from life experience that leopards don't change their spots, I really do have concerns about where your life will lead and where the marriage is going. OK more than enough said - I hope your life works out happy and that your marriage wasn't a mistake.

 

[sammcnamara]

Out of interest other than the body being a good girl why haven't you climaxed...seems a bit of a waste after all your aswell being hung for a sheep as a lamb.

 

[Cymruguy]

No idea, but now I wish I went to your University

 

[Snuggle Bunz]

Ew...
Darlin he wont apreciate the lil' prezzies your cooch brings home...